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Mary - 23 Mar 2004 21:02 GMT Hi,
I once lost about 50 pounds on this diet, and wish I had stuck with it. That was about 2 years ago. Now I'd like to go back to it, but there's a couple of problems. Cost and energy! Seems to me that a person either must spend a lot of extra money on the "specialty foods" for this diet, or have a lot of time and energy for cooking. I'm unemployed and bankrupt. And at 5'3" and about 350 lbs., I can barely find energy to walk to the bathroom. Standing or even sitting and preparing a lot of food is out of the question. I guess I could eat nothing but hamburger patties and pre-mixed salads, but that would get old VERY quickly. Any ideas here how a poor person without energy to cook can live on this diet?
Mary
Ignoramus19359 - 23 Mar 2004 21:10 GMT > Hi, > [quoted text clipped - 8 lines] > that would get old VERY quickly. Any ideas here how a poor person without > energy to cook can live on this diet? If there was someone standing next to you with a gun to your head, would you find the energy to do what is demanded? I bet you would.
This is no difference, if you stay so fat, you will die rather quickly.
If it takes eating boring food, eat boring food, or else you will be dead soon.
I just calculated that the equivalent of your weight at my height (5'11") is 500 lbs!!! I would surely do anything, most inconvenient cooking and most disgusting foods I would eat with no hesitation if it could help me drop weight.
What a harrowing weight. Surely eating hamburger patties is not the worst thing that happens to 350 lbs persons.
An easy recipe is:
1. buy chicken thighs 2. boil them for 30 minutes with a bit of salt
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Damsel in dis Dress - 23 Mar 2004 21:29 GMT >Any ideas here how a poor person without energy to cook can live on this diet? I live on disability, and also suffer from chronic depression, so I understand about both the money and the lack of energy.
First, you're spending way more than you have to for your salads. I quarter a whole head of lettuce (if you want smaller salads, cut it into smaller sections). Then I put the portions into a ZipLoc bag. When it's salad time, I just pull out one section, whack it a few times with a knife, and there's the salad!
Canned tuna is cheap. Put 1/2 a can on your lettuce and save the other half for the next day. Add some mayo, mix it all up, and you've got a tuna sandwich without the bread. I like to season my tuna with salt, pepper, onion powder, celery seed, and lemon juice. Find out what you like and can afford.
Eggs are fairly inexpensive, too. Scrambled, fried, omeletes, deviled, or plain ol' hard boiled. Also, you can chop up a hard boiled egg, add mayo and a little mustard, and plop that on top of a lettuce salad.
If you're buying bottled water because you don't like the taste of your tap water, add a small amount of imitation vanilla to the tap water, and it'll be much nicer. Real vanilla costs a small fortune right now, so get the imitation stuff. Decent flavor at a fraction of the cost. Other extracts can be used as well. I also like almond and orange.
Sheesh! Now I don't remember the rest of what you said. I'll go re-read your post, and if I can think of anything else, I'll just make another post.
Carol
 Signature 227/220/150 Low Carb (again) since March 12, 2004 Type 2 Diabetic since May 15, 2001
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Piedlourde - 23 Mar 2004 21:29 GMT Mary said:
<< That was about 2 years ago. Now I'd like to go back to it, but there's a couple of problems. Cost and energy! Seems to me that a person either must spend a lot of extra money on the "specialty foods" for this diet, or have a lot of time and energy for cooking. >>
There are definitely ways to do this cost-effectively. We just discussed this recently-- go to Google Groups and do a search in this newsgroup for "on a budget", or something similar, and a multitude of threads with tips on doing low-carb for low-cost will come up. It's not as hard as it seems at first, really.
And, actually, I lived on mostly hamburger patties and salads for awhile, and then that magical energy-boost kicked in, and I started cooking for myself, and now I really love it. Just live with the boring food for awhile and see if your energy doesn't improve. It doesn't have to be at ton of preparation at any rate-- just a matter of food choices.
Piedlourde
Damsel in dis Dress - 23 Mar 2004 21:40 GMT >And at >5'3" and about 350 lbs., I can barely find energy to walk to the bathroom. I feel so bad for you. :(
I know most people don't want to hear this (I sure didn't), but moving your muscles can give you a feeling of health, and it actually does help with depression (I didn't go to the gym yesterday, and now I'm a wreck). The problem is getting started.
I suspect, in your present condition, that a walk around the block is probably out of reach right now. A couple days ago, I found this site, which has some stretches that you should be able to do. Maybe not all of them, but you've gotta start somewhere. They just may make you feel better and increase your energy without wearing you out. http://www.womensheartfoundation.org/content/Exercise/stretching_exercise.asp
My very best to you! Carol
 Signature 227/220/150 Low Carb (again) since March 12, 2004 Type 2 Diabetic since May 15, 2001
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Joan J. - 23 Mar 2004 21:49 GMT Mary,
First, I don't think the diet has to be as expensive as you think. Specialty foods? Try meat, eggs and cheese plus a head of lettuce and some mayo. That's what Induction is all about. Eggs are very inexpensive and very quick to cook. If you can cook a hamburger patty, you can cook a few eggs. You can make egg salad, hard boiled, fried eggs, scrambled, omelettes - lots of variety for little money. For meat? Canned tuna! At .59 or .79 a can, it makes a great meal! Chicken is often on sale for .59 to .99 a pound. During induction, buy some Brown n' serve sausage links (watch out for sugar) -- I picked some up at my local grocery store for .99 a box (12 links to a box so that's 2 meals!). Stick to just meat, eggs, cheese and fats (mayo, butter, olive oil) plus 2 cups of green salad. Don't use "it's too expensive" as an excuse. You don't have to eat steaks every meal - in fact, you don't have to eat steak at all if it doesn't fit your budget! You say you are bankrupt, but you must be eating something now -- and you can easily and cheaply replace that "something" with the meat, eggs, cheese, fats and a head of lettuce.
