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Luna - 17 Mar 2004 06:01 GMT
My date took this pic of me when we went bowling on Sunday.

http://www.mindspring.com/~lunachick/photos/bowling.html

The expression on my face is pretty much "Oh crap he's taking my picture."
I was not prepared.  Anyway, I'm 10-ish pounds lighter than in the flame
top pic, but I don't think it really shows.  Different clothes, different
angle, and, well, I'm still big enough that 10 pounds one way or another is
not much of a dramatic difference.  Thought I'd share anyway though!

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Carol Ann - 17 Mar 2004 06:38 GMT
:: My date took this pic of me when we went bowling on Sunday.
::
:: http://www.mindspring.com/~lunachick/photos/bowling.html
::
:: The expression on my face is pretty much "Oh crap he's taking my
picture."
:: I was not prepared.  Anyway, I'm 10-ish pounds lighter than in the flame
:: top pic, but I don't think it really shows.  Different clothes, different
:: angle, and, well, I'm still big enough that 10 pounds one way or another
is
:: not much of a dramatic difference.  Thought I'd share anyway though!
::
:: --
:: Michelle Levin
:: http://www.mindspring.com/~lunachick

Michelle, you look fantastic!!!  Fit!!

~Carol Ann
Sleepyman - 18 Mar 2004 19:29 GMT
>:: My date took this pic of me when we went bowling on Sunday.
>::
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>:: Michelle Levin
>:: http://www.mindspring.com/~lunachick

You look good kiddo! Keep that hair color too.

Sleepy

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Saffire - 17 Mar 2004 09:21 GMT
> My date took this pic of me when we went bowling on Sunday.
>
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> angle, and, well, I'm still big enough that 10 pounds one way or another is
> not much of a dramatic difference.  Thought I'd share anyway though!

You look GREAT, Luna!

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martymkm@webtv.net - 17 Mar 2004 14:28 GMT
Luna wrote:
The expression on my face is pretty much "Oh crap he's taking my
picture." I was not prepared. Anyway, I'm 10-ish pounds lighter than in
the flame top pic, but I don't think it really shows. Different clothes,
different angle, and, well, I'm still big enough that 10 pounds one way
or another is not much of a dramatic difference. Thought I'd share
anyway though!

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Luna, I'd give just about anything to have a flat stomach like yours!
Congratulations on your loss.

Best Wishes; Marty
Luna - 17 Mar 2004 16:45 GMT
> Luna wrote:
> The expression on my face is pretty much "Oh crap he's taking my
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
>
> Best Wishes; Marty

Wha huh what?  Flat???!  You can't see that roll poking out over the top of
my jeans?  I have quite the pooky tummy, actually.  But, um, thanks!

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JC Der Koenig - 17 Mar 2004 16:48 GMT
It's almost time for a bikini pic.

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Most of us probably aren't in danger of eating too little. :)

Becky P.

> > Luna wrote:
> > The expression on my face is pretty much "Oh crap he's taking my
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
> Wha huh what?  Flat???!  You can't see that roll poking out over the top of
> my jeans?  I have quite the pooky tummy, actually.  But, um, thanks!
Luna - 17 Mar 2004 17:14 GMT
Ok, that was sarcasm, I'm guessing.  But I can't see your face.

> It's almost time for a bikini pic.
>
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> of
> > my jeans?  I have quite the pooky tummy, actually.  But, um, thanks!

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JC Der Koenig - 17 Mar 2004 17:25 GMT
No, that was straight up. It looks like you're within 10 pounds.

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Most of us probably aren't in danger of eating too little. :)

Becky P.

> Ok, that was sarcasm, I'm guessing.  But I can't see your face.
>
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> > of
> > > my jeans?  I have quite the pooky tummy, actually.  But, um, thanks!
Luna - 17 Mar 2004 18:36 GMT
Well, thanks.  That must be a particularly flattering pic of me then,
because when I look in the mirror naked I do not look at all close to
bikini ready.  Maybe I should do a bikini pic anyway, (or a sports bra and
bike shorts pic) so you all can see the flab that my clothes hide.  

> No, that was straight up. It looks like you're within 10 pounds.
>
> > Ok, that was sarcasm, I'm guessing.  But I can't see your face.
> >
> > > It's almost time for a bikini pic.

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JC Der Koenig - 17 Mar 2004 19:57 GMT
Lose the ten pounds first.

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Most of us probably aren't in danger of eating too little. :)

Becky P.

> Well, thanks.  That must be a particularly flattering pic of me then,
> because when I look in the mirror naked I do not look at all close to
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> > >
> > > > It's almost time for a bikini pic.
Archon - 17 Mar 2004 20:20 GMT
> Well, thanks.  That must be a particularly flattering pic of me then,
> because when I look in the mirror naked I do not look at all close to
> bikini ready.  Maybe I should do a bikini pic anyway, (or a sports bra and
> bike shorts pic) so you all can see the flab that my clothes hide.  

You can already see it on that pic, because the would-be vertical
orientation of the belt is knocked out 45 degrees by the stomach. If the
stomach were flat, there wouldn't be a gap.
Luna - 18 Mar 2004 01:13 GMT
> > Well, thanks.  That must be a particularly flattering pic of me then,
> > because when I look in the mirror naked I do not look at all close to
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> orientation of the belt is knocked out 45 degrees by the stomach. If the
> stomach were flat, there wouldn't be a gap.

Exactamundo.  And that is just _that_ part of my body.  Even if I lost 10
pounds of belly flab, there's still the thunder thighs, chicken wings, and
under-bra bulge to deal with.

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Lorelei - 18 Mar 2004 18:08 GMT
Great Pic Luna, you look Mahhhvelous Dahlling.
Lori
Archon - 17 Mar 2004 20:17 GMT
> No, that was straight up. It looks like you're within 10 pounds.

What happened to your ruthless objectivity? Ah, you have a weak spot for...
JC Der Koenig - 17 Mar 2004 20:20 GMT
> > No, that was straight up. It looks like you're within 10 pounds.
>
> What happened to your ruthless objectivity? Ah, you have a weak spot for...

For good looking pussy?

Perhaps.

But I believe I was being objective about the 10 pounds.
I could be wrong.
Archon - 17 Mar 2004 20:35 GMT
> Perhaps.
>
> But I believe I was being objective about the 10 pounds.
> I could be wrong.

I have seen a "perfect" body gain 10 pounds and the stomach was still
flat and legs and arms still thin and delicate.
JC Der Koenig - 17 Mar 2004 21:24 GMT
> > Perhaps.
> >
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> I have seen a "perfect" body gain 10 pounds and the stomach was still
> flat and legs and arms still thin and delicate.

Are you saying that you don't think losing 10 pounds will get her ready for
a bikini picture?

Or is this more of your garbled in translation type of communication effort
again?
Archon - 18 Mar 2004 09:54 GMT
> Are you saying that you don't think losing 10 pounds will get her ready for
> a bikini picture?

I would think you wouldn't be interested in a bikini pic as long visible
flabby fat is showing.
JC Der Koenig - 18 Mar 2004 14:39 GMT
> > Are you saying that you don't think losing 10 pounds will get her ready for
> > a bikini picture?
>
> I would think you wouldn't be interested in a bikini pic as long visible
> flabby fat is showing.

How much do you think she needs to lose before she's ready for a bikini?
Luna - 18 Mar 2004 17:11 GMT
> > > Are you saying that you don't think losing 10 pounds will get her ready
> for
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>
> How much do you think she needs to lose before she's ready for a bikini?

This wasn't addressed to me, but since it's about me I'll chime in anyway!  
I think I need to lose at least 20 more pounds before I'm ready for a
bikini.  Or possibly a bit less scale weight if I all of a sudden start
putting on a lot more muscle, which I doubt will happen.

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JC Der Koenig - 18 Mar 2004 17:14 GMT
> > > > Are you saying that you don't think losing 10 pounds will get her ready
> > for
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> bikini.  Or possibly a bit less scale weight if I all of a sudden start
> putting on a lot more muscle, which I doubt will happen.

I'll have to take your word for it.
Roger Zoul - 18 Mar 2004 17:29 GMT
:: In article <pEh6c.65$SS5.59@newssvr23.news.prodigy.com>,
::  "JC Der Koenig" <jcderkoenig@ibm.com> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
:: bikini.  Or possibly a bit less scale weight if I all of a sudden
:: start putting on a lot more muscle, which I doubt will happen.

Do you want to put on more muscle?
Luna - 18 Mar 2004 17:49 GMT
> :: In article <pEh6c.65$SS5.59@newssvr23.news.prodigy.com>,
> ::  "JC Der Koenig" <jcderkoenig@ibm.com> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 17 lines]
>
> Do you want to put on more muscle?

I do, and I think I am, though I can't be sure.  I am about the same weight
I was my senior year of high school, and my prom dress is now too big,
which is the only real evidence I have that I've put on some muscle. What I
said was "a lot" more muscle. I am doing weight machines, so I think I am
gaining some muscle, just not a lot.

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JC Der Koenig - 18 Mar 2004 19:04 GMT
> > :: In article <pEh6c.65$SS5.59@newssvr23.news.prodigy.com>,
> > ::  "JC Der Koenig" <jcderkoenig@ibm.com> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 23 lines]
> said was "a lot" more muscle. I am doing weight machines, so I think I am
> gaining some muscle, just not a lot.

Luna the Barbarian!
Roger Zoul - 18 Mar 2004 21:05 GMT
::: In article <105jjj9md91c3bc@corp.supernews.com>,
:::  "Roger Zoul" <rogerzoul2@hotmail.com> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 31 lines]
::
:: Luna the Barbarian!

She-Hulk!  Yeah!!
Archon - 18 Mar 2004 18:36 GMT
>>I would think you wouldn't be interested in a bikini pic as long visible
>>flabby fat is showing.
>
> How much do you think she needs to lose before she's ready for a bikini?

Depending how tall she is, I might say 30 pounds, as I think she's not a
small near-five-feet girl. If she's more like 5'2" or her bone structure
is thick then her own estimate of 20 pounds might work. But of course,
lots of wiggly women are found in bikinis that press grand canyons into
their backs and hips...
JC Der Koenig - 18 Mar 2004 19:08 GMT
> >>I would think you wouldn't be interested in a bikini pic as long visible
> >>flabby fat is showing.
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> lots of wiggly women are found in bikinis that press grand canyons into
> their backs and hips...

I don't like the way fat women look, but I also don't like to see ribs, abs
or veins on women. If you want all that, why don't you just get with a boy?
Archon - 18 Mar 2004 20:07 GMT
> I don't like the way fat women look, but I also don't like to see ribs, abs
> or veins on women. If you want all that, why don't you just get with a boy?

I don't like bones sticking out, but I like to see stomach muscles (not
as a 6pack), and the ribs should show in the sides, and the thighs
shouldn't touch unless the knees do. Watch Alias.
JC Der Koenig - 18 Mar 2004 20:09 GMT
> > I don't like the way fat women look, but I also don't like to see ribs, abs
> > or veins on women. If you want all that, why don't you just get with a boy?
>
> I don't like bones sticking out, but I like to see stomach muscles (not
> as a 6pack), and the ribs should show in the sides, and the thighs
> shouldn't touch unless the knees do. Watch Alias.

No thanks.
Archon - 18 Mar 2004 20:15 GMT
>>I don't like bones sticking out, but I like to see stomach muscles (not
>>as a 6pack), and the ribs should show in the sides, and the thighs
>>shouldn't touch unless the knees do. Watch Alias.
>
> No thanks.

http://rarecelebs.com/jennifer-garner/02.jpg
JC Der Koenig - 18 Mar 2004 20:26 GMT
> >>I don't like bones sticking out, but I like to see stomach muscles (not
> >>as a 6pack), and the ribs should show in the sides, and the thighs
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
> http://rarecelebs.com/jennifer-garner/02.jpg

Heh.

To bad about her ribs sticking out.
Lorelei - 18 Mar 2004 21:07 GMT
> >>I don't like bones sticking out, but I like to see stomach muscles (not
> >>as a 6pack), and the ribs should show in the sides, and the thighs
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
> http://rarecelebs.com/jennifer-garner/02.jpg

Isn't it nice that your ideal woman doesn't have to
1. cook her own meals
2. do her(family's) laundry
3. do the shopping
4. clean her own house
5. worry about money

isn't it nice for her that she can
1. have a chef prepare her food so it is good and healthy
2. have her laundry done
3. shop for fabulous clothes by having them delivered to her
4. have a house cleaner (assumption on my part)
5. work out hours per day without other things being left.
6. have a personal trainer
7. have a nip and a tuck if she wants (on the low-down)
so it's great that she is your ideal woman but not "real". Oh an BTW she
committed adultery and that is why she is divorced and seeing her costar.

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Roger Zoul - 18 Mar 2004 21:19 GMT
::: JC Der Koenig wrote:
::::
[quoted text clipped - 24 lines]
:: she committed adultery and that is why she is divorced and seeing
:: her costar.

No, it not nice....I'd rather have a real (normal) woman that does LC to
control her weight (or doesn't have a weight problem), and does for herself
many of those things on your list..including NOT CHEATING....but that's just
me...
Archon - 19 Mar 2004 08:17 GMT
> so it's great that she is your ideal woman but not "real". Oh an BTW she
> committed adultery and that is why she is divorced and seeing her costar.

