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How long does it take you to feel full?

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Doug Lerner - 18 Jan 2005 08:45 GMT
I've started measuring this to get a better feel for whether I am really
hungry or not.

While my thin friends tell me their "fullness trigger" (or whatever it
is called) kicks in about 15-20 minutes after they have eaten enough my
time is *definitely* much longer - closer to one hour!

Is that a typical problem with very overweight people? It would
certainly go a long way to explaining overeating.

doug
Laura - 18 Jan 2005 13:55 GMT
Interesting question. I have been trying to eat slower, put my fork down bwt
bites and drink more water with dinner to lengthen the time that it takes me
to eat.

Remember with Core the idea is that you only eat until satisfied. This is
way before full. And somewhere past "not hungry". I haven't truely figured
out where that magical stopping point is either but I think I am making
progress. I try and stop eating as soon as I can feel a bit of pressure on
my stomach. To me this is the beginning of getting full. My biggest
challenge is leaving food on my plate as I grew up as part of the "you must
clean your plate club".

I also have made it a habit of only taking a normal serving size of food,
4-6 oz meat, 1/2c rice and a large portion of veggie, as a way of limiting
the amount of food on my plate. If I am still hungry then I take some more
food or just wait until later and have my yogurt/fruit for dessert. This
always fills me up and satisfies my sweet tooth in the evening. I also need
to work on not always having this dessert at night. It is more a habit and
not out of hunger that I have this treat. I need to knock this one out
somehow.

You might need to start cutting back on the quantity of food on your plate.
It takes time to shrink your stomach. This might also help you get "in
touch" with your stomach more. Give it some time.

> I've started measuring this to get a better feel for whether I am really
> hungry or not.
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> doug
Doug Lerner - 19 Jan 2005 10:53 GMT
> I also have made it a habit of only taking a normal serving size of food,
> 4-6 oz meat, 1/2c rice and a large portion of veggie, as a way of limiting
> the amount of food on my plate.

That is what I am trying to do too. It's interesting that 180 gm of meat
basically is as satisfying as 400 gm of meat when you mix it with plenty
of vegies and prepare it right!

doug
Miss Violette - 21 Jan 2005 15:07 GMT
it is very heartening to me that you are learning what is satisfied, I am
concentrating right now on getting the last bit off but I am working myself
into trying core again in the future because I would like to learn this, Lee
> Interesting question. I have been trying to eat slower, put my fork down bwt
> bites and drink more water with dinner to lengthen the time that it takes me
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> > doug
Laura - 21 Jan 2005 16:14 GMT
My leader says that this concept should also be applied to Flex. This might
be one way to silently keep portion size under control. I can also see how
this can play an important role in maintenance. Only eating when hungry and
only eating until satisfied. Not an easy thing to do.

It might not work for you since you need to eat every couple of hours. I
know that this was a stumbling block for you the last time. But if you
follow this guideline then you might find that you don't really need to eat
so often. You body/mind may just be used to it which is why you continue
with this pattern. It may be habit not need but only you can figure that one
out.

> it is very heartening to me that you are learning what is satisfied, I am
> concentrating right now on getting the last bit off but I am working myself
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> > > doug
Miss Violette - 24 Jan 2005 14:03 GMT
I tend toward hypoglycemia and that is why I eat often, having said that, as
I lose and eat better it does seem that the time in between does get longer.
This is also affected by level of activity and quality of the food I eat.
My goal is to be able to comfortable go for 4 hours without eating, some
days I can do it other I can't, Lee
> My leader says that this concept should also be applied to Flex. This might
> be one way to silently keep portion size under control. I can also see how
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Laura - 24 Jan 2005 14:21 GMT
Another great NSV for you.

> I tend toward hypoglycemia and that is why I eat often, having said that, as
> I lose and eat better it does seem that the time in between does get longer.
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Miss Violette - 31 Jan 2005 03:33 GMT
thanks I never thought of it that way but going for longer periods of time
without eating is a pretty nice NSV as it means less thinking about food,
being more "normal", thanks again for pointing that out, and I guess it also
means I am healthier overall, Lee, feeling great now
> Another great NSV for you.
>
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Laura - 31 Jan 2005 14:32 GMT
For me it is a by-product of doing the core program. My cravings and
thinking of food have been greatly diminished. This makes it possible to go
longer between meals. I think it also is an indication that the blood sugar
levels are being kept level. That is a good thing.

> thanks I never thought of it that way but going for longer periods of time
> without eating is a pretty nice NSV as it means less thinking about food,
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Miss Violette - 28 May 2005 23:47 GMT
you are right of course, Lee
> For me it is a by-product of doing the core program. My cravings and
> thinking of food have been greatly diminished. This makes it possible to go
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Brenda Hammond - 24 Jan 2005 16:11 GMT
That's a great NSV Lee!  Congratulations!

>I tend toward hypoglycemia and that is why I eat often, having said that,
>as
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Miss Violette - 31 Jan 2005 03:38 GMT
as I said to Laura, I never thought of it that way but it is actually a
terrific one as it not only means less focus on food but being a real
representation of improved health, Lee, thanking you for pointing it out
> That's a great NSV Lee!  Congratulations!
>
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Willow - 22 Jan 2005 03:08 GMT
Hmmm.. I'm here as a MEMBER not a leader... so take what I say as a friend
to friend advice.. not as a WW leader on duty ! ;op

You don't have to do core to work on that.. I sure don't and am starting to
get it.. (finally ;op)

In your Week one (p. 29) book you have the "hunger scale" with the 6 levels
of hungers (or however you call it).. use it.. put it on the fridge.. make
yourself a little plastified hand held model of it.. WHATEVER... but don't
forget the mark the "comfort zone"

BUT when you go to eat, start by seeing where you are on that chart.. just
that.. am I hungry really ? just getting hungry ? not hungry at all ?
starving ? take time to figure it out...