If you do decide to go on Atkins at the Induction level, because of the amount of weight you have to lose, you could stick to the meat, eggs and cheese for awhile....maybe until you get under 300 lbs. Induction also means LOTS of energy (at least it did for me after the first week) and, in fact, I find I'm fairly high energy even after being on Atkins for 2 months now. Once you get under 300 lbs, you may be able to start with some gentle exercises. Take the exercise part slowly and work your way up. I started Atkins at the end of January and couldn't do 10 minutes of walking on my treadmill, except at a very slow pace. Now I'm up to 1.5 miles a day at a much higher rate of speed, and adding in free weights every other day! No one expects you to go swim 10 laps or run 3 hours. Maybe you can set a timer and walk outside for 5 minutes. 5 minutes... you can do anything for 5 minutes! :)
You will feel better and you will be more energetic if you get back on Atkins and start at the Induction level. If you've done it before, you KNOW this. You don't need specialty foods. Get back to the very basics of Induction and stay away from everything that's not on the Induction "allowed" list.
My daughter's name is Mary - I think that's why your posting touched me so. You deserve to be healthier, Mary. You deserve to be able to walk to the bathroom without being short of breath. You deserve to feel better about yourself!
Please email me privately if you need to. I'm no expert, but I can certainly be supportive of your getting back on Atkins.
Regards, Joan J
Atkins since 01/24/04 250/221/(210 by 05/12)/150??
> Hi, > [quoted text clipped - 10 lines] > > Mary Damsel in dis Dress - 23 Mar 2004 21:54 GMT > If you can cook a hamburger patty, you can cook a few eggs. This reminded me of something. If you're going to take the time to cook a burger or piece of chicken, cram as many of them in the pan as possible. That way you can cook once, and get several meals for your effort. I like doing that with hamburgers and boneless, skinless chicken breasts. I freeze them, and take them out when I'm ready for a meal.
Carol
 Signature 227/220/150 Low Carb (again) since March 12, 2004 Type 2 Diabetic since May 15, 2001
This is what backsliding does: http://photos.yahoo.com/carol_arie
DJ Delorie - 23 Mar 2004 22:10 GMT > This reminded me of something. If you're going to take the time to cook a > burger or piece of chicken, cram as many of them in the pan as possible. Or stir fry it with some chopped peppers and onions, and keep it in a bowl in the fridge. Then you just have to scoop it out and nuke it, optionally with cheese on top.
Crafting Mom - 23 Mar 2004 21:51 GMT >spend a lot of extra money on the "specialty foods" for this diet >lot of time and energy for cooking. I'm unemployed and bankrupt. my meals take 20 minutes to cook. Cut up some chicken or stick some fish in the pot, cook it, add vegetables, season appropriately, bada bing. Or, open a tin of tuna (not expensive), or scramble some eggs, etc etc....
What items specifically are you talking about that is so expensive?
revek - 23 Mar 2004 22:44 GMT In news:2r18c.9161$kc2.224706@nnrp1.uunet.ca, Crafting Mom <craftingmom@fakeaddress.com> coded for transmition to space:
> What items specifically are you talking about that is so expensive? Specialty items sounds like shakes, bars, soy isolate, nut flours, etc. Stuff she doesn't need.
Lowcarb = meat, cheese, dairy, leafy greens, good oils (and the occasional nut and fruit)
-- revek A monk was traveling and came to a fork in the road. He stopped, looked at it and decided to leave it there for someone else to ponder, someone who may need it, for his own spoon was quite sufficient.
LCer09 - 24 Mar 2004 21:53 GMT >Specialty items sounds like shakes, bars, soy isolate, nut flours, >etc. Stuff she doesn't need. > >Lowcarb = meat, cheese, dairy, leafy greens, good oils (and the >occasional nut and fruit) Which, we have to admit, is more expensive than the typical poor person's diet of white bread, american cheese and cheap pasta. :-(
LCing since 12/01/03- Me- 5'7" 265/219/140 & hubby- 6' 310/237/180
Ignoramus26794 - 24 Mar 2004 22:12 GMT >>Specialty items sounds like shakes, bars, soy isolate, nut flours, >>etc. Stuff she doesn't need. [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > Which, we have to admit, is more expensive than the typical poor person's diet > of white bread, american cheese and cheap pasta. :-( That's true. I would think that one could live on at most 30-50 cents worth of non-LC food and keep good health. For example, eating rice, a bit of cheap chicken, and some cabbage etc would take care of most nutrition needs, perhaps with some variations. I cannot see lowcarbing done on less than a dollar per day.
Somehow, though, I suspect that Mary spent more on food than that, as people usually get fat by abusing junk food and overeating tasty stuff, which is more expensive than eating really cheap food.
So, then, she must have enough money to buy $1 worth of food per day.
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revek - 24 Mar 2004 23:15 GMT >> Specialty items sounds like shakes, bars, soy isolate, nut flours, >> etc. Stuff she doesn't need. [quoted text clipped - 8 lines] > Me- 5'7" 265/219/140 > & hubby- 6' 310/237/180 At the rate my family ate that stuff, nope. I spend 400-600 a month when I wasn't lowcarbing, and now it's between 200-250. I buy cheap cuts of meat in bulk, and lots of frozen and canned veggies. If my 2 children were still home, I probably would still be spending about 400, but not any more than that because we've cut a *lot* of junk. A box/bag of cereal and milk would cost me at minimum 7 bux and would last about 4 days, if I was lucky. Eggs are way cheaper. 7 bux of eggs would last my family a month. Flaxseed is a buck per 1 pound bag, roughly. That also lasts quite a while. My most expensive foods are dairy, which I should cut way back on anyway. So long as you don't mind a limited set of tastes and textures, lowcarb is doable on a budget.