I'm not talking about the perseon, but using the stoutness as a
reference for how I think the fat level and muscle level should be (I
especially like the arms and shoulders). It is what I would aim for if I
were a woman.
Hehe, my girlfriend and another female friend says Garner has fat
thighs, and a third female friend commented that she wears too tight
clothes so her fat is showing...
revek - 19 Mar 2004 08:32 GMT
Archon  burbled across the ether:
>> so it's great that she is your ideal woman but not "real". Oh an BTW
>> she committed adultery and that is why she is divorced and seeing
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> especially like the arms and shoulders). It is what I would aim for
> if I were a woman.

Athletic without being overmuscled or underfatted, so to speak.  Someone
who looks trim and fit yet still feminine and curvy.  I'd like that look
for myself-- but not so much that I'd spend the effort on it at the
expense of my other priorities.  Besides, it sounds like all work and no
fun.

> Hehe, my girlfriend and another female friend says Garner has fat
> thighs, and a third female friend commented that she wears too tight
> clothes so her fat is showing...

Piffle.  I hear the modeling industry's infectious memes crying out in
the wilderness, with a bit of jealousy edging it's voice.

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Archon - 19 Mar 2004 09:15 GMT
> Athletic without being overmuscled or underfatted, so to speak.  Someone
> who looks trim and fit yet still feminine and curvy.

Exactly!

> I'd like that look
> for myself-- but not so much that I'd spend the effort on it at the
> expense of my other priorities.  Besides, it sounds like all work and no
> fun.

Excercise IS fun!

> Piffle.  I hear the modeling industry's infectious memes crying out in
> the wilderness, with a bit of jealousy edging it's voice.

These women are thinner than Garner (but not as muscular).
revek - 19 Mar 2004 09:25 GMT
Archon  burbled across the ether:

>> Athletic without being overmuscled or underfatted, so to speak.
>> Someone who looks trim and fit yet still feminine and curvy.
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>
> Excercise IS fun!

Yeah, all you cultists say that.  De Nile ain't just a river in Egypt.
<g>

>> Piffle.  I hear the modeling industry's infectious memes crying out
>> in the wilderness, with a bit of jealousy edging it's voice.
>
> These women are thinner than Garner (but not as muscular).

Doesn't make the meme go away.  And they're jealous that you drool over
her (type) and not them. :)

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Archon - 19 Mar 2004 10:11 GMT
>>These women are thinner than Garner (but not as muscular).
>
> Doesn't make the meme go away.  And they're jealous that you drool over
> her (type) and not them. :)

I drool over one of them!
revek - 19 Mar 2004 10:21 GMT
Archon  burbled across the ether:
> I drool over one of them!

Good for you. LOL

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Roger Zoul - 19 Mar 2004 10:07 GMT
:: revek wrote:
:::
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::
:: These women are thinner than Garner (but not as muscular).

Then they are stick women...too thin.
Archon - 19 Mar 2004 10:16 GMT
> ::: Piffle.  I hear the modeling industry's infectious memes crying out
> ::: in the wilderness, with a bit of jealousy edging it's voice.
> ::
> :: These women are thinner than Garner (but not as muscular).
>
> Then they are stick women...too thin.

Nope, my girlfriend is about perfect. Just a bit more muscle (like myself).
JC Der Koenig - 19 Mar 2004 12:16 GMT
> > ::: Piffle.  I hear the modeling industry's infectious memes crying out
> > ::: in the wilderness, with a bit of jealousy edging it's voice.
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>
> Nope, my girlfriend is about perfect. Just a bit more muscle (like myself).

You're also a stick figure.  HTH
Archon - 19 Mar 2004 12:25 GMT
> myself).
>
> You're also a stick figure.  HTH

My reference for men's "normal" (perfect) stoutness is Spike from Buffy
the Vampire Slayer.
JC Der Koenig - 19 Mar 2004 12:31 GMT
> > myself).
> >
> > You're also a stick figure.  HTH
>
> My reference for men's "normal" (perfect) stoutness is Spike from Buffy
> the Vampire Slayer.

You obviously watch too much TV.
Roger Zoul - 19 Mar 2004 13:13 GMT
:: JC Der Koenig wrote:
::: myself).
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
:: My reference for men's "normal" (perfect) stoutness is Spike from
:: Buffy the Vampire Slayer.

Spike boney as hell.
Archon - 19 Mar 2004 19:38 GMT
> Spike boney as hell.

If 66% of Americans and 50% of Danes are overweight, and there has to be
room for chubbiness in the remaining 33%/50%, then normal has to be more
in the veins of my definitions, because there's pretty many people who
are like me and my both here and in DK.
Roger Zoul - 20 Mar 2004 09:41 GMT
:: Roger Zoul wrote:
::: Spike boney as hell.
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
:: to be more in the veins of my definitions, because there's pretty
:: many people who are like me and my both here and in DK.

Hey, have it your way, bro....Spike is still skinny as hell.
carla - 19 Mar 2004 13:49 GMT
> > I don't like the way fat women look, but I also don't like to see ribs, abs
> > or veins on women. If you want all that, why don't you just get with a boy?
>
> I don't like bones sticking out, but I like to see stomach muscles (not
> as a 6pack), and the ribs should show in the sides, and the thighs
> shouldn't touch unless the knees do.

De gustibus non disputandum est.  What you are describing sounds like heroin
chic, and to me is not the slightest bit attractive.

carla
Archon - 19 Mar 2004 18:55 GMT
> De gustibus non disputandum est.  What you are describing sounds like heroin
> chic, and to me is not the slightest bit attractive.

Only to people who feel it is impossible to ever look like that oneself,
and thus need to call the berries sour.
JC Der Koenig - 19 Mar 2004 18:58 GMT
> > De gustibus non disputandum est.  What you are describing sounds like heroin
> > chic, and to me is not the slightest bit attractive.
>
> Only to people who feel it is impossible to ever look like that oneself,
> and thus need to call the berries sour.

Wrong answer doofus. I've been that thin and I don't find it particularly
attractive or healthy looking.
carla - 19 Mar 2004 23:55 GMT
> > De gustibus non disputandum est.  What you are describing sounds like heroin
> > chic, and to me is not the slightest bit attractive.
>
> Only to people who feel it is impossible to ever look like that oneself,
> and thus need to call the berries sour.

No; rather, to people to whom it is simply unattractive to see bones
sticking out.

Do you not understand that different people have different taste?  It
is not a matter of what I believe I can look like - I have no desire
to look as you describe.  Really.

I have no desire for my ribs to show or for there to be space between
my thighs.  I don't want a four-pack either.  It's not because I don't
believe I could do it - it's because I don't want to.  I think it
looks icky.

If that means you won't find me attractive when I get to my goal, well
Archon, I think I'll just have to learn to live with that.

carla
carla - 20 Mar 2004 00:02 GMT
> > De gustibus non disputandum est.  What you are describing sounds like heroin
> > chic, and to me is not the slightest bit attractive.
>
> Only to people who feel it is impossible to ever look like that oneself,
> and thus need to call the berries sour.

Another thought about this.  About a month ago I was in a restaurant
and one of the servers was a woman in her early twenties who clearly
worked out with weights and took great care of her body.  She had
strong shoulders and great big biceps, and wide curvy hips and
fantastic skin.  She also had not terribly low body fat - probably
20%, by my estimation - it gave a soft smoothness to her musculature.
She looked strong and healthy and fit, but not super-lean or chiseled
in any way.

By your description, Archon, you would have found her too fat.
However, I couldn't take my eyes off of her.  I thought she was
drop-dead unbelievably gorgeous, and a month later I can still picture
her in my mind's eye.  The reason I remember her so clearly is that I
was so floored by how awesome she looked that I made a mental note of
it to use as my goal.

Do you understand that?  I saw someone *I* thought was hot, and I
chose to set my goal to look like her.  Do you understand how wrong
your statement above is?

carla
Archon - 20 Mar 2004 07:23 GMT
> Another thought about this.  About a month ago I was in a restaurant
> and one of the servers was a woman in her early twenties who clearly
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> She looked strong and healthy and fit, but not super-lean or chiseled
> in any way.

I've seen big women like that and found them sexy, too. But it requires
that their body structure works for it, big bones and nice big muscle
layer, deluted (not covered) by fat, so that it is not wiggly soft.

> Do you understand that?  I saw someone *I* thought was hot, and I
> chose to set my goal to look like her.  Do you understand how wrong
> your statement above is?

No, because you chose to use condescending words about my style, calling
it malnutrition as a result of drug abuse, while it objectively is
healthy. You could say that you don't want an athletic look like that
but a more muscular image. The fact that you chose not to, shows that
you are too emotionally affected (threatened) by my words.
Roger Zoul - 20 Mar 2004 09:45 GMT
:: carla wrote:
:::
[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
:: No, because you chose to use condescending words about my style,
:: calling it malnutrition as a result of drug abuse,

::while it
:: objectively is healthy.

Bullshit.

You could say that you don't want an
:: athletic look like that but a more muscular image. The fact that you
:: chose not to, shows that you are too emotionally affected
:: (threatened) by my words.
carla - 20 Mar 2004 16:19 GMT
> > Do you understand that?  I saw someone *I* thought was hot, and I
> > chose to set my goal to look like her.  Do you understand how wrong
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> but a more muscular image. The fact that you chose not to, shows that
> you are too emotionally affected (threatened) by my words.

What you described *sounded* like heroin chic.  If it *sounded* like an
athletic look we would have had a very different conversation.

Let's ask the rest of the group:  does visible space between the thighs
sound "athletic" to any of you?

I'm giving up on this.  So long as you refuse to acknowledge that I can have
different taste from you, and insist one thinking it's some sort of
reflection of jealousy on my part, there's really no point.  You are
convinced that your standard of attractiveness is absolute - a completely
absurd notion.  But I'm not changing my body to please you, I really don't
care whether you will think the end result is good enough.

Bottom line:  what you think is attractive I think is too scrawny.  What I
think is attractive you think is too fat.  A difference of taste, not a
matter of right and wrong.

I'm not the least bit threatened by you and your standards.  But you are
welcome to go on assuming that I am - it will make no difference to my
goals.

carla
JC Der Koenig - 20 Mar 2004 16:49 GMT
> Let's ask the rest of the group:  does visible space between the thighs
> sound "athletic" to any of you?

Maybe for a bronco buster.

;-)
Roger Zoul - 20 Mar 2004 18:28 GMT
:::: Do you understand that?  I saw someone *I* thought was hot, and I
:::: chose to set my goal to look like her.  Do you understand how wrong
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
:: Let's ask the rest of the group:  does visible space between the
:: thighs sound "athletic" to any of you?

No...it sounds....well....strange...but some people like super skinny...
Saffire - 21 Mar 2004 23:50 GMT
> :: Let's ask the rest of the group:  does visible space between the
> :: thighs sound "athletic" to any of you?
>
> No...it sounds....well....strange...but some people like super skinny...

I've NEVER had visible space between my thighs unless I'm deliberately spreading
them (as I do for my progress photos -- I actually have to squat slightly in
order to accomplish that), even when I was a thin little girl.  In fact, I
remember one of my sister's friends POINTING OUT that my thighs touched and that
I was LUCKY because that was supposed to be sexy and womanly -- I was 9 years old
at the time, so genetics just are what they are and while being overweight
certainly CAN make a difference in that area, that particular TRAIT has nothing
to do with being fat or thin.  

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Archon - 20 Mar 2004 20:48 GMT
> What you described *sounded* like heroin chic.
> If it *sounded* like an
> athletic look we would have had a very different conversation.
>
> Let's ask the rest of the group:  does visible space between the thighs
> sound "athletic" to any of you?

Look at professional athletes - lots of space between the thighs (and
ribs showing). If they touch, it's muscle, not fat. I have space between
the thighs, even though my thighs are somewhat big:

http://www.cvmt.dk/~mnielsen/lowcarb/I_AM_FAT_LOL%21.jpg

And I don't do drugs, so it is in fact possible to have showing ribs and
space between thighs without doing heroin.

> I'm giving up on this.  So long as you refuse to acknowledge that I can have
> different taste from you, and insist one thinking it's some sort of
> reflection of jealousy on my part, there's really no point.  You are
> convinced that your standard of attractiveness is absolute - a completely
> absurd notion.

Strange conclusion - I've seen overweight people I found attractive,
because they carried the fat well. But that doesn't change my opinion on
what's optimal and athletic.

> I'm not the least bit threatened by you and your standards.  But you are
> welcome to go on assuming that I am - it will make no difference to my
> goals.

I'm not saying you should.
Roger Zoul - 21 Mar 2004 01:26 GMT
:: carla wrote:
:::
[quoted text clipped - 24 lines]
:: because they carried the fat well. But that doesn't change my
:: opinion on what's optimal and athletic.

Well, as long as you know it's an opinion....you're entitled to it...but I
think you're flipflopping off being a fat person to being, or trying to be,
a thin person.

BTW, your link doesn't work for me.

::: I'm not the least bit threatened by you and your standards.  But
::: you are welcome to go on assuming that I am - it will make no
::: difference to my goals.
::
:: I'm not saying you should.
Archon - 21 Mar 2004 07:02 GMT
> Well, as long as you know it's an opinion....you're entitled to it...but I
> think you're flipflopping off being a fat person to being, or trying to be,
> a thin person.

I don't understand flipflopping?

> BTW, your link doesn't work for me.

It's the last pic on this page:

http://www.cvmt.dk/~mnielsen/lowcarb/
revek - 21 Mar 2004 22:58 GMT
Archon  burbled across the ether:
>> Well, as long as you know it's an opinion....you're entitled to
>> it...but I think you're flipflopping off being a fat person to
>> being, or trying to be, a thin person.
>
> I don't understand flipflopping?

