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Weight Loss Forum / WeightWatchers / December 2004My Feelings--Rant
I had decided not to post my weight until Saturday, but what's the difference, it is what it is and a few days won't make much difference. I'm going to spend more time posting, now that I seem to have figured out Outlook from home. I need to. I used to get frustrasted by people who could stick to the program and loose much faster than me, but I'm trying to not do that anymore. My situation may be unique, I don't know, but I have to work this my way, and deal with my situation. I also have to stop myself from allowing others to make my food choices for me. Things at home are getting better, but we still have "coming to terms with things" issues from my DD and little big guy. Their family unit split at Easter and they moved in with me at a moment's notice and it's very hard on both of them, we had to find a larger home, and moving twice in three months was hard on my little big guy as he was used to my apartment and then had to leave that too. My DD also has to deal with the little big guy's feelings--he just turned four in August. Of course, I have to be there for both of them which is no easy task. So I feel this is the only place for me right now. I can't confide in any of my friends as I don't think it's any of their business, and when I did try to confide in what I thought was a very close friend, she told me I need to move out and leave my daughter struggling on her own--I can't do that. I'm here for as long as they need me. Anyhow, that's it in a nutshell, I know I'll feel better when the weight comes off again, I just have to be patient. Talk at ya all soon. -- Linda J 252/208.8/10%--188 up from 176 a year ago. what a horrid thing to tell a mother to do. I don't know what is best for you or your daughter but telling you something like that so early on is just vile, its not like she is living there for the third decade. And maybe it is better for her, the child or even you. I know it will be hard but these things have a way of working out with a little time, best of luck to you, Lee > I had decided not to post my weight until Saturday, but what's the > difference, it is what it is and a few days won't make much difference. [quoted text clipped - 31 lines] > Linda J > 252/208.8/10%--188 up from 176 a year ago. Thanks, Lee. My daughter is 35, has an excellent job with a multi-national corporation, but right now she needs emotional support. It makes me feel good inside knowing I can help her adjust and cope with everything that's gone on. My DS and DDIL are doing the best they can by taking my little big guy out for special outings, so I definitely think we are all doing the right thing for this moment in our lives. -- Linda J 252/208.8/10%--188 > what a horrid thing to tell a mother to do. I don't know what is best for > you or your daughter but telling you something like that so early on is just [quoted text clipped - 43 lines] > > Linda J > > 252/208.8/10%--188 up from 176 a year ago. it sounds as if your family is pulling together to help, that is so wonderful. and as tragic as these things are the brighter side is that you get to see the grandchild more often and your DS and DIL are able to a.ses their wants/needs about parenting along with having fun, tell them, money permitting, chuckie cheese is a MUST*not for grandson for them* Lee > Thanks, Lee. > [quoted text clipped - 68 lines] > > > Linda J > > > 252/208.8/10%--188 up from 176 a year ago. I didn't know Chuckie Cheese was in the States--That's where they've been taking him, supposedly for him, but DS loves it there. I've never been. -- Linda J 252/208.8/10%--188 > it sounds as if your family is pulling together to help, that is so > wonderful. and as tragic as these things are the brighter side is that you [quoted text clipped - 83 lines] > > > > Linda J > > > > 252/208.8/10%--188 up from 176 a year ago. rat character, decent pizza, casino type games for the kids*allegedly*, sometimes a little floor show. My niece that is now 20 asked if my parents would let her have a part for 16 th birthday there, Mom hedged because of thinking of 20 teenagers and the costs, Niece saw the look on her face, quickly said, oh grandma, if you let me go there it can just be the family, I can go to dinner with BF later and forget the friends. I like it because of the "child security" it is very easy for me to take one in there and not be paranoid, Lee, rambling > I didn't know Chuckie Cheese was in the States--That's where they've been > taking him, supposedly for him, but DS loves it there. I've never been. [quoted text clipped - 105 lines] > > > > > Linda J > > > > > 252/208.8/10%--188 up from 176 a year