One of my 'el cheapo' meals is a 3 pound rump roast, cubed (you can get the guy in the meat section to cut it up for you no charge by the way, for those who don't know-- and it's cheaper than the pre-cubed packages on the shelf) three or four rutabagas or turnips or both, some canned green beans, some bock choy or chopped cabbage, some cauliflower, a small can of tomato paste, and spices (my personal favorites are lite salt, black pepper, red pepper, garlic all to taste, 1 bay leaf, 2 tsp marjoram). Mix and match lowcarb veggies-- drop things you don't like or can't get, add things you do. Sear the meat, plop in stew pot or crock pot with other ingredients, cover with water, and cook til turnips or ruabaga are tender. Makes 12- 15 servings for under 20 dollars. -- revek Of all my relations I like sex the best, and Eric the least. - Nine Princes in Amber, by Roger Zelazny
Crafting Mom - 24 Mar 2004 23:30 GMT >Which, we have to admit, is more expensive than the typical poor >person's diet of white bread, american cheese and cheap pasta. :-( When I was on unemployment, I bought huge bags of pasta, rice, sugar, flour, potatoes, dried lentils and nearly all my meals were based around those ingredients, so I hear ya.
CM
Cindy - 23 Mar 2004 21:54 GMT mary you can do this but first off you are going to have to want to do it. I can sympathize with you about the weight , the finances and the energy level. at 5'4" 289 lbs , riddled wtih health problems. ( two years in almost nothign but bed brought me to that weight). Add to that a family of 3 with a husband laid off for 6 months.
First off if your energy level is that bad you will have to cook large portions at once and freeze them. That way on bad days you can just warm up a meal. After a few weeks and a few pounds off i would bet your energy level will come up.
Cost , carbs are cheap thats a fact no once can argue with. That's why so many pre packaged foods are riddled with them. Do not get mixed up in the low carb bars shakes etc it will drain your pocket book faster then anything. Carb options makes a line of low carb products that taste good and are resonably priced. They have great wishbone salad dressings, ragu brand pasta sauce and my fav the peanut butter at 2.99 a jar its as cheap as the suagr laiden one i used to buy. Also the sugar free mayo is about the same as helman's or blue plate in price.
But for your induction there are plenty of cheap foods. Good break fast foods would be
Eggs in a variety of ways with cheese. Omelats with bell peppers onions mushrooms salsa. there is a sweet omelet recipe that calls for cream cheese and splenda, its very very good. keto makes a low carb hot ceral it isnt cheap though about 7.00 a can. i save it for special occasions or when im running late.
Lunch's i always use pre packages salads with the carb options itilain dressing which is better then the reg wishbone. I chop up left over meat from the night before, top it with differant types of cheese to change it up, from asiago, parmesian to chedder. Sliced fresh jalepenos make a cheap crunchy spicy touch. If you have taco meat from the night before use that.
Tuna salad, 2 eggs a can of tuna in oil drained with mayo celery onions and the mt olive suagr free pickle relish. I eat this straight from the bowl like this or you can wrap it in lettuse leafs. Very fast lunch 15 minutes you can have it all done while eggs are boiling. You can also boil a dozen at a time and mark the dozen as boiled int eh fridge. whihc makes this an even faster easier lunch.
Deviled eggs good for breakfast , lunch and snack.
Dinner frozen veggies i buy the kroger brand on sale soemtimes less then a dollar a bag. I use the store brand frozen chicken tenderlions i sprinkle them with tony chacheres cajun seassoning and grill them with butter, grill a few extra for your lunch the next day.
Ground meat , cheap and can be used in sooo many ways.
Meat balls, make large batches and freeze them, great on salads or as a meal with vegies. My meat ball recipe is ground beef a lil heavey cream eggs, garlic , bell pepper and onions black and red pepper and salt.. i fry them in a half inch of oil till they are almost done, this makes them nice and brown then i bake them with a can of tomato sauce till cooked. Freeze in ziplock baggies.
Meat loaf basic meat ball recipe but put in a loaf pan and pour a can of rotel tomatoes and water over instead.
Taco meat, nothing better then a taco salad minus the shell of course.
Snacks there is a cocunut macroon recipe and almond cookies. I make these put em in zip lock bags and take them wtih me , that way if i get hungry i dont have to spend it on eating out it holds me till i get home.
Also buy your onions and bell peppers whiel on sale chop them up and freeze them, use this for your meat balls, meat loaf and omelets.
This is just a few of the inexpensive ways to eat. I wish you the best of luck.
> Hi, > [quoted text clipped - 10 lines] > > Mary Eileen Dougal - 23 Mar 2004 22:43 GMT Cindy, What's the recipe for this omelet? It sounds like it would be good...
Eileen
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> there is a sweet omelet recipe that calls for cream cheese and splenda, its
> very very good. Marsha - 24 Mar 2004 00:53 GMT > Cindy, > What's the recipe for this omelet? It sounds like it would be good... [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > >>very very good. I make mine with three eggs, 2 oz cream cheese and one packet Splenda. Mix cream cheese and Splenda and put in between omelet.
Marsha/Ohio
Cindy - 24 Mar 2004 07:06 GMT i nuke the cream cheese for a couple seconds to soften it add a packet of spleda then mix in raw eggs. Then kinda scramble them in butter but on a low fire makes them very creamy and fluffy. I took mine from the recipe marsha said i just didnt liek the cream cheese in the middle so i improvised.
> > Cindy, > > What's the recipe for this omelet? It sounds like it would be good... [quoted text clipped - 13 lines] > > Marsha/Ohio jpatti - 24 Mar 2004 21:12 GMT > i nuke the cream cheese for a couple seconds to soften it add a packet of > spleda then mix in raw eggs. Then kinda scramble them in butter but on a low > fire makes them very creamy and fluffy. I took mine from the recipe marsha > said i just didnt liek the cream cheese in the middle so i improvised. I like it in the middle.