It's onomatopoeiac regional slang.  It means "flipping back and forth
between one stance (idea, etc) and another".  He thinks your old 'fat
person' mentality and your new 'thin person' mentality are conflicting
with each other.

Personally I've never thought you were fat.  Out of shape maybe, but not
fat.  So when you would go on about it, I was rather puzzled, and I said
so.  *I* think you may have absorbed some unconcious snobbery about fat,
fatness vs thinness and health, and maybe even fat people.  But I like
you anyway.

:)

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out, nor more doubtful of success, nor more dangerous to handle, than
to initiate a new order of things. For the reformer has enemies in all
those who profit by the old order, and only lukewarm defenders in all
those who would profit by the new order. This lukewarmness arising
partly from fear of their adversaries, who have the laws in their
favor; and partly from the incredulity of mankind, who do not truly
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Archon - 21 Mar 2004 23:32 GMT
> It's onomatopoeiac regional slang.  It means "flipping back and forth
> between one stance (idea, etc) and another".  He thinks your old 'fat
> person' mentality and your new 'thin person' mentality are conflicting
> with each other.

Well, there is some degree of subjective evaluation regarding the labels
skinny, normal/perfect, chubby, overweight, fat/obese. Especially since
each has to be evaluated for each body type.

> Personally I've never thought you were fat.  Out of shape maybe, but not
> fat.  So when you would go on about it,

Go on about what? The fat on my stomach?

> I was rather puzzled, and I said
> so.  *I* think you may have absorbed some unconcious snobbery about fat,
> fatness vs thinness and health, and maybe even fat people.  But I like
> you anyway.

Well, I have no problem with fat people (I have lots of fat friends), I
just think they should do something about it. It's not only about them,
especially in a socialistic soceity. And I think people are too scared
of skinniness, so they aim for something close to fat out of fear of
being labelled as skinny. People look down upon skinny people. It seems
these days it's more acceptable to be fat or overweight than skinny or
"normal". At least in Denmark it is so. And I think it is very stupid to
think the media is to blame for mental diseases (and violence for that
matter).
The Queen of Cans and Jars - 21 Mar 2004 23:44 GMT
> And I think people are too scared of skinniness, so they aim for something
> close to fat out of fear of being labelled as skinny.

you think wrong.

and you make nasty generalizations.
Archon - 22 Mar 2004 00:01 GMT
> you think wrong.

They don't even know it themselves, but whenever they see a skinny
person they think "Anorexia!" and "that damn media".

> and you make nasty generalizations.

I know other reasons for aiming otherwise, like feeling "I'm never going
to be thin", or "hey that chubby chick is hot, I want to be like that,
too". I did not say "all people".
The Queen of Cans and Jars - 22 Mar 2004 00:11 GMT
> > you think wrong.
>
> They don't even know it themselves, but whenever they see a skinny
> person they think "Anorexia!" and "that damn media".

you don't know what everyone thinks.  i don't think that way.  

> > and you make nasty generalizations.
>
> I know other reasons for aiming otherwise, like feeling "I'm never going
> to be thin", or "hey that chubby chick is hot, I want to be like that,
> too". I did not say "all people".

you said "people" which can easily be construed as "all people."  if you
mean "some people" say "some people."  it's pretty simple.
revek - 22 Mar 2004 00:11 GMT
Archon  burbled across the ether:
>> Personally I've never thought you were fat.  Out of shape maybe, but
>> not fat.  So when you would go on about it,
>
> Go on about what? The fat on my stomach?

Yah.  That and your chest.  You didn't like your chest-- too doughy you
said.

> Well, I have no problem with fat people (I have lots of fat friends),
> I just think they should do something about it. It's not only about
> them, especially in a socialistic soceity.

Ah, that explains a lot.  The "your fatness is costing me" thing.  We
have that over here too, but it is usually targeted to people who
actually make use of social services like social security disability or
welfare or food stamps.  In my opinion it is beneath us as a civilized
people.

And I think people are too
> scared of skinniness, so they aim for something close to fat out of
> fear of being labelled as skinny.

Real skinniness is unhealthy (and won't get you any dates either).  It
is just as bad as being overweight health and medicalwise, but here in
the USA it doesn't have the same stigma as it does in DK.

People look down upon skinny
> people. It seems these days it's more acceptable to be fat or
> overweight than skinny or "normal". At least in Denmark it is so. And
> I think it is very stupid to think the media is to blame for mental
> diseases (and violence for that matter).

I don't blame the media for causing the disease, but they do excaberate
(sp?) the situation a *lot*.  Some people can't handle the stress of
society's perfectionism and this is one of the ways that those people
cope (badly I admit)-- obsessing on their weight or overcontrolling
their food.  The media *could* be used to promote healthy ideas about
body image, self worth, etc, but it's too easy to twist people up in
knots over body odor or dandruff to make a buck or two.

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JC Der Koenig - 22 Mar 2004 00:16 GMT
Exacerbate.

> Archon  burbled across the ether:
> >> Personally I've never thought you were fat.  Out of shape maybe, but
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> body image, self worth, etc, but it's too easy to twist people up in
> knots over body odor or dandruff to make a buck or two.
revek - 22 Mar 2004 00:27 GMT
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> Exacerbate.

thank you

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ruled by logic and the harmony of numbers, but the plain fact of the
matter was that the disc was manifestly traversing space on the back of
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Archon - 22 Mar 2004 07:37 GMT
> Yah.  That and your chest.  You didn't like your chest-- too doughy you
> said.

The only thing I said about my chest was too little muscle. Never doughy
(I don't even know what you mean by doughy).

> Ah, that explains a lot.  The "your fatness is costing me" thing.

Not really costing me, but costing society. I wouldn't get money back if
nobody were fat, but the money could be spent on other health problems
that are not selfinflicted, such as the mental problems that makes some
people fat. It's free to have your loose belly skin removed, but you
must pay thousands for treating acne. A friend of mine lost 110 pounds
and had her skin removed, and I reminded her that now it was her duty
not to gain the weight again (when we were teenagers she had a pound of
each breast removed for free and gained it all back), and she agreed.

> Real skinniness is unhealthy

Yes, but not the kind of skinniness that we are talking about here, such
as Garner, Spike and me. People who eat a lot can be pretty skinny, even
more so than these people.

> I don't blame the media for causing the disease, but they do excaberate
> (sp?) the situation a *lot*.  Some people can't handle the stress of
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> body image, self worth, etc, but it's too easy to twist people up in
> knots over body odor or dandruff to make a buck or two.

Even if this makes some of the people choose the anorexia way, they
would have turned to other selfdestructive insanities instead, if there
was no media, or try to blow up their school.
revek - 22 Mar 2004 08:02 GMT
Archon  burbled across the ether:

>> Yah.  That and your chest.  You didn't like your chest-- too doughy
>> you said.
>
> The only thing I said about my chest was too little muscle. Never
> doughy (I don't even know what you mean by doughy).

Hmmm.  My memory must be playing tricks again.  Doughy as in like raw
dough.  Soft and unformed-- much like your definition of chubby.

>> Ah, that explains a lot.  The "your fatness is costing me" thing.
>
> Not really costing me, but costing society.

Society is made up of people.

I wouldn't get money back
> if nobody were fat, but the money could be spent on other health
> problems that are not selfinflicted, such as the mental problems that
> makes some people fat.

Could be.  But not necessarily so.

It's free to have your loose belly skin
> removed, but you must pay thousands for treating acne.

That is not right.  But at least it's better than over here.  Over here
you pay thousands for both.

>> Real skinniness is unhealthy
>
> Yes, but not the kind of skinniness that we are talking about here,
> such as Garner, Spike and me.

Then it ought to be differentiated by some other word, such as
slenderness.

People who eat a lot can be pretty
> skinny, even more so than these people.

I hear Calista Flockheart is natrually skinny and doesn't diet or
anything.   Eats like a horse and is a size zero.  Still, someone that
thin needs to see a doctor.

>> I don't blame the media for causing the disease, but they do
>> excaberate (sp?) the situation a *lot*.  Some people can't handle
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>
> Even if this makes some of the people choose the anorexia way,

I don't think it's one thing that makes a person "choose" that, but a
whole host of little straws that end up breaking the camel's back.
Media is just one-- but one that is everywhere, magazines, billboards,
tv...movies even. And they have the wherewithall to do this without
bankrupting themselves and garner a little positive public opinion too,
so why don't they?

they
> would have turned to other selfdestructive insanities instead, if
> there was no media, or try to blow up their school.

I don't think so.  Blowing up a school is outward directed, even if the
'stewing' takes a while to build up to critical levels.  Anorexia is
inward directed.  Personality plays a large part in what direction
behavours take and they're pretty consistant.  Even serial killers fit a
rigid pattern that they don't deviate from.*

*mini rant follows:  which is why I hate the movie seven so much.  It
was perfect textbook and a really great movie right up til the end when
they needed a big twist and broke the character's behavioral patterns
completely out of any relation to the type of serial killer he was.
<spit> :rant over.

Why yes, I spend a lot of recreational time reading about serial
killers, not just 'true crime' but the really odd stuff like the
psychology and profiling.  I find it fun and relaxing, why do you ask?

Ok, ya'll can go back to your regularly scheduled ranch dipped veggies
now.

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Archon - 22 Mar 2004 09:44 GMT
> That is not right.  But at least it's better than over here.  Over here
> you pay thousands for both.

Lol!

> Then it ought to be differentiated by some other word, such as
> slenderness.

That's why I want to call it "normal", reserving skinny to the unhealthy
state.

> I hear Calista Flockheart is natrually skinny and doesn't diet or
> anything.   Eats like a horse and is a size zero.  Still, someone that
> thin needs to see a doctor.

If it's not causing her problems other than people shouting anorexia at
her (because they think it's a physical state, BMI under X), I don't see
why she should.

> I don't think it's one thing that makes a person "choose" that, but a
> whole host of little straws that end up breaking the camel's back.
> Media is just one-- but one that is everywhere, magazines, billboards,
> tv...movies even. And they have the wherewithall to do this without
> bankrupting themselves and garner a little positive public opinion too,
> so why don't they?

To do what without bankrupting themselves?

> I don't think so.  Blowing up a school is outward directed, even if the
> 'stewing' takes a while to build up to critical levels.  Anorexia is
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> Ok, ya'll can go back to your regularly scheduled ranch dipped veggies
> now.

Lol!
revek - 22 Mar 2004 09:51 GMT
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> To do what without bankrupting themselves?

Promote healthier body imaging and self esteem.  It doesn't have to be
blatant.  It can be quite subtle if they care to put a little effort
into it.

>> Ok, ya'll can go back to your regularly scheduled ranch dipped
>> veggies now.
>
> Lol!

Have you seen that one?  Wha'dja think?

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Archon - 22 Mar 2004 10:13 GMT
> Promote healthier body imaging and self esteem.  It doesn't have to be
> blatant.  It can be quite subtle if they care to put a little effort
> into it.

They show many different sizes of people, not just so-called "skinny" ones.
In DK there's an ad on TV about exercising 30 min per day.

> Have you seen that one?  Wha'dja think?

I've seen it, but I don't remember much of it, other than a few scenes
of the mutilated sinners. I have no idea what the twist you are talking
about was.
Supergoof - 25 Mar 2004 03:11 GMT
> especially in a socialistic soceity. And I think people are too scared
> of skinniness, so they aim for something close to fat out of fear of
> being labelled as skinny. People look down upon skinny people. It seems
> these days it's more acceptable to be fat or overweight than skinny or
> "normal". At least in Denmark it is so.

Right ... I'm moving to Denmark ...

:o)

Rachel
(still in fat-phobic New Zealand)
Archon - 26 Mar 2004 08:16 GMT
> Right ... I'm moving to Denmark ...
>
> :o)

You'd have to get off the diet (and if you make a lot of money, quit
your job), though, because in DK we have the Jante Law which makes
everybody hate people who does something special, making the others look
bad.
Luna - 18 Mar 2004 19:45 GMT
> >>I would think you wouldn't be interested in a bikini pic as long visible
> >>flabby fat is showing.
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> lots of wiggly women are found in bikinis that press grand canyons into
> their backs and hips...

I'm 5'4 and 3/4."  I'm currently 156 pounds, and I'm aiming for 130-ish.  
I'll see when I get to 135 if I need to lose any more.

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Bob in CT - 18 Mar 2004 20:03 GMT
>> >>I would think you wouldn't be interested in a bikini pic as long
>> visible
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
> I'm 5'4 and 3/4."  I'm currently 156 pounds, and I'm aiming for 130-ish.
> I'll see when I get to 135 if I need to lose any more.

I'm 5'8 and 1/132".  ;-)  (I.e., why not just say you're 5'5"?  Who cares
about 1/4 inch?)

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Luna - 18 Mar 2004 20:07 GMT
> >> >>I would think you wouldn't be interested in a bikini pic as long
> >> visible
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
> I'm 5'8 and 1/132".  ;-)  (I.e., why not just say you're 5'5"?  Who cares
> about 1/4 inch?)

That's my "official" height when I got measured at Curves.  I don't want to
be a liar, I guess.

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martymkm@webtv.net - 17 Mar 2004 20:08 GMT
Luna wrote:
The expression on my face is pretty much "Oh crap he's taking my
picture." I was not prepared. Anyway, I'm 10-ish pounds lighter than in
the flame top pic, but I don't think it really shows. Different clothes,
different angle, and, well, I'm still big enough that 10 pounds one way
or another is not much of a dramatic difference. Thought I'd share
anyway though!
--------------------------------
Luna, I'd give just about anything to have a flat stomach like yours!
Congratulations on your loss.
Best Wishes; Marty

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Wha huh what? Flat???! You can't see that roll poking out over the top
of my jeans? I have quite the pooky tummy, actually. But, um, thanks!

