http://techmart.com/~cubit/Cubit_5_25_2005.JPG
When I look at pictures like this, I am surprised at seeing that I am still
overweight. After 18 months I feel I should be slim already.
Intellectually, I understand where I am on the journey, but that does not
match my internal self-image.
Cubit
311/169.4/165
nanner - 27 May 2005 22:00 GMT
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Wow! Well, I'll tell ya - you may still be overweight but no one would ever
think it if they saw you walking down the street. It must be a drastic
change - how about a Before/After pic. It would surely inspire some newbies.
And myself too- in the time I've been taking to lose 50 lbs you have halved
your body weight!!
Good job!!
Jim Bard - 28 May 2005 04:24 GMT
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What nanner said. And I've had this conversation with low-carb people
locally, and I believe also here.
Body image is a personal concept. We see far more flaws within ourselves
than others ever do, mostly because other people are too busy worrying about
their flaws to spend much time noticing ours.
Once you develop the "fat" self-concept, it's almost as hard to lose that as
it is for a smoker to quit cigarettes. You won't see yourself, on your
weight-loss trip as going from obese, to somewhat fat to chunky to filled.
Until you find yourself being almost literally skin and bones, many tend to
think they are still fat.
I don't have a solution for that, except to pick the target weight that you
feel is right for you, and anything above that is overweight. Not
necessarily fat, just overweight.
I take it you are not yet at your target weight, but your picture suggests
someone who is in a normal weight range. Look at all you have gained from
what you have lost.
Hannah Gruen - 28 May 2005 11:15 GMT
> I take it you are not yet at your target weight, but your picture suggests
> someone who is in a normal weight range.
I agree. Cubit, you look to me like someone in within the "normal" weight
range. One thing, when you lose a lot of weight it takes longer for the skin
to catch up, so people often have little rolls of skin and some loose skin
that can make them feel less than totally slim. Also, are you exercising
much? I know that exercise, especially resistance exercise, makes a big
difference even when your weight is near-optimal according to the charts.
HG
JC Der Koenig - 28 May 2005 16:55 GMT
And yet you think exercise has no part to play in this situation?

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Lass Chance - 29 May 2005 15:51 GMT
You're lucky, Cubit---most once-fat people still see themselves as "fat
folks" even after they drop the weight.
I think that you already 'see" yourself as trim and lean is a very
positive thing. rom your pirture, I'd call you a "big man"---NOT a 'fat"
one.
LassChance
Start LC~5-16-05
202-195-165
(i only weigh on Sunday)