I don't do it sweet though, but mixed with some chives. For some reason, this tastes *much* better to me with an egg-white omelet instead of a whole-egg omelet.
Melted cream cheese is yummy.
bookalley - 24 Mar 2004 07:54 GMT When I first went on this diet--well, not first because way back then, there WERE no frankenfoods--but when I went on this diet last year, about a month into it, the world was starting to rediscover low carb. There were a few products, then more, then a low carb shop within driving distance and not two weeks later, four of them popped up within a mile radius...
So I bought things. I tried the shakes (so so), a bunch of diet bars (nasty), some of the candy (stalled me), flax meal for pancakes (didn't like em, loved my home made butter toffee syrup), low carb le carb and breyer ice creams (all pretty good.) The keto breading looked ok, but the texture was as if the food had been breaded with volcanic ash. I bought 7 carb bread but only had one or two slices when the loaf turned green and started walking out the door.
About the only frankenfood that I really like is splenda and soy slender soy milk (outrageously expensive) then it went on sale for $2 each and I bought several.
Almond flour doesn't seem like a frankenfood because I buy the almonds and grind it myself. I gave up cokes last year, and now drink mostly tea I brewed or hansens diet peach which is a big indulgence @ $3.49/ sixpack but I drink fewer than one a day.
The biggest help for me has been cooking. I think much more about what I am about to cook. I make a plan, with judicious choices. I come here and exchange recipes. The same attention I spent on eating I spend on planning and cooking.
For example this morning I cooked some extra chicken tenderloins and this afternoon I made a curried chicken salad which I will have tomorrow. Don't fall in the frankenfood trap. They are way overpriced and really not worth it.
Dawn Taylor - 23 Mar 2004 22:02 GMT >Hi, > [quoted text clipped - 8 lines] >that would get old VERY quickly. Any ideas here how a poor person without >energy to cook can live on this diet? Cooking doesn't necessarily take a huge amount of energy -- hell, make sure you have a chair in the kitchen and sit down between stirring and chopping, if you need to.
You don't need specialty foods. You need protein -- beef, pork, chicken, fish -- and green vegetables. You can buy what you need at reasonable cost by shopping sensibly. Eggs, canned tuna, chicken ... these are all reasonably priced protein sources.
Me, I love to cook but I still try to cut down on my food prep time by getting some of it done in one fell swoop. On Sunday evenings I cook up a couple of pounds of ground beef with seasonings for taco salad meat -- it lasts most of the week, and it's an easy lunch, adding a half-cup of the pre-cooked, microwaved meat to two cups of salad, some shredded cheddar and a spoonful of sour cream. During the same cooking session I'll bake either chicken parts or a whole chicken and/or some pork chops. I mean, if I'm already in the kitchen making the taco meat, why not put olive oil, salt and pepper on some chicken and toss it in the oven?
Look at what's on sale locally -- tuna, chicken, pork, beef -- then plan the rest of a week's meals around that. Then don't buy anything else. It's a plan that's worked for hundreds of years.
Dawn
freeborn - 23 Mar 2004 22:02 GMT > Hi, > [quoted text clipped - 10 lines] > > Mary Hi, Mary. Remember that there are several kinds of meats out there that are inexpensive. I am eating a cheap peanut butter that has less carbs than the natural kind ! Occasional popcorn (the real kind) snacks. Trader Joe's is so wonderful on prices if you have one nearby. I'm wishing you the best. Please keep posting and working on it with us.
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Lexin - 23 Mar 2004 22:18 GMT >Seems to me that a person either must >spend a lot of extra money on the "specialty foods" for this diet, or have a >lot of time and energy for cooking. I'm on this WOE and I hardly cook - my average meal is meat of some kind and salad. I have a very few speciality foods like bake mix and non-starch thickener which I've collected over the months, but I don't make them a major part of the way I eat.
As I'm working and can afford it, I buy steaks and pork chops, but I don't have to. Chicken is reasonably inexpensive where I live (the UK) and I could have that. Or I could eat the aforementioned hamburger patties (but they're expensive here). Or cheese, which wouldn't need cooking at all. Or tuna. Or eggs. Or canned salmon (which is reasonably cheap here). The list just goes on and on.
As for cooking, I work full time and when I get home I have things to do (play with my PlayStation and mess about on Livejournal mostly) so cooking isn't something I'm prepared to spend much time on. What I do is put my chop or steak in the oven and bake it for however long it needs (usually 25 minutes or so).
It can bake by itself and doesn't need my help so meanwhile, now the weather is starting to get a little warmer and we have nicer salad stuff in the shops, I throw together an interesting salad (a weighed portion of lettuce and cabbage, a bit of tomato, a bit of pepper, an ounce or so of pine nuts (I'm on OWL), spring onions (scallions, I think you'd call them), cucumber, a few bits of herbs like cilantro and parsley and a measured amount of Caesar dressing). Preparing the whole meal takes about twenty minutes, if that.
Before, during the colder weather, I used to prepare a bit of broccoli and cabbage, and boil or steam that during the last seven to ten minutes that the steak (or whatever) was cooking, heat up some bought Hollandaise sauce and have those with the steak/chop/whatever. This kind of meal can be infinitely varied with different veg, meat or sauce - I often make my own dijonnaise sauce using cream and grainy mustard and have that with pork and a green veg. It's yummy.
Honestly, there are ways around it seeming expensive - I know before I started Atkins (I'm an unrepentant Atkid) I used to spend a lot of money on prepared meals, but what I do now is just as quick, if not quicker, and it's actually cheaper. And I reckon it's much simpler to cook meals which don't contain potatoes because I reckon prepping and cooking potatoes takes at least half to three quarters of an hour and I could have five salads prepped in that time, or four lots of broccoli/cabbage.