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Compared to mine, it's flat. <G> Oh, I see it, that's just a little
pooch, I don't consider that a roll at all. LOL

Best Wishes; Marty
Bob in CT - 17 Mar 2004 20:31 GMT
> The expression on my face is pretty much "Oh crap he's taking my
> picture." I was not prepared. Anyway, I'm 10-ish pounds lighter than in
[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
>
> Best Wishes; Marty

"Flat" is a relative term.

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martymkm@webtv.net - 17 Mar 2004 22:01 GMT
"Flat" is a relative term.

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Exactly, (Thank you, Bob). I know it's not an ironing board, but I still
think she looks nice and meant it as a compliment.

Marty
Roger Zoul - 17 Mar 2004 23:03 GMT
:: Bob in CT wrote:
:: "Flat" is a relative term.
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
:: Exactly, (Thank you, Bob). I know it's not an ironing board, but I
:: still think she looks nice and meant it as a compliment.

One can be fat and look nice -- very nice, in fact.  Before the skinny crazy
hit, women like Luna were considered "hot" (and she is "hot").
Archon - 18 Mar 2004 18:51 GMT
> One can be fat and look nice -- very nice, in fact.  Before the skinny crazy
> hit, women like Luna were considered "hot" (and she is "hot").

I don't consider Jennifer Garner skinny. It is my reference for a
"normal" (perfect) body.
Luna - 18 Mar 2004 19:47 GMT
> > One can be fat and look nice -- very nice, in fact.  Before the skinny crazy
> > hit, women like Luna were considered "hot" (and she is "hot").
>
> I don't consider Jennifer Garner skinny. It is my reference for a
> "normal" (perfect) body.

I think she's pretty skinny.  I like the bodies of Angelina Jolie and Drew
Barrymore, personally.  Curvy, but not fat.

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JC Der Koenig - 18 Mar 2004 20:06 GMT
> > > One can be fat and look nice -- very nice, in fact.  Before the skinny crazy
> > > hit, women like Luna were considered "hot" (and she is "hot").
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> I think she's pretty skinny.  I like the bodies of Angelina Jolie and Drew
> Barrymore, personally.  Curvy, but not fat.

Angelina Jolie is about right. But all I really remember about her is the
lips.
Archon - 18 Mar 2004 20:09 GMT
> I think she's pretty skinny.  I like the bodies of Angelina Jolie and Drew
> Barrymore, personally.  Curvy, but not fat.

Angelina Jolie is good (about the same as Garner, but less feminime I
think - less curves), but Barrymore is chubby (not in an unattractive
way, though).
Roger Zoul - 18 Mar 2004 21:08 GMT
:: Luna wrote:
:::
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
:: think - less curves), but Barrymore is chubby (not in an unattractive
:: way, though).

Little bit chubby is fine on a woman...
Dawn Taylor - 18 Mar 2004 21:21 GMT
>:: Luna wrote:
>:::
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>
>Little bit chubby is fine on a woman...

And Barrymore is hardly "chubby." Like Kate Winslet, she's just not
underweight, like most actresses.

Dawn
Roger Zoul - 19 Mar 2004 03:11 GMT
:: On Thu, 18 Mar 2004 15:08:54 -0500, "Roger Zoul"
:: <rogerzoul2@hotmail.com> announced in front of God and everybody:
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
:: And Barrymore is hardly "chubby." Like Kate Winslet, she's just not
:: underweight, like most actresses.

Well, two of us think Barrymore is chubby...but I like her that way...
Dawn Taylor - 19 Mar 2004 09:28 GMT
>:: And Barrymore is hardly "chubby." Like Kate Winslet, she's just not
>:: underweight, like most actresses.
>
>Well, two of us think Barrymore is chubby...but I like her that way...

Well, liking her is all well and good -- but both of you need to
redefine your definition of the word "chubby". It's awfully easy to
get a distorted idea of what constitutes a healthy body weight by
looking at actresses in TV and movies -- keep in mind that actors look
several inches taller and 10-15 pounds heavier on-camera than they do
in real life.

Dawn
Roger Zoul - 19 Mar 2004 10:09 GMT
:: On Thu, 18 Mar 2004 21:11:32 -0500, "Roger Zoul"
:: <rogerzoul2@hotmail.com> announced in front of God and everybody:
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
:: Well, liking her is all well and good -- but both of you need to
:: redefine your definition of the word "chubby".

no, I don't.

:: It's awfully easy to
:: get a distorted idea of what constitutes a healthy body weight by
:: looking at actresses in TV and movies -- keep in mind that actors
:: look several inches taller and 10-15 pounds heavier on-camera than
:: they do in real life.

They may seem taller -- with the way camera shots are done....why do they
seem heavier?
Dawn Taylor - 19 Mar 2004 16:53 GMT
>:: On Thu, 18 Mar 2004 21:11:32 -0500, "Roger Zoul"
>:: <rogerzoul2@hotmail.com> announced in front of God and everybody:
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
>
>no, I don't.

Okay. Be as incorrect as you like ... no skin off my nose.

>:: It's awfully easy to
>:: get a distorted idea of what constitutes a healthy body weight by
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>They may seem taller -- with the way camera shots are done....why do they
>seem heavier?

Dimensionality. Photographs -- still or moving pictures -- are
one-dimensional, so they essentially "flatten" whatever's in front of
the camera. Gives the impression of more width.

Dawn
Archon - 19 Mar 2004 18:58 GMT
> Dimensionality. Photographs -- still or moving pictures -- are
> one-dimensional, so they essentially "flatten" whatever's in front of
> the camera. Gives the impression of more width.

But it doesn't create lumps and skinfolds. Barrymore is so chubby you
can even see it in her face.
Dawn Taylor - 19 Mar 2004 19:33 GMT
>> Dimensionality. Photographs -- still or moving pictures -- are
>> one-dimensional, so they essentially "flatten" whatever's in front of
>> the camera. Gives the impression of more width.
>
>But it doesn't create lumps and skinfolds. Barrymore is so chubby you
>can even see it in her face.

You, sir, have some sort of weird visual version of anorexia. The
woman ain't chubby.

But then, given your other posts in this thread, it's fairly clear
that your idea of what consitutes a "healthy" or -- God help us all --
"normal" body type for women is something around 15 pounds
underweight, so that their ribs are showing and their cheekbones look
like you could slice cheese on them.

You're certainly not alone in that preference, not in this culture in
this century. And taste is taste -- you find scrawny, hipless
androgychicks appealing, that's certainly an individual thing and your
absolute right. But really, Hollywood Wasting Disease is a sad thing
to admire, much less to claim that it's a universal standard of beauty
... much less healthy and normal.

Dawn
Bob in CT - 19 Mar 2004 20:01 GMT
>>> Dimensionality. Photographs -- still or moving pictures -- are
>>> one-dimensional, so they essentially "flatten" whatever's in front of
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
> underweight, so that their ribs are showing and their cheekbones look
> like you could slice cheese on them.

You mean like Maria Shriver?

> You're certainly not alone in that preference, not in this culture in
> this century. And taste is taste -- you find scrawny, hipless
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>
> Dawn

When did we go from Marilyn Monroe to the ultra-thin babes of today?

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Archon - 19 Mar 2004 20:15 GMT
> When did we go from Marilyn Monroe to the ultra-thin babes of today?

As medicine progressed and we got smarter, hehe :D
Luna - 19 Mar 2004 20:46 GMT
> > When did we go from Marilyn Monroe to the ultra-thin babes of today?
>
> As medicine progressed and we got smarter, hehe :D

No, actually, it had to do with the women's movement of the 70's.  Soft,
round, squishy bodies are a sign of fertility and motherhood, and the ideal
woman used to be a wife and mother.  In the 70's was when the women's
movement really started to take off, and curves went out of fashion,
replaced by the stick-thin "Twiggy" ideal.  In the 90's and today, imo, the
ideal body is once again curvy, but more muscular than the 50's ideal.
Which, personally, I'm happy about, because it's a more healthy body type
than either the squishy 50's one or the waiflike 70's one.

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Dawn Taylor - 19 Mar 2004 20:51 GMT
>When did we go from Marilyn Monroe to the ultra-thin babes of today?

Well, there's definitely a sociological connection between periods of
women having more political/financial power and being portrayed in
popular media (movies, TV, advertising) as less womanly ... I don't
buy most of the uber-feminist arguments of those theories, but it's
something to chew on.

It is bizarre, though. I saw "Dr. No" again recently and was stunned
with how insanely beautiful Ursula Andress was:
http://www.bondmovies.net/girls/ursula-andress3.jpg

The Bond girls, back in the day were luscious. But now, they're along
the lines of Halle Berry and Denise Richards:
http://www.allposters.com/IMAGES/MMPH-E/253701.jpg
http://www.extractando.com/entretenimiento/image/Richards_15.jpg

It's like women with actual flesh on their bones are -- what? -- scary
or something?

Dawn
Archon - 19 Mar 2004 21:29 GMT
> It is bizarre, though. I saw "Dr. No" again recently and was stunned
> with how insanely beautiful Ursula Andress was:
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> It's like women with actual flesh on their bones are -- what? -- scary
> or something?

H.B and D.R looks more balanced than U. A. Ursulas stomach bends inwards
(giving her the squared hips I dont like. The new ones have nice round
hips), what's up with that? No muscles on her body?
Stoutness-wise they are about equal. The new ones have more muscle.
Men need 3% fat and women need 12 % - anything else is excess and for
decoration only. What is wrong with some of the models and atresses
today is that they have too little muscle and don't eat well, not that
they have too little fat.
JC Der Koenig - 19 Mar 2004 21:37 GMT
> > It is bizarre, though. I saw "Dr. No" again recently and was stunned
> > with how insanely beautiful Ursula Andress was:
[quoted text clipped - 16 lines]
> today is that they have too little muscle and don't eat well, not that
> they have too little fat.

Let's chat about your lack of lean body mass. Do you want to go first, or
shall I?
Archon - 19 Mar 2004 21:41 GMT
> Let's chat about your lack of lean body mass. Do you want to go first, or
> shall I?

I'm thin but don't have unhealthilly little. I function very well, and
outlasts most people on the skates and tenniscourt... I armwrestled a
guy whose arms are the size of my thighs (and my thighs are large
because of my skating) and it was a draw. Nothing wrong with my muscles...
JC Der Koenig - 19 Mar 2004 22:15 GMT
> > Let's chat about your lack of lean body mass. Do you want to go first, or
> > shall I?
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> guy whose arms are the size of my thighs (and my thighs are large
> because of my skating) and it was a draw. Nothing wrong with my muscles...

There would be nothing wrong with your muscles if your name was Calista
Flockhart. You are practically devoid of muscle mass. You haven't added any
muscle mass since you were 12 years old. Little boys have as muscle as you
do. Little girls have as much muscle as you do.
Archon - 19 Mar 2004 20:14 GMT
> You, sir, have some sort of weird visual version of anorexia. The
> woman ain't chubby.

2 other guys here have confirmed it...

> But then, given your other posts in this thread, it's fairly clear
> that your idea of what consitutes a "healthy" or -- God help us all --
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
> to admire, much less to claim that it's a universal standard of beauty
> ... much less healthy and normal.

You have misunderstood something. Garner has large ROUND hips:

http://www.gasf.com/comm/userimages/garner.jpg

I don't like it when the hipbones stick out. Ribs are showing in the
side even in clinically overweight people. Human anatomy is not designed
to cover the ribs.
Bob in CT - 19 Mar 2004 20:24 GMT
>> You, sir, have some sort of weird visual version of anorexia. The
>> woman ain't chubby.
[quoted text clipped - 21 lines]
> side even in clinically overweight people. Human anatomy is not designed
> to cover the ribs.

Ribs don't show on me.  And I'm obese by BMI.  (I have no idea what
"clinically overweight" is.)  And she's extremely thin.

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Archon - 19 Mar 2004 20:38 GMT
> Ribs don't show on me.   And I'm obese by BMI.

Ie not in a healthy state. Try to lift your arms over your head and see
in the side. At some point before your goal weight you should see the
ribs showing. I know a guy who is deemed obese and must loose weight by
his doctor, and his ribs are showing in the side...

> (I have no idea what
> "clinically overweight" is.)

Whatever measure they use when they say 50% of Danes are overweight (66%
for USA) and 10% are obese (dont remember for USA).

I'd say something in the line of Body fat percentages of 18%-25% for men
and 25-31% (often referred to as "not fit, but acceptable"), and above
25%/31% is obese. I've been 16% and that's nasty.
Dawn Taylor - 19 Mar 2004 20:39 GMT
>You have misunderstood something. Garner has large ROUND hips:
>
>http://www.gasf.com/comm/userimages/garner.jpg

Interesting. I look at that same picture and I don't see any hips.

I'm not saying that Garner isn't an attractive woman -- she is -- and
she does appear to be, for the most part, naturally slim. But she
doesn't have hips and her pelvic bones are poking out:
http://img.studenti.it/images/monitor/wallpaper/jennifer_garner/garner15.jpg

She's on television. Actresses have to diet to the point of being
notably underweight to be considered TV material -- in Garner's case,
her face often looks positively gaunt at times and she's lost weight
to point of not having any breasts:
http://tinyurl.com/yvlts

>I don't like it when the hipbones stick out. Ribs are showing in the
>side even in clinically overweight people. Human anatomy is not designed
>to cover the ribs.

Gee, you mean like this:
http://www.vanishingtattoo.com/images/tattoo/boyle1.jpg ??

