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BigK - 07 Jan 2004 02:14 GMT
Low carb is the only diet I've ever successfully lost significant weight.
That said, I have also gotten off of it now 2 times and gained it all back
plus.

I was in here last year and went from 375 down to 325 between 1/2/3 and
about 6/30/3.  Went on a trip and got off and could NEVER get myself back on
due to lack of will power.  6 months later I'm starting again, this time at
384.

I'm sincerely disappointed in myself, but what can you do? The past is over
and its time to march on.

Kevin
384-384-200
since 1-5-4
carla - 07 Jan 2004 03:07 GMT
> I'm sincerely disappointed in myself, but what can you do? The past is over
> and its time to march on.

Good luck, Kevin.  Don't waste time and energy being disappointed in
yourself - it will just provide you excuses to fall off the wagon again.
You know the pattern of thinking - I'm a bad person and I don't deserve to
lose this weight and be healthy.  Don't go there!  Take care of yourself and
be forgiving.

carla
237/221/165?
BigK - 09 Jan 2004 01:02 GMT
Thanks to all of you for your encouragment.

I am going to do a few things differently this time around.

1.  I won't weigh in every day.  It was a rush the first month seeing a
pound a day come off 5 of 7 days a week.  But then it was more like a pound
a week as things slowed down.
2.  I am not going to vew this as a diet to lose weight.  I'm just going to
change the way I eat and hope to lose pounds.  If not, at least I'm not
getting bigger as I have for the last six months and every other month of my
life that I was not on a "diet".  I am still sure that over time I will
become more healthy.
3.  I will not totally shut off the stuff I like.  After a month I'm going
to do something a friend of mine did to lose all his weight.  Each week he
enjoyed his favorite foods for one meal.  I'm gonna do that in a way that
won't be over indulgent.  I won't binge on it but will enjoy a couple of
pieces of Papa John's pizza and a Butterfinger Shiver from TCBY.
4.  I will not spend more than a week away from this woe.
Ignoramus15341 - 09 Jan 2004 04:06 GMT
> Thanks to all of you for your encouragment.
>
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> pieces of Papa John's pizza and a Butterfinger Shiver from TCBY.
> 4.  I will not spend more than a week away from this woe.

Just make sure that you realize that being healthy requires a daily
time commitment and a good dose of willpower. It will never be easy,
not that being fat is easy.

i
Jenny - 09 Jan 2004 13:55 GMT
Big K,

I have found that making a little room for the off-plan stuff I really like
has made it a whole lot easier to stay on the diet my second time around
too.  I wouldn't suggest doing this until you've got  a couple months of
solid weight loss behind you, but knowing that you haven't taken vows of
renunciation of life make it easier to turn away from those same foods.  At
least it does for me.

Also, now that you have regained, you probably will find the inevitable
long-time stall easier to live with since you'll remember that being stalled
at a lower weight is a whole lot better than being back where you started
from.

Posting here frequently helps a lot too!

-- Jenny  - Low Carbing for 4 years. At goal for weight. Type 2 diabetes,
hba1c 5.2.
Cut the carbs to respond to my  email address!

Low carb facts and figures, my weight-loss photos, tips, recipes and more at
http://www.geocities.com/jenny_the_bean/

Looking for help controlling your blood sugar?
Visit  http://www.alt-support-diabetes.org/Newly%20Diagnosed.htm

> Thanks to all of you for your encouragment.
>
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> pieces of Papa John's pizza and a Butterfinger Shiver from TCBY.
> 4.  I will not spend more than a week away from this woe.
Kragness1 - 07 Jan 2004 03:15 GMT
It took me five decent tries and 4 years to realize this WOE is the
healthiest for me.  Don't give up!
My progress: http://kragness1.home.comcast.net/lowcarb/history.jpg

-Scott
213/163/160

> Low carb is the only diet I've ever successfully lost significant weight.
> That said, I have also gotten off of it now 2 times and gained it all back
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
> 384-384-200
> since 1-5-4
NewsgroupLiz - 08 Jan 2004 03:04 GMT
:Failure means nothing is success comes eventually."
PieNtheSky32 - 07 Jan 2004 03:23 GMT
I remember your name,, Welcome back and good luck.
~*~ Pie~*~