-- Lexin (300/223/182) (5'7) LC since 9 June 2003
TavliGal - 23 Mar 2004 22:38 GMT >> Hi, >> [quoted text clipped - 11 lines] >> >> Mary Hi Mary,
Food: I'm sorry about your financial difficulties, but as far as I can tell my grocery bill is alot less than it was when I wasn't low carbing. I don't know where you live, but I do have access to a cheap produce place and produce farms which I will hit when summer comes. I generally get my meat at Costco so I can keep the price down and freeze what I don't eat right away. I also go through a kilo of spring mix for my salads a week. Overall, my bill is lower than it used to be, especially since I don't go through a loaf of bread every other day, along with all the other carbs I used to binge on when my carb cravings would trigger - which was pretty much always. One serving of my pasta was about 4 servings as described on the box. Pasta may be cheap, but not at those quantities, and not if you eat it regularly as I did.
Exercise: We're the same height. I'm sure you know you will move easier with a lower weight, especially if you try and preserve as much lean body mass as is possible. It doesn't cost much to lift a dumbell a few times as you sit and watch TV. It costs even less to hold on to the back of a chair and do some squats, (watch the knees). Lie down on the floor, or even your bed and lift your legs a few times, and while you're doing it, make sure you tighten your abs and keep them tight. You'll be having a good workout in no time! It doesn't take much at our weight, and the more weight that comes off, the more you'll *want* to move again. I think weight training is better for us to start with, than cardio. (my opinion of course)
Attitude: Do you want to take charge of your health? Who's boss around here? YOU ARE! And only you can make the changes required to take responsibility for your health and well being. I don't believe in the "my metabolism is slow" bullshit. It's an excuse if you ask me. There are laws of nature that our bodies abide by, it's only us who f.ck it up. Mary, it's taken me a loooooong looooong time to get to this point in my thinking and my actions. I've abused myself with food and drugs, I've let myself "go", I've blamed my parents and the crappy eating habits I grew up with, and I've blamed others for being such a.sholes. I've even blamed my own body. But guess what? It all comes down to you, the choices you make, and the quality of life you want for yourself. If you really want it, you can do it.
Mobility: Sometimes I think I may be an exception when it comes to building and maintaining muscle as compared to other women. Some people may laugh at that statement, but I used to have hormonal imbalances where my androgen and testocerone (sp?) were much higher than the average female, at one point it was even higher than typical for a male, therefore I always had an easier time building muscle and maintaining it than my female counterparts. That kept me strong even as I gained weight, I was always able to move my body efficiently, that is, until I fractured my spine in 96. The fractures have healed of course, but when it happened, I didn't know it and kept working (waitressing) until the pain got so bad I finally went to get x-rays. By then I had damaged the nerves around the vertabrae, compressed and herniated the disc and have also developed sciatica (sp?) While I am happy that my hormones have been balanced for the last 5 years, I'll probably never grow back the hair that I lost. Got to love genetics. *sigh* :( I guess my point is, no matter your current mobility issues, it can only get easier the less you weigh.
You are your own boss Mary, just remember that. Best of luck to you. Monica
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Mary - 23 Mar 2004 23:01 GMT Thank you for your positive responses and the ideas. I know I need to do something about my weight.
I have been unemployed since September, and actually will be starting a new job on Monday, but the job will be paying me less than unemployment did. (I have also filed bankruptcy.) So work doesn't really improve the finances, except to continue an income longer than unemployment payments would cover. Since I will be starting this job Monday, I will have less time to sit home around the food, and will also be eating on my own schedule and cooking less for my son (age 28), who lives with me. So I thought it would be a good opportunity to go back on the diet again. I lost my weight on CAD, but I think I'll start out with Atkins induction plan, then move on to CAD as my long-term WOE. Being a second-round, I probably will need to be more restrictive in my eating to find any results.
Someone asked about what foods I meant that I was describing as expensive. Very few of the low-carb products you buy pre-packaged or the specialty flours, breads, pastas, sauces are inexpensive compared to their high-carb counterparts. And they cut into a budget even more when you're hungry for something and buy one of these products anyway, only to find out that along with being expensive, they taste horrible. Also, I find things like chicken breasts and fish and salad add-ons (anything beyond lettuce) don't fit my financial means.
It angers me a bit when people say something to me about how "you'll do anything you need to do if you REALLY want to lose weight". No, I won't let my electricity be turned off, or my water, or get evicted to buy that stuff, no matter how badly I want to lose the weight. And with my finances as they are, that is the only option. And yes, I want to lose the weight. That's why I posted here and why I asked for help. If I didn't want to lose weight, I wouldn't have posted to this newsgroup. But it also hurts me deeply (as I sit here crying) to be willing to say "I want this, but I need help figuring out how to do it" and have people tell me that "IF you really wanted to lose the weight, you'd do it NO MATTER WHAT." How about you walk a mile in MY shoes before you say such things to me??? And I don't mean knowing what it's like to be poor or lose weight, I mean actually live as I have to live for a few hours. Then voice your judgements.
Mary
Lexin - 23 Mar 2004 23:15 GMT >Very few of the low-carb products you buy pre-packaged or the specialty >flours, breads, pastas, sauces are inexpensive compared to their high-carb >counterparts. Don't buy them, most of them are what I call 'frankenfoods', over processed crap with suspect ingredients. Meat (buy the cheapest you can) and green vegetables (again, whatever is on offer) is the way to go.
-- Lexin (300/223/182) (5'7) LC since 9 June 2003
freeborn - 24 Mar 2004 01:37 GMT > Thank you for your positive responses and the ideas. I know I need to do > something about my weight. [quoted text clipped - 35 lines] > > Mary In all newsgroups there are going to be people who say hurtful things. Some do it unknowingly, some do it on purpose. The best thing you can do is ignore it, AND never give a reponse to it.