Yeah, now THAT's a good-looking woman!

Dawn
Archon - 19 Mar 2004 21:15 GMT
>>You have misunderstood something. Garner has large ROUND hips:
>>
>>http://www.gasf.com/comm/userimages/garner.jpg
>
> Interesting. I look at that same picture and I don't see any hips.

Hips are made from bones not fat as you seem to think. The hips should
not be wider than the hip bones, but there should be enough tissue to
make a nice well rounded transition.

> I'm not saying that Garner isn't an attractive woman -- she is -- and
> she does appear to be, for the most part, naturally slim. But she
> doesn't have hips and her pelvic bones are poking out:
> http://img.studenti.it/images/monitor/wallpaper/jennifer_garner/garner15.jpg

you can see it but the skin is not stretched around it.

> She's on television. Actresses have to diet to the point of being
> notably underweight to be considered TV material -- in Garner's case,
> her face often looks positively gaunt at times and she's lost weight
> to point of not having any breasts:
> http://tinyurl.com/yvlts

There's still breasts. They just won't smack you in the face coming
around the corner.

> Gee, you mean like this:
> http://www.vanishingtattoo.com/images/tattoo/boyle1.jpg ??

Now that's nasty! Chubby is much better than that.
Dawn Taylor - 19 Mar 2004 21:30 GMT
>>>You have misunderstood something. Garner has large ROUND hips:
>>>
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>not be wider than the hip bones, but there should be enough tissue to
>make a nice well rounded transition.

But there ought to be such a thing as a waist. And flesh covering
those hip bones.

Dawn
Roger Zoul - 20 Mar 2004 09:59 GMT
:: On Fri, 19 Mar 2004 11:14:54 -0800, Archon <sequoia@MAPSONtiscali.dk>
:: announced in front of God and everybody:
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
:: she does appear to be, for the most part, naturally slim. But she
:: doesn't have hips and her pelvic bones are poking out:

http://img.studenti.it/images/monitor/wallpaper/jennifer_garner/garner15.jpg

She is too skinny, imo.  Nice looking though, but weak and frail looking.

:: She's on television. Actresses have to diet to the point of being
:: notably underweight to be considered TV material -- in Garner's case,
:: her face often looks positively gaunt at times and she's lost weight
:: to point of not having any breasts:
:: http://tinyurl.com/yvlts

I agree with you.

::: I don't like it when the hipbones stick out. Ribs are showing in the
::: side even in clinically overweight people. Human anatomy is not
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
::
:: Yeah, now THAT's a good-looking woman!

Oh my...how in the world did you find that?
revek - 20 Mar 2004 11:05 GMT
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> Gee, you mean like this:
> http://www.vanishingtattoo.com/images/tattoo/boyle1.jpg ??
>
> Yeah, now THAT's a good-looking woman!

Oh jeez.  That brought back memories.  Only my hip bones poked out more.

Still trying to find balance, which is why I don't try to lose the
weight so agressively anymore-- I was heading right back down *that*
path last year before I put the breaks on.

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Cheri - 20 Mar 2004 14:29 GMT
I bet she looks great in clothes though. LOL

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>Dawn Taylor  burbled across the ether:
>> Gee, you mean like this:
>> http://www.vanishingtattoo.com/images/tattoo/boyle1.jpg ??
>>
>> Yeah, now THAT's a good-looking woman!
JC Der Koenig - 20 Mar 2004 14:48 GMT
> Dawn Taylor  burbled across the ether:
> > Gee, you mean like this:
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> weight so agressively anymore-- I was heading right back down *that*
> path last year before I put the breaks on.

Those would be "brakes".

HTH
revek - 20 Mar 2004 18:13 GMT
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>> Dawn Taylor  burbled across the ether:
>>> Gee, you mean like this:
[quoted text clipped - 12 lines]
>
> HTH

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Luna - 19 Mar 2004 20:37 GMT
> > Dimensionality. Photographs -- still or moving pictures -- are
> > one-dimensional, so they essentially "flatten" whatever's in front of
> > the camera. Gives the impression of more width.
>
> But it doesn't create lumps and skinfolds. Barrymore is so chubby you
> can even see it in her face.

http://www.drew-barrymore.konta.waw.pl/galerie/IMAGES/drew-barrymore-8.jpg

http://www.drew-barrymore.konta.waw.pl/galerie/IMAGES/drew-barrymore-11.jpg

Ok, where is this chub?  Sure, she's not a body builder, she probably
doesn't work out as much as Garner (except for when she was doing Charlie's
Angels) Maybe Drew's a size 2 or 4 instead of the Hollywood ideal size 0,
but I would hestitate to call her chubby.  Maybe "soft" is a better word.
She looks to me like she is muscular enough to be healthy, but maybe her
body fat percentage is in the mid or high range of normal, instead of
low-normal or too low like most actresses. Calista Flockhart is a stick,
Jennifer Garner is buff, Drew is soft, Kelly Osbourne is chubby, Rosie
Odonell is fat, the chick on The Practice is obese.

Anyway, the reason I hold Drew up as my ideal is based on her proportions,
and the way the normal-weight women in my family look. I think her shape is
a healthy, attainable one for me. I think at a healthy BF% that is close to
what my body will look like.

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Archon - 19 Mar 2004 21:00 GMT
> http://www.drew-barrymore.konta.waw.pl/galerie/IMAGES/drew-barrymore-8.jpg
>
> http://www.drew-barrymore.konta.waw.pl/galerie/IMAGES/drew-barrymore-11.jpg
>
> Ok, where is this chub?

The stomach under the white shirt. The cheeks.

But especially when she moves (eg in C. A.) you can see it. Orange skin
around the soft spots. The soft stuff extends the hips (under the real
hips) when she stands (it's not so much about absolute measures of
inches, but the texture and balance).

http://www.pusateri.org/cruft/images/barrymore.gif

see orange skin in the inner thighs and the lump on the outer thigh.

>  Sure, she's not a body builder, she probably
> doesn't work out as much as Garner (except for when she was doing Charlie's
> Angels) Maybe Drew's a size 2 or 4 instead of the Hollywood ideal size 0,
> but I would hestitate to call her chubby.  Maybe "soft" is a better word.

My definition of chubby is soft. Chubby to me is below overweight. I use
it to describe when the muscles are hidden by fat.

> She looks to me like she is muscular enough to be healthy, but maybe her
> body fat percentage is in the mid or high range of normal, instead of
> low-normal or too low like most actresses.

I think she's healthy *enough*. Like I said, she is chubby in a good
way, but nevertheless chubby.
Of course she wouldn't allow the pics that really shows it to be published.

> Calista Flockhart is a stick,

This one?

http://www.web-original.com/ally/immagini/Calista-Flockhart-p305.jpg

Look fine to me. Round curves around the hips, smooth transition between
the abs and ribs.

And nice muscles (not the quality of Garner, of course):

http://www.web-original.com/ally/immagini/ally10.jpg

> Jennifer Garner is buff, Drew is soft, Kelly Osbourne is chubby, Rosie
> Odonell is fat, the chick on The Practice is obese.

Jennifer Tilly is fat, too.
I don't distinguish between fat and obese. I've never seen fat% tables
saying w-x: fat, y-z: obese. It goes directly from acceptable (which I
call chubby) to obese.

> Anyway, the reason I hold Drew up as my ideal is based on her proportions,
> and the way the normal-weight women in my family look. I think her shape is
> a healthy, attainable one for me. I think at a healthy BF% that is close to
> what my body will look like.

It's in nice goal, as I believe your body types are the same.
Archon - 19 Mar 2004 21:08 GMT
> Jennifer Tilly is fat, too.
> I don't distinguish between fat and obese. I've never seen fat% tables
> saying w-x: fat, y-z: obese. It goes directly from acceptable (which I
> call chubby)

I meant the category acceptable moves from "chubby" to "overweight".
Where exactly the transition is, is difficult to say. For visual
inspection it depends how well the person carries the weight (a
thickboned person can carry more without looking bad than a thin boned
person).
Dawn Taylor - 19 Mar 2004 21:33 GMT
>> Calista Flockhart is a stick,
>
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
>
>http://www.web-original.com/ally/immagini/ally10.jpg

You have a bit of a problem. I mean, taste is taste, but promoting
that as an ideal body for women is the reason there's so many women
with eating disorders.

Dawn
Archon - 19 Mar 2004 22:01 GMT
> You have a bit of a problem. I mean, taste is taste, but promoting
> that as an ideal body for women is the reason there's so many women
> with eating disorders.

No, eating disorders are unrelated to physical features. It is a mental
problem, feeling alone, unwanted, bad childhood, out of control. Need
something to blame (and they are often already thin, so you can't say it
is to become thin they do it) or at least one thing to control or punish
themselves with. My first girlfriend had anorexia. Anorexia has nothing
to do with being thin.
Dawn Taylor - 19 Mar 2004 22:23 GMT
>> You have a bit of a problem. I mean, taste is taste, but promoting
>> that as an ideal body for women is the reason there's so many women
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>themselves with. My first girlfriend had anorexia. Anorexia has nothing
>to do with being thin.

Eating disorders arise from a lot of different factors, and living in
a society where an unrealistic standard of beauty is crammed down
girls' throats their entire lives -- combined with the message that
they're losers if they don't look that way-- is definitely a
contributing factor. A big one.

Dawn
FOB - 20 Mar 2004 01:36 GMT
Absolutely.  Back in the day when Marilyn Monroe and Jayne Mansfield were
the hot bods you never heard of eating disorders.  I don't remember anyone
going on a diet when I was in high school (graduated in '53) and there
weren't many fat kids either.  Pop was a treat and there certainly weren't
machines that sold it in schools.

In news:uvom50t1326o77nmmbs47niu68g8656clj@4ax.com,
Dawn Taylor <dawnetta@pacifier.com> stated

| Eating disorders arise from a lot of different factors, and living in
| a society where an unrealistic standard of beauty is crammed down
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
|
| Dawn
Archon - 20 Mar 2004 07:44 GMT
> Eating disorders arise from a lot of different factors, and living in
> a society where an unrealistic standard of beauty is crammed down
> girls' throats their entire lives -- combined with the message that
> they're losers if they don't look that way-- is definitely a
> contributing factor. A big one.

No, sane people who want to lose weight do not starve themselves. They
eat healthy and excercise. My anorexic ex did not excercise, and all she
ate was potato chips and water, until she passed out. Later it was
razorblades and a hundred headache pills.
Parent neglection and overprotection is a major player. Both parents
working, living with single parent downtown, no personal contact, moving
a lot, not making friends, etc.. This is why you see it more (and the
media is why you hear about it).
It is excredibly naive to think anorexia is a new phenomen. There's
records dating back to 16xx. It has always existed and the disease can
be triggered by phychologcal stress when a person is dealing with a
difficult transition, loss, puberty, divorce, family problems, death,
new job, new school, relationship break up, sexual or physical abuse, etc.
Blaming the media is typical weak human behaviour - rationalisation: I
had nothing to do with it, it must be X or Y, certainly not me. Like the
white dude, who loses a woman to an immigrant: "those damned immigrants,
they steal our women", or the immigrant, who doesn't get the job
position: "they are all just racist". There's always someone to blame
but oneself.
See now what you did. You made me emotional in a discusion and I hate that.
Roger Zoul - 20 Mar 2004 10:15 GMT
:: On Fri, 19 Mar 2004 12:00:48 -0800, Archon <sequoia@MAPSONtiscali.dk>
:: announced in front of God and everybody:
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
:: that as an ideal body for women is the reason there's so many women
:: with eating disorders.

No....the reason that so many women have eating disorders is because they
buy into it....and they promote it.  No one cares what Archon thinks.
Dawn Taylor - 19 Mar 2004 21:38 GMT
>> Calista Flockhart is a stick,
>
>This one?
>
>http://www.web-original.com/ally/immagini/Calista-Flockhart-p305.jpg

Oh, and by the way -- that's not her body. That's a PhotoShop job.

Dawn
TdN - 20 Mar 2004 03:19 GMT
My husband saw a magazine with Drew Barrymore's new (20 pounds lighter
than "Charlie's Angels") look and was horrified.

His exact words:  "She's ruined herself!"

Also, my grandmother, who wasn't rail-thin at all, lived in her own
home and did her own cooking/cleaning/gardening until the age of 97.
She wasn't obese by any means, but a sturdy woman like the late Queen
Mother of England.  Oh, wait--she, too, lived an active lifestyle
until she was 100.

I have thus disproved Doug Lerner's point that all people who live
active lives in their 90s are "rail-thin".  You guys may not have
known my grandma, but there are photos of her look-a-like
contemporary, the late Queen Mother, all over the Internet.

T.
Roger Zoul - 20 Mar 2004 10:18 GMT
:: My husband saw a magazine with Drew Barrymore's new (20 pounds
:: lighter than "Charlie's Angels") look and was horrified.
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
:: known my grandma, but there are photos of her look-a-like
:: contemporary, the late Queen Mother, all over the Internet.

Thank you!
Roger Zoul - 20 Mar 2004 10:12 GMT
:: Luna wrote:

http://www.drew-barrymore.konta.waw.pl/galerie/IMAGES/drew-barrymore-8.jpg

http://www.drew-barrymore.konta.waw.pl/galerie/IMAGES/drew-barrymore-11.jpg

::: Ok, where is this chub?
::
[quoted text clipped - 26 lines]
:: I think she's healthy *enough*. Like I said, she is chubby in a good
:: way, but nevertheless chubby.

Your problem is that you keep associating healthy with skinny...that ain't
so...there is not reason why Barrymore is not healthy.