> Low carb is the only diet I've ever successfully lost significant weight.
> That said, I have also gotten off of it now 2 times and gained it all back
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
> 384-384-200
> since 1-5-4
Ignoramus32199 - 07 Jan 2004 14:29 GMT
``The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over
again expecting a different results''. Albert Einstein.

i

> Low carb is the only diet I've ever successfully lost significant weight.
> That said, I have also gotten off of it now 2 times and gained it all back
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
> 384-384-200
> since 1-5-4
Marsha - 08 Jan 2004 01:42 GMT
> ``The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over
> again expecting a different results''. Albert Einstein.

People's motivations change at different times in their lives.

Marsha/Ohio
Penguin - 07 Jan 2004 14:55 GMT
> Low carb is the only diet I've ever successfully lost significant weight.
> That said, I have also gotten off of it now 2 times and gained it all back
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
> 384-384-200
> since 1-5-4

Good luck Kevin--Although atkins does indeed take will power, I know of no
other diet where I can consume as much food and still lose weight. I think
it is the diets that try and starve people that causes one to gain back
and then some. I look at Atkins as a lifestyle change and not a diet.

-Cheers
Jenny - 07 Jan 2004 15:22 GMT
Welcome back!

Futility is often described as doing the same thing over and over again
while expecting a different result.

So now that you're making a new start on your diet, why not take some
time to analyze what it was that led to the previous failures.  If you
just rely on "willpower"  and try to force yourself to succeed this
without understanding what sabotaged your previous efforts, you may end
up facing the same challenges without having found new tools to surmount
them. There are lots of reasons for failing, and they all have solutions
once you realize that you have the problem, rather than just hoping it
will go away this time.

Common reasons for failure include:

1. Burning out on the food after the initial thrill of eating once
forbidden foods full of fat wears off.

2. Growing feelings of deprivation if you never let yourself eat any of
your old favorite, carby foods.

3. Panic after a unplanned carb-up that results in intense
hunger-cravings, several pounds of water weight gain, and binge eating.

4. Sabotage by family members whether because they feel insecure as you
lose weight or because they can't take the "ketobreath" any more.

5. A prolonged stall.

Each of these issues can be addressed! If you need help, once you've
identified your key danger issues, post here and find out how other
people have solved their problems.

A book I found very helpful in my own weight loss journey was Keeping it
Off: Winning at Weight Loss, by Robert H. Olson and Susan C. Colvin.
This book studied real people who had lost 20% or more of their weight
and kept it off for at least five years. I've summarized what I learned
from this wonderful, out-of-print book on my website at
http://www.geocities.com/jenny the bean/success.htm

-- Jenny  - Low Carbing for 4 years. At goal for weight. Type 2 diabetes,
hba1c 5.2.
Cut the carbs to respond to my  email address!

Low carb facts and figures, my weight-loss photos, tips, recipes and more at
http://www.geocities.com/jenny_the_bean/

Looking for help controlling your blood sugar?
Visit  http://www.alt-support-diabetes.org/Newly%20Diagnosed.htm

> Low carb is the only diet I've ever successfully lost significant weight.
> That said, I have also gotten off of it now 2 times and gained it all back
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
> 384-384-200
> since 1-5-4
billydee - 07 Jan 2004 21:16 GMT
> Welcome back!
>
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>
> 5. A prolonged stall.

You forgot a couple:

6. Not making regular exercise a part of your weight loss plan (and
life)
7. Eating more calories than you burn. Losing weight is still about
calories in calories out no matter what people say.
8. Lack of focus on the "big picture". It took you a while to get to
nearly 400 pounds and it ain't gonna come off overnight.
Taffy Stoker - 08 Jan 2004 05:32 GMT
>Low carb is the only diet I've ever successfully lost significant weight.
>That said, I have also gotten off of it now 2 times and gained it all back
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>I'm sincerely disappointed in myself, but what can you do? The past is over
>and its time to march on.

That is exactly right Kevin.  Good luck to you.
 
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