ago. A rat????? Gross, I thought it was cute mouse. -- Linda J 252/208.8/10%--188 > rat character, decent pizza, casino type games for the kids*allegedly*, > sometimes a little floor show. My niece that is now 20 asked if my parents [quoted text clipped - 125 lines] > > > > > > Linda J > > > > > > 252/208.8/10%--188 up from 176 a year ago. it can be a mouse if you want, Lee > A rat????? Gross, I thought it was cute mouse. > [quoted text clipped - 145 lines] > > > > > > > Linda J > > > > > > > 252/208.8/10%--188 up from 176 a year ago. -- Linda J 252/208.8/10%--188 > it can be a mouse if you want, Lee > > A rat????? Gross, I thought it was cute mouse. [quoted text clipped - 161 lines] > > > > > > > > Linda J > > > > > > > > 252/208.8/10%--188 up from 176 a year ago. Thank you. -- Linda J 252/208.8/10%--188 > it can be a mouse if you want, Lee > > A rat????? Gross, I thought it was cute mouse. [quoted text clipped - 161 lines] > > > > > > > > Linda J > > > > > > > > 252/208.8/10%--188 up from 176 a year ago. Yup, CC is here in the states although there are not as many as there were when my kids were growing up. > I didn't know Chuckie Cheese was in the States--That's where they've been > taking him, supposedly for him, but DS loves it there. I've never been. [quoted text clipped - 105 lines] > > > > > Linda J > > > > > 252/208.8/10%--188 up from 176 a year ago. There are two in the city just to the south of us, so it's about a 30 minutes drive. They stay for 3-4 hours and have a ball. -- Linda J 252/208.8/10%--188 > Yup, CC is here in the states although there are not as many as there > were when my kids were growing up. [quoted text clipped - 139 lines] > > > > > > Linda J > > > > > > 252/208.8/10%--188 up from 176 a year ago. We used to take the kids to CC when they were little. The one we went to closed but has been replaced by a close one. My youngest is 15 so she's outgrown CC for sure. Its must be 16 or 17 years since we've been to one. Our kids loved the place. My oldest stepkid is now 31. > There are two in the city just to the south of us, so it's about a 30 > minutes drive. They stay for 3-4 hours and have a ball. [quoted text clipped - 145 lines] > > > > > > > Linda J > > > > > > > 252/208.8/10%--188 up from 176 a year ago. Hey Linda! On one of my many re-runs I went from 178 to 330 in a year. (this was years ago). The Last re-run before this incarnation when I just didn't stop, I had lost in '90 down to 200, then regained to 247 which was where I was when I began again in '92... This time the fat lady is singing, and I am not going back up. It is "no longer an option" And I empathize. My family is a TRAIN WRECK. Not just demented Momma either.  SignatureLesanne >I had decided not to post my weight until Saturday, but what's the > difference, it is what it is and a few days won't make much difference. [quoted text clipped - 37 lines] > Linda J > 252/208.8/10%--188 up from 176 a year ago. as Tony robins says, there simply is NO functional family, just degrees of effort, Lee > Hey Linda! On one of my many re-runs I went from 178 to 330 in a year. (this > was years ago). The Last re-run before this incarnation when I just didn't [quoted text clipped - 46 lines] > > Linda J > > 252/208.8/10%--188 up from 176 a year ago. I have to remember that, I like it. -- Linda J 252/208.8/10%--188 > as Tony robins says, there simply is NO functional family, just degrees of > effort, Lee [quoted text clipped - 62 lines] > > > Linda J > > > 252/208.8/10%--188 up from 176 a year ago. Thanks, Lesanne, I needed to hear that. -- Linda J 252/208.8/10%--188 > Hey Linda! On one of my many re-runs I went from 178 to 330 in a year. (this > was years ago). The Last re-run before this incarnation when I just didn't [quoted text clipped - 46 lines] > > Linda J > > 252/208.8/10%--188 up from 176 a year ago. I know how you feel, Linda. Posting your weight is facing reality and shows determinations to do something about it. The putting on weight shows that you are just like the rest of us - we are human. Thank goodness for weight watchers and this groups - without either of you, I don't know what I would have done. Elaine 33l.3/279.0/200?? >I had decided not to post my weight until Saturday, but what's the >difference, it is what it is and a few days won't make much difference. [quoted text clipped - 31 lines] >Linda J >252/208.8/10%--188 up from 176 a year ago. Thanks, Elaine. -- Linda J 252/208.8/10%--188 > I know how you feel, Linda. Posting your weight is facing reality and > shows determinations to do something about it. The putting on weight [quoted text clipped - 39 lines] > >Linda J > >252/208.8/10%--188 up from 176 a year ago. |
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