> Have you gotten over the negative feeling about your diet plan failing
> you? Are you spreading those negative thought around?
Reply: I expected trouble, long before reaching goal and then having some
regain. The statistics on diet failure are profound.
> IF the process isn't understood, why are you so seemingly certain of your
> intrepretation?
Reply: Since my pearl of wizdom is found nowhere else, I excluded myself
from the generalization. The cool thing about the databasing of USENET is
that 100 years from now there may be people saying my name (handle) in the
context of an enlightened view of body weight management.
> I do wish you success in regaining control over your eating situation.
Reply: Thanks. I'm right on track. The data all look exactly like my
initial loss.
> I am sure that you weren't influenced by:
> 1)Holiday socializing
> 2)Boredom in eating
> 3)Lack of healthy foods in the situations you are in.
Reply: (I love sarcasm.) Your three examples, and my previously posted
excuses are all rationalizations. Without facist controls on my eating, the
appestat adjusted my life and bodyweight. Forgive me for spouting excuses.
> Jim
>
>> IMHO, the article is utter bullsh*t based on popular rationalizations for
>> a process that is not understood.
Jbuch - 25 Feb 2007 23:18 GMT
>>Have you gotten over the negative feeling about your diet plan failing
>>you? Are you spreading those negative thought around?
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> excuses are all rationalizations. Without facist controls on my eating, the
> appestat adjusted my life and bodyweight. Forgive me for spouting excuses.
So, it is plausable that you were just angry and venting your spleen.
You proclaimed, months ago, something like "Maintenance is a bitch" or
at least indicated maintenance was darned hard.
Other than becoming a Facist on eating (?), have you learned how to
better deal with maintenance?
Probably, you will fail again if all you do is hit the problem again the
same way you hit it the first time. Surely you know that. Unless your
willpower multiplies to your Facist level. (whatever that means)
AND, you're right, maintenance is pretty hard and at least I have to
think about it all the time.
I had a friend who liked to "break my diet". I told him if he ever
tries that again, just for fun, I'll never see him again - no second
chances because the behavior is so damn childish.
He stopped.
Socializing -- one of the ways that can defeat the diet. Friends and
family can do you in for reasons only they know.
Maintenance is hard.
Maintenance is hard.
At least for some, and maybe for the 90% or so of those who lose weight
and then gain it all back.
Maintenance means you are living under new rules of will power. Worse is
that you don't get the reinforcement of watching your weight continue
to decrease as a reward for your sacrifices in old fashioned eating
pleasures.
A few days here and there and you could be several pounds up. Only a few
free cookies per day, and there you are.
Maintenance is hard.
>>Jim
>>
>>>IMHO, the article is utter bullsh*t based on popular rationalizations for
>>>a process that is not understood.
Cubit - 26 Feb 2007 00:18 GMT
Indeed, the idea of maintenance is wishful thinking. I, and others, do not
want to accept that the diet never ends.
The difference in calories between weightloss and breakeven is SMALL.
The difference in calories between weightloss and my illusions of
maintenance are huge.
Maintenance is hard because it is based on delusional premises.
>>>Have you gotten over the negative feeling about your diet plan failing
>>>you? Are you spreading those negative thought around?
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>>>>IMHO, the article is utter bullsh*t based on popular rationalizations
>>>>for a process that is not understood.
Jbuch - 26 Feb 2007 02:33 GMT
> Indeed, the idea of maintenance is wishful thinking. I, and others, do not
> want to accept that the diet never ends.
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>
> Maintenance is hard because it is based on delusional premises.
YOUR maintenance is based on delustional premises.
Cure that, or handle that, and you can handle maintenance better than
the average Joe or JoAnn.
Accepting yourself as the origin is a good part of the battle.
Go to it.
Jim
>>>>Have you gotten over the negative feeling about your diet plan failing
>>>>you? Are you spreading those negative thought around?
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>>>>>IMHO, the article is utter bullsh*t based on popular rationalizations
>>>>>for a process that is not understood.
Cubit - 26 Feb 2007 17:51 GMT
Actually, I came to my goal expecting to need to preserve my diet as a way
of life (WOL), then things got out of hand, despite my preparation.
You say: "accepting yourself as the origin"
The origin is an imbalance of a natural system. The personalization and
willpower ideas are quite contrary to my vision of the problem.
>> Indeed, the idea of maintenance is wishful thinking. I, and others, do
>> not want to accept that the diet never ends.
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>>>>>>IMHO, the article is utter bullsh*t based on popular rationalizations
>>>>>>for a process that is not understood.