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Ignoramus19359 - 24 Mar 2004 01:53 GMT > Thank you for your positive responses and the ideas. I know I need to do > something about my weight. [quoted text clipped - 33 lines] > knowing what it's like to be poor or lose weight, I mean actually live as I > have to live for a few hours. Then voice your judgements. For about 3 dollars per day, you can eat a wholesome low carb diet, with vegetables, meat etc. $2 per day strains it a bit, but is doable.
When you are voicing your anger at people "who suggest you do anything", well, your original complaint was that you did not like the taste of hamburger patties. It was not unreasonable at all to suggest that your frightening weight problem is much more important than the taste of hamburger patties, not tat you are require dot eat them.
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Nancy 8 03 - 24 Mar 2004 01:58 GMT Mary maybe you could get food stamps until you get on your feet financially.
Cheri - 24 Mar 2004 05:13 GMT (((((((((((((((((((((Mary)))))))))))))))))))))))) One day at a time girl. Start out with the things you can do and afford, and once you get started and it gets easier, I bet you'll have more energy. I'm pulling for you. :-)
-- Cheri Type 2, no meds for now.
>deeply (as I sit here crying) to be willing to say "I want this, but I need >help figuring out how to do it" and have people tell me that "IF you really [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > >Mary Cindy - 24 Mar 2004 07:49 GMT mary i wasn't trying to say you had to eat chicken breasts whole fryers or leg quartes are also cheap. Like i said before i have been there financially. i had my lights turned off , my water turned off and my gas, thank fully not at the same time but been there. you can get tuna for 3 cans for a $1 on sale, leg quarters as low as 29 cents a pound. Heck hamburger meat here is 2.69 a pound here so i buy frozen chicken breasts a lot cheaper.
It does go back to just how much you want to do it. I went 6 months on this diet with unemployment checks of 250 a week for a family of 3. yes i had to down size no internet access, no cable tv, i hocked just about anything i had for cash. i even sold my pc. we couldn't even afford to file for bankruptcy. Stay on your knees keep faith and it all works out. Do your part depend on God for the rest. Life's trials shape us into the people we are , with each trial i go through i hope i have learned from it and become a better person because of it. You have to put your life and health first and foremost. if you are dead then electricity phones and pcs dont mean much do they? Someone suggested food stamps that may be an option for you. For us it wasn't our vehicle was valued at over $6,000 which made us ineligible it didnt matter that i was 2 notes behind and they where about to repo. YOU CAN DO THIS !!
> Thank you for your positive responses and the ideas. I know I need to do > something about my weight. [quoted text clipped - 35 lines] > > Mary Lexin - 24 Mar 2004 11:27 GMT > It angers me a bit when people say something to me about how "you'll do > anything you need to do if you REALLY want to lose weight". No, I won't let > my electricity be turned off, or my water, or get evicted to buy that stuff, > no matter how badly I want to lose the weight. And with my finances as they > are, that is the only option. This occurred to me after I'd stopped posting last night, and I'm afraid you may think it somewhat less than supportive.
One of our regular posters, JC, keeps telling us that the only way to lose weight is to eat less in calories than you use. And, you know what? He's right. It is possible for you to lose weight by getting an account with something like www.fitday.com (which is free), recording everything that you eat (telling the truth about how much), and simply making sure that your portion sizes are small enough that you eat less calories than you use. You don't need to alter what you eat, just the amount. And you will lose weight, in time.
The down side is that you may feel hungrier than you would ideally like, it will take a huge amount of willpower to carry on eating small portions in the face of temptation, and the weight may come off slower than you would ideally like. The beauty of low carb for most people is that you don't feel hungry and eat less because of it. The up side is that what you buy will go further (because you are eating less of it) and your money should thus go a bit further.
I tell you frankly, I couldn't do it. If I ate the way I did before this WOE but less, I'd be constantly hungry and it would drive me potty in very short order. However, the option is open to you. But I also think that if you're waiting for us to tell you of some secret way of eating which will allow you to eat in the way that you do currently and as much as you do currently and still lose weight you're going to wait a very long time because there simply isn't one.
-- Lexin (300/223/182) (5'7) LC since 9 June 2003
jpatti - 24 Mar 2004 21:41 GMT > It angers me a bit when people say something to me about how "you'll do > anything you need to do if you REALLY want to lose weight". No, I won't let [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > knowing what it's like to be poor or lose weight, I mean actually live as I > have to live for a few hours. Then voice your judgements. I've been poor - not eating for two weeks at *all* because I had to feed my kid. That is a weight-loss program I do not recommend.
Whining that we don't *know* what it's like to be fat doesn't make much sense... there's a few folks here low-carbing due to blood sugar or other health issues, but this place is full of people who have been fat, some larger than you are. The support offered here is providing ideas about how you *can* do it, not sympathy about why you can't.
You've been given lots of good ideas. If you search the newsgroup, you'll find loads more cause doing this on a budget comes up regularly... I've posted on it a number of times recently.
Can't afford chicken breasts? Chicken leg quarters go on sale for $0.29/lb. Way cheaper than hamburger. Eggs are incredibly cheap, especially if you buy the small ones. Tuna goes on sale really cheap. If lettuce is the only veggie you can afford, then eat lettuce! I *can* buy some meats cheaper than generic mac-and-cheese on a per pound basis. Low-carb *can* be done *cheaper* than a high-carb diet *if* you want to.
I'm not saying it's as easy to do low-carb being poor than it is with more resources, but it's *not* impossible. It's not a matter of choosing low carb versus choosing your electric bill, it's a matter of... if you *really* want to do low-carb, you will choose the "boredom" of hamburger and lettuce over the "interest" of potato chips. We can help with overcoming boredom on a tight budget, but we *can't* help if boredom is an excuse to not do it.