:: Of course she wouldn't allow the pics that really shows it to be
:: published.

No matter, she's a major babe...

::: Calista Flockhart is a stick,
::
:: This one?
::
:: http://www.web-original.com/ally/immagini/Calista-Flockhart-p305.jpg

That pic must be dececptive somehow...flockhard is a skinny-benny...

:: Look fine to me. Round curves around the hips, smooth transition
:: between
:: the abs and ribs.

In that one pose, yes...she must have put on some weight there....

:: And nice muscles (not the quality of Garner, of course):
::
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
::
:: Jennifer Tilly is fat, too.

Then I like fat girls...

:: I don't distinguish between fat and obese. I've never seen fat%
:: tables saying w-x: fat, y-z: obese. It goes directly from acceptable
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
::
:: It's in nice goal, as I believe your body types are the same.
Archon - 20 Mar 2004 10:21 GMT
> :: I think she's healthy *enough*. Like I said, she is chubby in a good
> :: way, but nevertheless chubby.
>
> Your problem is that you keep associating healthy with skinny...that ain't
> so...there is not reason why Barrymore is not healthy.

I never said she wasn't healthy. Just not optimal.

> :: Of course she wouldn't allow the pics that really shows it to be
> :: published.
>
> No matter, she's a major babe...

Not major, but still attractive.

> That pic must be dececptive somehow...flockhard is a skinny-benny...

Someone mentioned it's superimposed.
Roger Zoul - 20 Mar 2004 11:11 GMT
:: Roger Zoul wrote:
::::: I think she's healthy *enough*. Like I said, she is chubby in a
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
::
:: I never said she wasn't healthy. Just not optimal.

You said "I think she's healthy *enough*."

How in the world can  you know jack about how healthy she is?  You're making
your statement solely on her looks -- and what you think is healthy based on
looks.  Sorry, but that's silly.  You can find zillions of skinny people who
have health problems and are otherwise not "healthy" (whatever that means).
And just in case you didn't know, one can be fat and still be "healthy".
Had you said "She not at a healthy weight" or something like that, I would
be silent.  Otherwise, I harp on like a broken record...

::::: Of course she wouldn't allow the pics that really shows it to be
::::: published.
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
::
:: Someone mentioned it's superimposed.
Archon - 20 Mar 2004 20:19 GMT
> You said "I think she's healthy *enough*." Had you said "She not at a healthy weight"

When we are talking about weight that is a given. I think she's at a
healthy weight. She just doesn't look as fit as Garner.

> How in the world can  you know jack about how healthy she is?  You're making
> your statement solely on her looks -- and what you think is healthy based on
> looks.  Sorry, but that's silly.  You can find zillions of skinny people who
> have health problems and are otherwise not "healthy" (whatever that means).

But not weight related health problems (and in the start I said as long
we are not talking malnutrition and drug abuse). 6 months ago I was on
your side of the table saying the exact same things, but I couldn't find
any reason whatsoever why a woman should not be what you call skinny
(except for decoration), and the other person had all the physiology
(e.g. saying that there's nothing that is supposed to cover the ribs),
medical studies etc. as a reference from med school. Healthwise there's
nothing wrong for a woman with being e.g. 5'8" and e.g. 115 pounds, or
5'1" and 80 pounds. The body does not need more fat that 3%/12%
(male/female).

The only reason I thought and most people think skinny is a bad thing,
is because it has become very popular to be negative about the
model/actress world (political correctness perhaps) and blaming eating
disorders on them, etc. People are brainwashed to lynch the skinny woman.

> And just in case you didn't know, one can be fat and still be "healthy".

I think that carrying too much excess fat is always unhealthy. The fat
stores lots of "old stuff" and it mechanically loads the body, and
changes the body chemistry, e.g. in women it increases their estrogen
levels which cancer just loves.
The only case where the fat is an advantage is when you are lost in the
wilderness, but never in this excessive food abundant life we lead.
Roger Zoul - 21 Mar 2004 01:19 GMT
:: Roger Zoul wrote:
:::
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
:: When we are talking about weight that is a given. I think she's at a
:: healthy weight. She just doesn't look as fit as Garner.

There you go again...I know you can't help it...but tell me how you can tell
which of the two is more fit?  What does fit mean, exactly?  You do realize
that one person can have higher bf than another but be able to out perform,
on several measures, the one of lower bf?  Hence, bf % is NOT a measure of
fitness.  She may indeed not be a fit as Garner, but that really depends.

You've misused the word "fit".  It doesn't imply the lowest possible bf %.

::: How in the world can  you know jack about how healthy she is?
::: You're making
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
:: long
:: we are not talking malnutrition and drug abuse).

There are a world of other things outside of malnutrtion and drug abuse...

6 months ago I was
:: on
:: your side of the table saying the exact same things, but I couldn't
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
:: or 5'1" and 80 pounds. The body does not need more fat that 3%/12%
:: (male/female).

Nonsense.  My last gf was 5'8" and 110 lbs.  She was skinny -- with a
capital S.  Ribs sticking out -- hip bones like razors sticking out -- even
her doctor told her she needed higher bf.  Also, she tended to get sick a
lot too, though I can't honestly say that was weight related. But she would
have looked much much better at 130 lbs.  Her legs were just boney and she
had an gap between them...not attractive. She does have a very cute face and
a nice butt, BTW -- and most of her fat was on her butt -- I enjoyed that
about her :)

And exactly where are you getting these "needed" bodyfat numbers?  You
realize that you stand alone (or in company of very few) in promoting those
numbers, right?  Many women will have issues with reproduction at 12% bf...

:: The only reason I thought and most people think skinny is a bad
:: thing,
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
:: disorders on them, etc. People are brainwashed to lynch the skinny
:: woman.

Nonsense....while there are way way way too many overweight people, it is
possible to be too skinny too.  There is no need to recoil to the opposite
extreme.  Please don't be part of that. Most people would not be able to
reach your stated levels of bf %, and that's a good thing, by and large.

::: And just in case you didn't know, one can be fat and still be
::: "healthy".
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
:: changes the body chemistry, e.g. in women it increases their estrogen
:: levels which cancer just loves.

Key on the words "too much" and then figure out what it means.

:: The only case where the fat is an advantage is when you are lost in
:: the
:: wilderness, but never in this excessive food abundant life we lead.

This is according to you.  Fat has a function too and one of them is to make
us look good.
Archon - 21 Mar 2004 07:25 GMT
> There you go again...I know you can't help it...but tell me how you can tell
> which of the two is more fit?  What does fit mean, exactly?  You do realize
> that one person can have higher bf than another but be able to out perform,
> on several measures, the one of lower bf?

Yes, I know that.

> Hence, bf % is NOT a measure of
> fitness.  She may indeed not be a fit as Garner, but that really depends.
>
> You've misused the word "fit".  It doesn't imply the lowest possible bf %.

I said *look* fit and athletic.

> There are a world of other things outside of malnutrtion and drug abuse...

Yes, but we are not talking about those, only stoutness now.

> Nonsense.  My last gf was 5'8" and 110 lbs.  She was skinny -- with a
> capital S.  Ribs sticking out -- hip bones like razors sticking out -- even

The one I know has very small bones so no bones are sticking out and she
is quite soft, and the doctor says it's fine.
And the 80 lbs woman was healthy enough to give birth to multiple kids.

> her doctor told her she needed higher bf.  Also, she tended to get sick a
> lot too, though I can't honestly say that was weight related. But she would
> have looked much much better at 130 lbs.  Her legs were just boney and she
> had an gap between them...not attractive. She does have a very cute face and
> a nice butt, BTW -- and most of her fat was on her butt -- I enjoyed that
> about her :)

I agree that when there's a big gap between the top of the legs, when
the knees are toughing eachother, then it is too skinny. Figure skaters
have awesome legs. Low fat but big and round thighs/butt.

It sounds like your GF was another bodytype. Some people look best with
more stuffing, others can't carry much.

> And exactly where are you getting these "needed" bodyfat numbers?  You
> realize that you stand alone (or in company of very few) in promoting those
> numbers, right?  Many women will have issues with reproduction at 12% bf...

All the lists out there about bf...

Here's one

http://www.am-i-fat.com/body_fat_percentage.html

The American Council of Exercise provides the following:-
General Body Fat Percentage Categories

Classification Women (% fat) Men (% fat)
Essential Fat 10-12% 2-4%
Athletes 14-20% 6-13%
Fitness  21-24%  14-17%
Acceptable  25-31% 18-25%
Obese  32% plus 25% plus

> Nonsense....while there are way way way too many overweight people, it is
> possible to be too skinny too.  There is no need to recoil to the opposite
> extreme.  Please don't be part of that. Most people would not be able to
> reach your stated levels of bf %, and that's a good thing, by and large.

I agree it is possible to be too skinny, but Garner is not close.
And I've never said that all people should aim for 3%/12%. I'm satisfied
with 10% for myself (maybe 8-9% as I've still got a bit too much on the
stomach making folds when I sit). I said earlier that everything more
than these numbers are for decoration only, and does nothing to make
your health better, nor make the body less "scrawny" and "fragile".
But I consider the fat that you can't see the muscle tone (both men and
women) way too much, and am convinced that is unhealthy.
revek - 20 Mar 2004 11:39 GMT
Archon  burbled across the ether:
>> That pic must be dececptive somehow...flockhard is a skinny-benny...
>
> Someone mentioned it's superimposed.

I'll say.  Calista is too damn thin.
http://www.dagbladet.no/kultur/2000/07/21/calista.JPG

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JC Der Koenig - 20 Mar 2004 14:47 GMT
> Archon  burbled across the ether:
> >> That pic must be dececptive somehow...flockhard is a skinny-benny...
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> I'll say.  Calista is too damn thin.
> http://www.dagbladet.no/kultur/2000/07/21/calista.JPG

Damn. Someone get that woman a sandwich.
Roger Zoul - 20 Mar 2004 16:12 GMT
::: Archon  burbled across the ether:
::::: That pic must be dececptive somehow...flockhard is a
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
::
:: Damn. Someone get that woman a sandwich.

sh.t....get her a jug of lard....and be quick about it.
JC Der Koenig - 20 Mar 2004 16:48 GMT
> ::: Archon  burbled across the ether:
> ::::: That pic must be dececptive somehow...flockhard is a
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
>
> sh.t....get her a jug of lard....and be quick about it.

Heh.

I just can't get into the scarecrow look. Perhaps she can hook up with Iggy
Pop.
Luna - 20 Mar 2004 17:49 GMT
> > Archon  burbled across the ether:
> > >> That pic must be dececptive somehow...flockhard is a skinny-benny...
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>
> Damn. Someone get that woman a sandwich.

Sandwiches are not low carb.

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revek - 20 Mar 2004 18:12 GMT
Luna  burbled across the ether:

>>> Archon  burbled across the ether:
>>>>> That pic must be dececptive somehow...flockhard is a
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
>
> Sandwiches are not low carb.

LOL!!!

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Roger Zoul - 20 Mar 2004 18:26 GMT
:: In article <9YX6c.766$8j5.426@newssvr24.news.prodigy.com>,
::  "JC Der Koenig" <jcderkoenig@ibm.com> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
::
:: Sandwiches are not low carb.

And that is the point!!!  Last thing ally needs is to lose weight.
revek - 20 Mar 2004 18:51 GMT
Roger Zoul  burbled across the ether:
> And that is the point!!!  Last thing ally needs is to lose weight.

Yeah well *we* know that, but it mimics a certain person's knee jerk
reaction to seeing certain words on the screen, regardless of their
context.  It's perfect.

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JC Der Koenig - 20 Mar 2004 18:53 GMT
> > > Archon  burbled across the ether:
> > > >> That pic must be dececptive somehow...flockhard is a skinny-benny...
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>
> Sandwiches are not low carb.

Exactly.
Archon - 20 Mar 2004 19:52 GMT
> Sandwiches are not low carb.

She needs a big bowl of whipped cream :)
Archon - 20 Mar 2004 19:51 GMT
> Archon  burbled across the ether:
>
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> I'll say.  Calista is too damn thin.
> http://www.dagbladet.no/kultur/2000/07/21/calista.JPG

That looks really strange.
nimue - 21 Mar 2004 23:15 GMT
snip

>>>> Calista Flockhart is a stick,
>>>
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
> That pic must be dececptive somehow...flockhard is a skinny-benny...

It's photoshopped.  I don't think CF ever posed for a pic like that and she
does not a shape like that.

>>> Look fine to me. Round curves around the hips, smooth transition
>>> between
[quoted text clipped - 24 lines]
>>>
>>> It's in nice goal, as I believe your body types are the same.

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Roger Zoul - 20 Mar 2004 10:06 GMT
:: In article <K_2dna_RgcpeqcbdRVn-vw@omsoft.com>,
::  Archon <sequoia@MAPSONtiscali.dk> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
::: But it doesn't create lumps and skinfolds. Barrymore is so chubby
::: you can even see it in her face.

http://www.drew-barrymore.konta.waw.pl/galerie/IMAGES/drew-barrymore-8.jpg

Nice...

http://www.drew-barrymore.konta.waw.pl/galerie/IMAGES/drew-barrymore-11.jpg

A little chubby, but still works for me...

:: Ok, where is this chub?  Sure, she's not a body builder, she probably
:: doesn't work out as much as Garner (except for when she was doing
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
:: buff, Drew is soft, Kelly Osbourne is chubby, Rosie Odonell is fat,
:: the chick on The Practice is obese.

Drew is soft?  Okay....I call that chubby, just not unattractively so...I
like KO and she is definitely inthe chubby range...

:: Anyway, the reason I hold Drew up as my ideal is based on her
:: proportions, and the way the normal-weight women in my family look.

: I think her shape is a healthy, attainable one for me. I think at a
:: healthy BF% that is close to what my body will look like.

Me too.
JC Der Koenig - 20 Mar 2004 14:46 GMT
http://www.drew-barrymore.konta.waw.pl/galerie/IMAGES/drew-barrymore-11.jpg

> A little chubby, but still works for me...
>
> Drew is soft?  Okay....I call that chubby, just not unattractively so...I
> like KO and she is definitely inthe chubby range...

That's chubby?

I don't see it.
Roger Zoul - 20 Mar 2004 16:11 GMT
http://www.drew-barrymore.konta.waw.pl/galerie/IMAGES/drew-barrymore-11.jpg

::: A little chubby, but still works for me...
:::
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
::
:: I don't see it.

Just a little bit....Soft might be a better term....Still, it works for
me...
JC Der Koenig - 20 Mar 2004 16:47 GMT
http://www.drew-barrymore.konta.waw.pl/galerie/IMAGES/drew-barrymore-11.jpg

> ::: A little chubby, but still works for me...
> :::
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> Just a little bit....Soft might be a better term....Still, it works for
> me...

Ok, I see soft. And it works for me too.
revek - 21 Mar 2004 04:42 GMT
JC Der Koenig  burbled across the ether:

http://www.drew-barrymore.konta.waw.pl/galerie/IMAGES/drew-barrymore-11.jpg

>> A little chubby, but still works for me...
>>
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>
> I don't see it.

Archon is a Dane, remember, and English is his second language.  You
might ask him to define what he means by chubby.

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JC Der Koenig - 21 Mar 2004 04:52 GMT
> JC Der Koenig  burbled across the ether:

http://www.drew-barrymore.konta.waw.pl/galerie/IMAGES/drew-barrymore-11.jpg

> >> A little chubby, but still works for me...
> >>
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> Archon is a Dane, remember, and English is his second language.  You
> might ask him to define what he means by chubby.

I really don't want to know what he's thinking.
Archon - 21 Mar 2004 07:26 GMT
> Archon is a Dane, remember, and English is his second language.  You
> might ask him to define what he means by chubby.

I already defined it as NOT overweight, but soft.
JC Der Koenig - 21 Mar 2004 13:49 GMT
> > Archon is a Dane, remember, and English is his second language.  You
> > might ask him to define what he means by chubby.
>
> I already defined it as NOT overweight, but soft.

So when you don't know a word in English you just make up a definition for
it? That's rather unusual. Is that a common Danish practice?
Archon - 21 Mar 2004 21:27 GMT
> So when you don't know a word in English you just make up a definition for
> it? That's rather unusual. Is that a common Danish practice?

Apparently, Roger used the same definition and he is not a Dane.
JC Der Koenig - 21 Mar 2004 21:51 GMT
> > So when you don't know a word in English you just make up a definition for
> > it? That's rather unusual. Is that a common Danish practice?
>
> Apparently, Roger used the same definition and he is not a Dane.

So you didn't understand what Roger wrote either.
Archon - 21 Mar 2004 23:34 GMT
> So you didn't understand what Roger wrote either.

He said:

1. Drew looks chubby
2. Drew looks healthy
3. Soft might be a better word
Marsha - 22 Mar 2004 02:11 GMT
>> So you didn't understand what Roger wrote either.
>
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> 2. Drew looks healthy
> 3. Soft might be a better word

Drew looks silly with that cigarette hanging out of her
mouth.  That about sums it up.

Marsha/Ohio
The Queen of Cans and Jars - 19 Mar 2004 23:17 GMT
> > Dimensionality. Photographs -- still or moving pictures -- are
> > one-dimensional, so they essentially "flatten" whatever's in front of
> > the camera. Gives the impression of more width.
>
> But it doesn't create lumps and skinfolds. Barrymore is so chubby you
> can even see it in her face.

oh, the horror!

*eyeroll*
JC Der Koenig - 19 Mar 2004 23:55 GMT
> > > Dimensionality. Photographs -- still or moving pictures -- are
> > > one-dimensional, so they essentially "flatten" whatever's in front of
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>
> *eyeroll*

LOL
Ross Himes - 19 Mar 2004 12:14 GMT
> redefine your definition of the word "chubby". It's awfully easy to
> get a distorted idea of what constitutes a healthy body weight by
> looking at actresses in TV and movies -- keep in mind that actors look
> several inches taller and 10-15 pounds heavier on-camera than they do
> in real life.

Yea, but she still looks chubby, always has.
LCer09 - 20 Mar 2004 03:21 GMT
>> redefine your definition of the word "chubby". It's awfully easy to
>> get a distorted idea of what constitutes a healthy body weight by
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
>Yea, but she still looks chubby, always has.

She has a round face. As in bone structure, not fat. Not everybody is born with
chiseled cheekbones. Plus she has tits and a.s. God forbid a woman have those.
Good lord, I'd hate to see how "fat" people would think she was if she hadn't
gotten a breast reduction. The rest of her is tiny, stopping short of bony.

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Archon - 19 Mar 2004 08:22 GMT
> :: Angelina Jolie is good (about the same as Garner, but less feminime I
> :: think - less curves), but Barrymore is chubby (not in an unattractive
> :: way, though).
>
> Little bit chubby is fine on a woman...

But "normal" and even skinny is healthier.
Roger Zoul - 19 Mar 2004 10:07 GMT
:: Roger Zoul wrote:
::::: Angelina Jolie is good (about the same as Garner, but less
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
::
:: But "normal" and even skinny is healthier.

Prove it.
Archon - 19 Mar 2004 10:15 GMT
> ::: Little bit chubby is fine on a woman...
> ::
> :: But "normal" and even skinny is healthier.
>
> Prove it.

I don't have the reference, but a doctor told me about it (as long we
are not talking about malnutrition) and refered to some rat experiments
that showed the skinny ones live longer. It might be the same that JC
talked about when he said undernutrition extends life.
Doug Lerner - 19 Mar 2004 10:28 GMT
On 3/19/04 6:15 PM, in article gvqdnTWpafG7J8fdRVn-hQ@omsoft.com, "Archon"
<sequoia@MAPSONtiscali.dk> wrote:

>> ::: Little bit chubby is fine on a woman...
>> ::
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> that showed the skinny ones live longer. It might be the same that JC
> talked about when he said undernutrition extends life.

I realize it's just anecdotal, and not a scientific survey by any means, but
there are lots of very old and healthy men and women in my neighborhood here
in Tokyo. I am talking about people who walk, tend their gardens, go
shopping, etc., well into their 90s.

100% of them are rail thin.

You *never* see anybody like that in their 90s when who are overweight.
Never.

doug
Roger Zoul - 19 Mar 2004 10:43 GMT
:: On 3/19/04 6:15 PM, in article gvqdnTWpafG7J8fdRVn-hQ@omsoft.com,
:: "Archon" <sequoia@MAPSONtiscali.dk> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 22 lines]
:: You *never* see anybody like that in their 90s when who are
:: overweight. Never.

Why is it that healthy is assciated with "thin" and old age?  Many of these
people will have various health problems and end up just hanging on til they
drop dead...just being alive doesn't imply healthy--- well, for many it
seems to if you've 90.
Archon - 19 Mar 2004 10:50 GMT
> Why is it that healthy is assciated with "thin" and old age?  Many of these
> people will have various health problems and end up just hanging on til they
> drop dead...just being alive doesn't imply healthy--- well, for many it
> seems to if you've 90.

He's not associating thin with healthy, but "I am talking about people
who walk, tend their gardens, go shopping, etc." with healthy.
Roger Zoul - 19 Mar 2004 11:19 GMT
:: Roger Zoul wrote:
::: Why is it that healthy is assciated with "thin" and old age?  Many
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
:: people
:: who walk, tend their gardens, go shopping, etc." with healthy.

Hmm...well, let's say I'm 35, weight 300 lbs, have T2 diabetes, and walk,
tend gardens, and go shopping....does that make me healthy?  Apparently, if
I'm 90 and thin, it does, no matter if I have other health issues.

My point is a person may have managed to live into old age with a variety of
health problems and may yet still be able to function in the manner
described.  Many of us might just assume this person is a paragon of health,
but is that true?

If someone said to me that a person is 90 and has no outstanding health
issues and rarely gets ill, then I'd say that person is healthy -- whether
thin or not.
Doug Lerner - 19 Mar 2004 11:21 GMT
On 3/19/04 6:43 PM, in article 105lg6qk0qs25ff@corp.supernews.com, "Roger
Zoul" <rogerzoul2@hotmail.com> wrote:

> :: I realize it's just anecdotal, and not a scientific survey by any
> :: means, but there are lots of very old and healthy men and women in
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> drop dead...just being alive doesn't imply healthy--- well, for many it
> seems to if you've 90.

Well, you were presumably replying to what I wrote, right? And I said that
these people were active, walking around, tending their gardens, going
shopping by themselves, etc.

I assume they probably have some health problems. Most people accumulate
problems with health as they get old.

But these people are obviously relatively healthy.

The point though is that 100% of them are very thin.

You never ever ever see anybody active and healthy like in their 90s who is
overweight. Absolutely never.

That must mean something.

doug
Roger Zoul - 19 Mar 2004 11:44 GMT
:: You never ever ever see anybody active and healthy like in their 90s
:: who is overweight. Absolutely never.

Absolutely never, huh?  There is always, absolutely always, an exception.
Unfortunately, I don't know any 90 yo at all, so I can't prove my claim.
carla - 19 Mar 2004 13:59 GMT
> You never ever ever see anybody active and healthy like in their 90s who is
> overweight. Absolutely never.
>
> That must mean something.

I wonder about the cause and effect here, though.  Mr. carla's grandmother
is in her 90s, and though she was quite active 10 years ago she no longer is
because her knees and other joints have stopped working and she just can't
get around any more.  As a consequence, she's put on weight.

carla
Roger Zoul - 19 Mar 2004 17:16 GMT
:: On 3/19/04 6:43 PM, in article 105lg6qk0qs25ff@corp.supernews.com,
:: "Roger Zoul" <rogerzoul2@hotmail.com> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 29 lines]
::
:: That must mean something.

Sure, I'd agree.  But what does it mean and what is the reason for it.
You're assuming the reason they are 90 yo is because they are thin.
However, could the reason they are thin be because they are 90 yo?  Perhaps
they are genetically inclined for long life, so they would naturally have
long lives.  And perhaps they have dulled taste buds, and hence don't enjoy
food as much as when they were younger. Also, do  you know if all of these
people have been rail thin their entire lives or is it a recent thing?

:: doug
Roger Zoul - 19 Mar 2004 10:39 GMT
:: Roger Zoul wrote:
:::::: Little bit chubby is fine on a woman...
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:: experiments that showed the skinny ones live longer. It might be the
:: same that JC talked about when he said undernutrition extends life.

Thing is, that doesn't prove skinny is healthier. Once can live a long life
and not be as healthy as someone who dies earlier.
Archon - 19 Mar 2004 10:48 GMT
> Thing is, that doesn't prove skinny is healthier. Once can live a long life
> and not be as healthy as someone who dies earlier.

Yes, and there are 90 y olds who smoke, but that doesn't mean it's not
unhealthy to smoke.
Roger Zoul - 19 Mar 2004 11:11 GMT
:: Roger Zoul wrote:
:::
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:: Yes, and there are 90 y olds who smoke, but that doesn't mean it's
:: not unhealthy to smoke.

Right....so there can be 90 yo who are just clinging to life and shouldn't
be termed healthy merely because of it...
Archon - 19 Mar 2004 12:10 GMT
> Right....so there can be 90 yo who are just clinging to life

I doubt they'd be hopping around if they are just clinging to life :)
Roger Zoul - 19 Mar 2004 13:12 GMT
:: Roger Zoul wrote:
::: Right....so there can be 90 yo who are just clinging to life
::
:: I doubt they'd be hopping around if they are just clinging to life :)

Well, not the ones doug mentioned...but there must be some who are...
carla - 19 Mar 2004 13:55 GMT
> > ::: Little bit chubby is fine on a woman...
> > ::
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> that showed the skinny ones live longer. It might be the same that JC
> talked about when he said undernutrition extends life.

Archon, if you are going to cite those rat studies you have to understand
that those rats are starved - they don't have much fat, but they don't have
much muscle either.  From what you have describes, I think the human version
of those rats would be too skinny and bony even for your emaciated taste.

The Callista Flockharts of the rat world, if you will.

Mr. carla has a friend who has decided to apply those rat studies to his
life - and he looks horrible.  His face looks like thin leather stretched
across a skull.  His arms are like toothpicks.  When he stands sideways, you
can't see him.

He may live 100 years, I don't know.  And if he does, there's no way to know
whether it's due to his extreme diet.  Either way, he doesn't look like you.

carla
Roger Zoul - 19 Mar 2004 17:17 GMT
::: Roger Zoul wrote:
::::::: Little bit chubby is fine on a woman...
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:: to know whether it's due to his extreme diet.  Either way, he
:: doesn't look like you.

That's just plain scary....
Archon - 19 Mar 2004 19:07 GMT
> Archon, if you are going to cite those rat studies you have to understand
> that those rats are starved - they don't have much fat, but they don't have
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> He may live 100 years, I don't know.  And if he does, there's no way to know
> whether it's due to his extreme diet.  Either way, he doesn't look like you.