Likewise the exercise thing, you *can* move your body right where you are, without spending a nickel.
But if what you *really* want is to feel sorry for yourself cause you're too old/poor/fat to be able to diet and exercise, I don't *personally* have sympathy for you - pity maybe, but not sympathy.
Sure it's *harder* to do it with fewer resources, but harder is not impossible. You face challenges... but it's up to you whether you let your challenges become excuses. Your choice.
If you *want* to do it, you *can* do it... and you'll find support and ideas here for how to do it within your limitations. But, if you want people to accept excuses for why you can't do it, well... I don't think you'll get a lot of sympathy here. This newsgroup isn't about how to find excuses to not do low-carb, but how to *do* it.
Piedlourde - 24 Mar 2004 22:14 GMT Mary said:
>Since I will be starting this job Monday, I will have less time to sit home >around the food, and will also be eating on my own schedule and cooking less >for my son (age 28), who lives with me. Congratulations and good luck on the new job. (My sympathies about the crappy pay. I've been there. My own unemployment just ran out, in fact, and if I weren't still a dependent student living with my parents right now, who knows where I'd be. Financial difficulties abound, especially in this day and age.)
I wonder if your son would be able to take some of the cooking duties for you? I don't know what his schedule's like, but it can't be much better than yours, so why not share the load? Even if he's not low-carb he can fix entrees that both of you can eat? (In a perfect world, he'd do ALL your cooking. ;)
>And they cut into a budget even more when you're hungry for >something and buy one of these products anyway, only to find out that along >with being expensive, they taste horrible. No need for the frankenfoods anyway. They ARE more expensive, inferior in quality, and you'll get full faster on whole foods (even cheap ones like eggs, canned tuna, mayo, etc.)
The cravings for them really DO go away after you've detoxed on Induction (or whatever LC equivalent). It's a revelation when you can walk by that stuff-- frankenfoods and "original variety" alike and realize you're really NOT hungry for them anymore.
>Also, I find things like chicken >breasts and fish and salad add-ons (anything beyond lettuce) don't fit my >financial means. You might even try adding chilled canned veggies to your lettuce as an "add-on"-- you can get a lot of canned green beans for a low price, marinate them in oil and vinegar, and toss them in with your lettuce.
>It angers me a bit when people say something to me about how "you'll do >anything you need to do if you REALLY want to lose weight". This is untrue. Ignore those people. We're all bound by our financial situations. We make the choices that are the best for us at the given time. Since you know this, no need to heed those who try to make you feel bad.
I think its great that you're trying to find a healthy WOE that fits into your budget and lifestyle. It shows strength and courage. Good luck.
Piedlourde
Jean M. - 23 Mar 2004 23:40 GMT > Any ideas here how a poor person without >energy to cook can live on this diet? Just as an example, I had a turkey breast in the freezer. They are often on sale for 89 cents a pound. I roasted it yesterday and once I got the meat off of it, I had over 6 pounds of turkey. I put it into one big baggie and threw it in the fridge. Getting the meat off of the turkey breast wore me out. I was having a bad day.
Today, I separated it into smaller baggies, but any container will do. I kept two portions in the refrigerator and put the rest in the freezer. It thaws out quickly and can be decorated up in lots of ways -- plain, in between 2 pieces of cheese, made into soup, fried in butter, chopped and mixed into salads, seasoned with anything you can think of. It's pretty cheap and once you get it off the bone, there's not much preparation needed.
There are lots of recipes in this group and online if you search Google.com or some other place. I'm spending less at the store now than I ever have. In the beginning, it seemed like every week there was something else I needed in order to cook or eat low carb, but once you get the staples, it is an easy way to live.
I hope you find a way to get back into it. There are many people here to support you along the way and answer questions. Ignore the buttheads. :-)
-- Jean M. 348/313/180 - 5'10" Atkins Since 01/28/04 Quit Smoking On 03/07/04 Curves Since 03/19/04
Ignoramus19359 - 24 Mar 2004 01:54 GMT >> Any ideas here how a poor person without >>energy to cook can live on this diet? [quoted text clipped - 21 lines] > to support you along the way and answer questions. Ignore the > buttheads. :-) turkey breast is a wonderful food.
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Saffire - 24 Mar 2004 00:57 GMT > Hi, > [quoted text clipped - 8 lines] > that would get old VERY quickly. Any ideas here how a poor person without > energy to cook can live on this diet? Hi Mary, welcome to the group!
Others have chimed in with suggestions for cutting costs, so I'm basically welcoming you.
I have a lot of physical problems, and didn't think I would ever be able to exercise. I TRIED, though, starting out VERY slowly. Now I exercise every 2-3 days (except this week because I'm sick). I STILL take it fairly easy compared to most people, but it's made a TREMENDOUS difference in how I FEEL and how I look (see sig for URL to my progress photos). I've lost weight relatively slowly, but the exercise makes it LOOK (and feel) like I've lost a good 15 lbs MORE than I actually HAVE, and it's given me confidence and **HOPE**. I had given up. Just knowing that I *CAN* do it, even if I DO have to be really careful, has brought a joy back into my life that is PRICELESS. I agree with an earlier poster who said moving is good for you, so if you CAN do it, give it a try. I found that if I just added ONE more minute to what I THOUGHT I couldn't do, that sometimes make a difference as to whether I could do more, if not that day, then the next.
Do you have someone (a friend or relative) who can help you make big batches of things occasionally so that you don't have to put in a lot of effort for several days or more?
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Mary - 24 Mar 2004 02:50 GMT Saffire,
Thank you for the welcome.
There's no one to help me here. I'm on my own. And the moving isn't a possibility right now. I am terrified that I will lose this new job because I won't be able to navigate the office (a huge warehouse sized building). My job is sitting, but there's always a need to move to the restroom, breakroom, or in and out the front door. Once I can get the first 50 pounds off, then I plan to go back to walking in the park as I did before. But right now, just standing is painful.