That just means that I may take some years off my life by being (what I
call) "normal". But rather live a bit shorter good life than a bit
longer deprived life...
Roger Zoul - 18 Mar 2004 21:08 GMT
:: In article <LNqdnYw0F5gTfMTd4p2dnA@omsoft.com>,
::  Archon <sequoia@MAPSONtiscali.dk> wrote:
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:: I think she's pretty skinny.  I like the bodies of Angelina Jolie
:: and Drew Barrymore, personally.  Curvy, but not fat.

Me too.
Roger Zoul - 18 Mar 2004 21:08 GMT
:: Roger Zoul wrote:
:::
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
:: I don't consider Jennifer Garner skinny. It is my reference for a
:: "normal" (perfect) body.

Normal ain't perfect, dude...
Archon - 19 Mar 2004 08:09 GMT
> :: I don't consider Jennifer Garner skinny. It is my reference for a
> :: "normal" (perfect) body.
>
> Normal ain't perfect, dude...

When using it to define stoutness with that as a reference, it is.
Ina Hesmer - 17 Mar 2004 11:46 GMT
>My date took this pic of me when we went bowling on Sunday.
>
>http://www.mindspring.com/~lunachick/photos/bowling.html

>The expression on my face is pretty much "Oh crap he's taking my picture."
>I was not prepared.  Anyway, I'm 10-ish pounds lighter than in the flame
>top pic, but I don't think it really shows.  Different clothes, different
>angle, and, well, I'm still big enough that 10 pounds one way or another is
>not much of a dramatic difference.  Thought I'd share anyway though!

Forget the dorky, you look absolutely hot, Luna! :)

Ina

213/152/150
since 8/15/03, 5'8"
www.skreee.de
Xray658 - 17 Mar 2004 13:33 GMT
Hey Luna, look at the difference between the red dress pics and your bowling
picture!  You look so much more comfortable with yourself!
Kris Kringle Lick A Pringle - 17 Mar 2004 13:57 GMT
Looks good.  Let's see some topless shots.

> My date took this pic of me when we went bowling on Sunday.
>
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> angle, and, well, I'm still big enough that 10 pounds one way or another is
> not much of a dramatic difference.  Thought I'd share anyway though!
Camille - 17 Mar 2004 14:16 GMT
You look marvelous!!

Camille

> My date took this pic of me when we went bowling on Sunday.
>
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> angle, and, well, I'm still big enough that 10 pounds one way or another is
> not much of a dramatic difference.  Thought I'd share anyway though!
Jean B. - 17 Mar 2004 14:49 GMT
> My date took this pic of me when we went bowling on Sunday.
>
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> angle, and, well, I'm still big enough that 10 pounds one way or another is
> not much of a dramatic difference.  Thought I'd share anyway though!

You look wonderful, Luna!
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Ignoramus5568 - 17 Mar 2004 15:19 GMT
> My date took this pic of me when we went bowling on Sunday.
>
> http://www.mindspring.com/~lunachick/photos/bowling.html

You look extremely sexy and cute.

i
Marcusj - 17 Mar 2004 15:25 GMT
Michelle,
you are looking great!

It looks like you changed hair color, too.

Mark.

> My date took this pic of me when we went bowling on Sunday.
>
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> angle, and, well, I'm still big enough that 10 pounds one way or another is
> not much of a dramatic difference.  Thought I'd share anyway though!
Damsel in dis Dress - 17 Mar 2004 15:41 GMT
Nothing dorky about it, Michelle!  You're looking fantastic!

Carol
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Atkins since March 12, 2004
Type 2 Diabetic since May 15, 2001

Luna - 17 Mar 2004 16:49 GMT
Thanks.  It changes by itself, lol. Actually, what happens is (ok, about to
get way OT here) I dye my hair with permanent dye from Herbal Essences. It
starts to fade before my roots are showing too badly, so instead of dying
it again with the permanent stuff and damaging it more, I use a
semi-permanent fire engine red dye that brightens it up without damaging
it. So depending on which stage my hair is in, it is varying shades of red.

> Michelle,
> you are looking great!
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> is
> > not much of a dramatic difference.  Thought I'd share anyway though!

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I have only 3 flaws.  My first flaw is thinking that I only have 3 flaws.

Carmen - 17 Mar 2004 16:20 GMT
Hi,

> My date took this pic of me when we went bowling on Sunday.
>
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> another is not much of a dramatic difference.  Thought I'd share
> anyway though!

The picture doesn't look dorky to me.  You're cute.  :-)

Take care,
Carmen
wilson - 17 Mar 2004 18:56 GMT
> My date took this pic of me when we went bowling on Sunday.
>
> http://www.mindspring.com/~lunachick/photos/bowling.html

Wow! You look really great!!! What an inspiration to the rest of us!
Paper - 17 Mar 2004 19:42 GMT
>My date took this pic of me when we went bowling on Sunday.
>
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>angle, and, well, I'm still big enough that 10 pounds one way or another is
>not much of a dramatic difference.  Thought I'd share anyway though!

You look like you're having a helluva good time!

Paper

If it's not one thing - it's your mother.
High Weight 308/225-Atkins Start/221.5/150
Clark Mertz - 17 Mar 2004 20:04 GMT
You look awesome. Keep it up

CM

> >My date took this pic of me when we went bowling on Sunday.
> >
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> If it's not one thing - it's your mother.
> High Weight 308/225-Atkins Start/221.5/150
Bob in CT - 17 Mar 2004 20:11 GMT
>> My date took this pic of me when we went bowling on Sunday.

How'd you like your date (the person, not the event)?

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Luna - 18 Mar 2004 01:10 GMT
> >> My date took this pic of me when we went bowling on Sunday.
>
> How'd you like your date (the person, not the event)?

He's super awesome.  :o)

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Sunshyne - 18 Mar 2004 15:33 GMT
> My date took this pic of me when we went bowling on Sunday.
>
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> angle, and, well, I'm still big enough that 10 pounds one way or another is
> not much of a dramatic difference.  Thought I'd share anyway though!

You are looking great! I don't think it looks dorky at all. Pictures
taking at the spur of the moment are cool.  You are a inspiration
Luna!
Crafting Mom - 19 Mar 2004 14:05 GMT
Dave Markson - 20 Mar 2004 15:44 GMT
>My date took this pic of me when we went bowling on Sunday.
>
>http://www.mindspring.com/~lunachick/photos/bowling.html

Congrats.  Great job, you can see the "success" in your stance.

I just started back on LC (South Beach this time), and have been away from this
group for several years.  It was always a great place to be.

--
Dave  (LC -again- since 2/29/04)
180/173/145
dave@markson.removeit.net
http://markson.net/lowcarb.htm (My Lowcarb Page)
 (overhaul soon)
CarbAddict - 20 Mar 2004 20:49 GMT
>  From: Dave Markson (Sat, 20 Mar 2004 09:44:20 -0500)
> MsgId: <valo50tdn0k5bc7qv8u8g33hb12a0s2ji8@4ax.com>
>
> I just started back on LC (South Beach this time), and have
> been away from this group for several years.  It was always
> a great place to be.

Why'd you stop LC'ing? What do you like about South Beach as opposed to
other LC plans?
Dave Markson - 20 Mar 2004 21:31 GMT
>> I just started back on LC (South Beach this time), and have
>> been away from this group for several years.  It was always
>> a great place to be.
>
>Why'd you stop LC'ing? What do you like about South Beach as opposed to
>other LC plans?

That is a very good question.  I turned into LC all day until after dinner and
then LC turned to HC.   I dropped my exercise program too.

Why?  Hard to pick just one reason.  More hours at work.  More time on-line.
Excuses, excuses, excuses.  Really no good reason.

Now that I am back on LC and exercise I feel so much better.  You forget that
part of it.  Energy is up considerably.  Not sure if its the exercise, the LC,
the excitement of losing inches, or a combination of all of them. Guess it
really does not matter, it's working :)

Why South Beach?  I am concerned about the amount of fat I eat.  It seems
reasonable to choose some lower fat items, such as lower fat meats, low fat
cheese, and other things, that do not replace fat with sugars.  OTOH, I can't
live with ONLY low fat, yuk. . South Beach gets into the "good carbs" and "bad
carbs" where Atkins shuns them all.  I'm thinking of this as a refinement of the
Atkins program.  The other big reason is that I don't have to have a different
meal than the rest of the family. I can have some stuffing (whole wheat),
limited pasta (whole wheat), slow cook brown rice, etc.  That's what they tell
me.  That's the plan.  We'll see where it goes.

I've been trying to get back on LC for over a year.  It took that picture last
month (on my main LC page) to get me moving again.

--
Dave  (LC -again- since 2/29/04)
180/173/145
dave@markson.removeit.net
http://markson.net/lowcarb.htm (My Lowcarb Page)
CarbAddict - 22 Mar 2004 05:41 GMT
>>> I just started back on LC (South Beach this time), and have
>>> been away from this group for several years.  It was always
>>> a great place to be.

>>> CarbAddict said:
>>
>> Why'd you stop LC'ing? What do you like about South Beach
>> as opposed to other LC plans?

>  From: Dave Markson (Sat, 20 Mar 2004 15:31:19 -0500)
> MsgId: <tg9p509thshpuabnmfdh86pq5uh6bv2f2l@4ax.com>
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> Why?  Hard to pick just one reason.  More hours at work.  More
> time on-line. Excuses, excuses, excuses.  Really no good reason.

Internally, there's always a "good reason" for our choices. Sometimes it
just has to do with prioritizing immediate gratification over long term
goals. It can be helpful in changing behavior to know why you held on to
the old behavior in the first place. Then you can make conscious decisions
as opposed to decisions by default (which tend to be "easiest as the
moment.")

> Why South Beach?  I am concerned about the amount of fat
> I eat.  It seems reasonable to choose some lower fat items,
> such as lower fat meats, low fat cheese, and other things,
> that do not replace fat with sugars.

I've eaten Low Fat for several years and the only conscious thing I've
decided to do is eat fat rather than carbs. That doesn't mean I HAVE to eat
fat. It just means if I'm not getting enough food to satiate me, add more
protein and fat to my diet, not carbs.

> OTOH, I can't live with ONLY low fat, yuk..

I actually did OK with it, but it didn't address my hunger.

> South Beach gets into the "good carbs" and "bad carbs"
> where Atkins shuns them all.

Really? I thought Atkins said you can add back in things like vegetables as
long as you stay below your threshhold.

> I'm thinking of this as a refinement of the Atkins program.

I don't have a name for my diet anymore. It's just "LC" :).

> The other big reason is that I don't have to have a different
> meal than the rest of the family. I can have some stuffing
> (whole wheat), limited pasta (whole wheat), slow cook brown
> rice, etc.  That's what they tell me.  That's the plan.  We'll
> see where it goes.

Ah, I see. Well, I'm in my "somewhat low" carb stage right now. My Body Fat
% is improving, which is my goal. My appetite is great. Energy is OK too. I
don't plan to make high carb meals a regular part of my diet going forward.
I just expect to have more carbs on some days than others. I had a
rotisserie chicken recently and had mashed potatoes with it. I didn't
consider it a failure. It is built in as something I'm going to do on an
on-going basis as desired (but not regularly). I'm still staying away from
things like dressing, etc. but of course that's an individual choice.

> I've been trying to get back on LC for over a year.  It
> took that picture last month (on my main LC page) to get
> me moving again.

I do wonder what mentally stood in your way. I'm asking you these questions
because it seems (and appearances can be deceiving) that you consider
LC'ing a sacrifice and something you have to force yourself to do. I still
think I was one of the worst carb addicts known to mankind, but I find now
that I cleaned out my system a bit, I don't miss them anywhere near as much
as everyone (including me) thought I would. Maybe for you it is just the
social thing of eating differently than everyone else in your family. Food
for thought.
Dave Markson - 24 Mar 2004 00:02 GMT
>Internally, there's always a "good reason" for our choices. Sometimes it
>just has to do with prioritizing immediate gratification over long term
>goals. It can be helpful in changing behavior to know why you held on to
>the old behavior in the first place. Then you can make conscious decisions
>as opposed to decisions by default (which tend to be "easiest as the
>moment.")

Realizing that there is not an end to the goal is probably the key.  I am the
kind of person that would rather solve a problem quick and then go relax for
awhile, rather than continue steady forever.  Obviously that does not work for
eating for life.

>> South Beach gets into the "good carbs" and "bad carbs"
>> where Atkins shuns them all.

>Really? I thought Atkins said you can add back in things like vegetables as
>long as you stay below your threshhold.

That is true. What I think I meant to say is that Atkins does not really tell
you to limit fat at all. And if you don't limit fat then you have to be very
careful about carbs.  By being more careful with fat, it should allow a bit more
on the carbs (realizing that calories still count).

>Ah, I see. Well, I'm in my "somewhat low" carb stage right now. My Body Fat
>% is improving, which is my goal. My appetite is great. Energy is OK too. I
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>on-going basis as desired (but not regularly). I'm still staying away from
>things like dressing, etc. but of course that's an individual choice.

Yeah, moderation is always the king. Glad your system works.

>I do wonder what mentally stood in your way. I'm asking you these questions
>because it seems (and appearances can be deceiving) that you consider
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>social thing of eating differently than everyone else in your family. Food
>for thought.

I actually enjoy LC.  I can't point to the one "thing" that threw me off the
wagon.  I guess once I got to my goal, I subconsciously thought that I was done.
In reality, I had just begun!  I guess I have been in the 95% of the crowd
statistic that can't stick to a new WOL for that long.  This time ... I need to
plan for maintenance much better than I did last time.  
--
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180/172/145
dave@markson.removeit.net
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