> > Hi, > > [quoted text clipped - 31 lines] > things occasionally so that you don't have to put in a lot of effort for several > days or more? Luna - 24 Mar 2004 03:16 GMT > Saffire, > [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > off, then I plan to go back to walking in the park as I did before. But > right now, just standing is painful. Hey Mary, sometimes the YMCA gives scholarship memberships to low-income families. The one where I go has classes geared to people with injuries or movement problems, like "Easy Does it Yoga" and water aerobics. I hope your financial situation improves soon. Having a job, any job, even a crap job, can vastly improve your outlook. You'll be out in the world, doing something, and the way life seems to work is that good things happen when you're productive. It's all about entropy, imo.
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Carmen - 24 Mar 2004 13:30 GMT Hello and welcome,
> There's no one to help me here. I'm on my own. And the moving > isn't a possibility right now. I am terrified that I will lose this [quoted text clipped - 8 lines] > did before. > But right now, just standing is painful. I remember the early days, when walking for 15 minutes was all I could do for the day (my highest weight ever was 284). Stepping feet on the floor in the morning felt like I was walking on deeply bruised tissue. Unfortunately the only way to be able to walk better is to start doing it. It's going to hurt, but it must be done. Food-wise buy cheap cans of tunafish and canned greenbeans and eggs and such. It's not exciting food but it's lowcarb.
A quick question. What about that 28 year old son of yours? What does he contribute to the household? I'm assuming he isn't seriously handicapped or something because he's capable of being left alone while you work.
Take care, Carmen
Pamsta - 24 Mar 2004 19:18 GMT > Saffire, > [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > off, then I plan to go back to walking in the park as I did before. But > right now, just standing is painful. Mary,
Welcome and hang in there! It won't be easy but you CAN do it. No one to help? Didn't you say your son (28) lives with you? Is he working? You cook for him sometimes? Is he disabled? Employed?
You catch my drift. If I were in your shoes I am sure my children (14 and 18) would help me. And if living with me, I would insist on it.
My mother made me pay rent when I had to move back with her during a particularly nasty divorce (after a short grace period). Living her as an adult was a chore as it was.....I also purchased groceries for all every other week, cooked meals regularly and did work around the house. I learned much earlier that nothing is for free and I had responsibilites as an adult, even when unemployed.
My advice is to put yourself first, take care of your health and well being, and ask for what you need. That is where I am as well.
Good luck and keep us posted Mary. We want you to succeed and care.
Pam
Mary - 24 Mar 2004 23:57 GMT My son does work, and does pay rent. It is included in my comments about my income. He helps where he can. He isn't a cook. He'd rather do McD.
Mary
> > Saffire, > > [quoted text clipped - 30 lines] > > Pam Sunshyne - 25 Mar 2004 04:16 GMT > My son does work, and does pay rent. It is included in my comments about my > income. He helps where he can. He isn't a cook. He'd rather do McD. > > Mary I think everyone gave you great advice allready. Try the diet for two weeks. See how much you save on groceries. I see a big difference allready. We used to eat such high carb stuff, then was hungry all the time too. So ate more. Its different now. I spend about the same, or less.
I feel for you. The energy level, the income.
Went bankrupt too, 2 years ago. Husband and I both become very ill. He is on workers comp, I am looking for work, etc. We got three teenage sons. They eat alot.
Baby steps, a step at a time. If I can do it, anyone can do it!
JC Der Koenig - 24 Mar 2004 02:22 GMT Eating less will cost you less money. Try it. You have enough fat stored up to last for a couple of years already. It's not like you're getting ready for hibernation.
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> Hi, > [quoted text clipped - 10 lines] > > Mary Tracey - 25 Mar 2004 01:51 GMT > Hi, > [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > spend a lot of extra money on the "specialty foods" for this diet, or have a > lot of time and energy for cooking. What specialty foods do you mean? I buy basic foods: fresh and frozen vegetables (broccoli, cauliflower, bell peppers, scallions, mushrooms, cabbage, spinach, celery, lettuce, tomatoes, a few carrots, etc) meats and fish (hamburger, bacon, pot roast, roast beef, chicken, salmon, canned tuna, pork chops, pepperoni, turkey), eggs, cheese, butter, oil and vinegar, peanuts, cashews, sunflower seeds, strawberries, blueberries, ranch dressing, bleu cheese dressing. I buy things that are on sale and eat based on whats on sale.
I'm unemployed and bankrupt. And at
> 5'3" and about 350 lbs., I can barely find energy to walk to the bathroom. > Standing or even sitting and preparing a lot of food is out of the question. > I guess I could eat nothing but hamburger patties and pre-mixed salads, but > that would get old VERY quickly. Any ideas here how a poor person without > energy to cook can live on this diet? I'm lazy too. I eat lots raw veggies (no cooking - I cut up things like broccoli, celery, bell peppers, cauliflower etc on grocery shopping day and put them in ziploc bags so that they are always ready when I want them). I eat a lot of salad, just toss stuff on the plate, open a can of tuna or add a hard boiled egg or piece of chicken and I'm good to go. For meats that need to cook, I use the crockpot (stick it in there in the AM and turn it on, dinner is ready at dinnertime with no effort). For fast meals I toss a burger, chicken breast or pork chop on the George Foreman grill and it is done in no time at all with minimal effort.
When I'm really lazy, I buy a rotisserie chicken already cooked at the grocery store and have at least 3 or 4 meals worth of meat already done.
Sure, it costs a bit more that buying pasta and rice, but you get more nutrition. It doesn't cost as much as eating fast food or eating out. Buy what is on sale and freeze it, plan your menus around the sales. Eat eggs instead of meat for protien. Its really not that complicated. And certainly, skip the 'specialty foods'.
Tracey in CT
> Mary
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