After you've eaten (about 20-25 minutes) look at the chart again.. where are
you now ? Did you eat enough ? too much ? just fine ? are you satisfied or
totally rolling off the table ?

practice practice practice.. the first MONTH I did that I couldn't really
figure it out.. I was always starving... then I started to make the
difference between starving and just being bored/mad/nervous.. takes time..
takes practice !

You've come a long way M'lady.. listen to your body.. it'll reward you for
all your good work ;o)

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> it is very heartening to me that you are learning what is satisfied, I am
> concentrating right now on getting the last bit off but I am working myself
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> > > doug
Miss Violette - 24 Jan 2005 14:08 GMT
I can tell hunger and when I get the shakes I know what I can eat to cure
that.  The real issue I think is that I never get full because I eat just
enough to stop the shakes.  What I am working towards is getting healthy
enough that this problem is reduced.  I started eating ever 4/5 hours and
having the shakes so bad that I way over ate.  now I can eat every 2/3 hours
and eat small points and get by, I would really like to learn this but will
be happy with keeping enough structure and getting healthy enough that I can
go 4 hours without feeling shaky, Lee, working at it
> Hmmm.. I'm here as a MEMBER not a leader... so take what I say as a friend
> to friend advice.. not as a WW leader on duty ! ;op
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Laura - 24 Jan 2005 14:24 GMT
Sounds like you are very in touch with your hunger-comfort zone. That is not
an easy thing to understand. We had a "refresher" course discussion on it at
our meeting Saturday morning. I'm trying to apply those ideas to my own
eating now. So far I've done really well. I just hope that I can continue
long enough so that it is imprinted in my brain. I'm getting better at only
eating when hungry and using the 3 hour rule. Its the "stop when satisfied"
part that needs a LOT of work.

> I can tell hunger and when I get the shakes I know what I can eat to cure
> that.  The real issue I think is that I never get full because I eat just
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> > > > > doug
Miss Violette - 31 Jan 2005 03:36 GMT
I am like you, I can tell real hunger from I just want to eat, I know when I
need to eat to fix my blood sugar levels, what is so hard is that I plain
like the taste of food and I like the act of eating so when I get started I
want to eat all that is prepared.  Portion control and no seconds is what
saves me, I am rarely really full but I hope to figure out satisfied one
day, Lee
> Sounds like you are very in touch with your hunger-comfort zone. That is not
> an easy thing to understand. We had a "refresher" course discussion on it at
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Willow - 24 Jan 2005 17:19 GMT
I would not be able to go 4 hours without food.. unthinkable.. which is why
I eat 6-8 meals a day.. and when I don't I don't do well..

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> I can tell hunger and when I get the shakes I know what I can eat to cure
> that.  The real issue I think is that I never get full because I eat just
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> > > > > doug
Miss Violette - 31 Jan 2005 03:42 GMT
I can actually go four hours some days depending on my activity level, I
think given my progress that it will always be more than three meals for me
but I hope to get it up to four hours apart consistently, that would be
enough for me, Lee
> I would not be able to go 4 hours without food.. unthinkable.. which is why
> I eat 6-8 meals a day.. and when I don't I don't do well..
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Cubit - 18 Jan 2005 15:58 GMT
For me, it takes about ten minutes.  Knowing this, I eat a carefully
measured portion and then wait the ten minutes without additional eating.

(I'm not a WW person, but I liked Doug's question.)

> I've started measuring this to get a better feel for whether I am really
> hungry or not.
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> doug
Brenda Hammond - 18 Jan 2005 16:42 GMT
Great question Doug.  I seem to feel full after about 15-20 minutes as well,
but most times this full feeling means I've already eaten too much.  I think
what we need to concentrate on is figuring out when we're not hungry any
longer and stopping at
that point.  Perhaps we should take lessons from our children - who seem to
know
when they are no longer hungry, but not "full" either.  My son is good at
this now - he's almost 4 and nice and slim - wonder what he'll be like when
he's older???

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> I've started measuring this to get a better feel for whether I am really
> hungry or not.
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> doug
Willow - 18 Jan 2005 16:58 GMT
I think that instead of trying to figure out "how much CAN I eat before the
full sign clicks on" we should work on "How much do I NEED to eat for the
hunger sign to go off"...

I'm trying very hard to go away from the mentality of "ok how much can I get
away with" and go to the idea of "what do I need to fuel my body"...

Hey.. I'm a weirdo you know ? ;o)

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> I've started measuring this to get a better feel for whether I am really
> hungry or not.
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>
> doug
Miss Violette - 21 Jan 2005 15:10 GMT
This is a very good point and is probably a very sensible approach, Lee
> I think that instead of trying to figure out "how much CAN I eat before the
> full sign clicks on" we should work on "How much do I NEED to eat for the
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> > doug
Wysong *~ - 18 Jan 2005 18:22 GMT
> I've started measuring this to get a better feel for whether I am really
> hungry or not.
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> Is that a typical problem with very overweight people? It would
> certainly go a long way to explaining overeating.
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The problem with almost all overweight/obese people is lack of portion
control!  They over eat constantly.  Why not use common sense and eat only 1
small potato instead of several under a mound of butter?  Why not 2 small
pork chops instead of a plateful?  Why buy a big Mac when a regular is quite
enough?  It's lack of self control and lack of portion control.
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Willow - 18 Jan 2005 22:02 GMT
OF COURSE !!!!!!!!!! Why haven't I figured that all by myself ? I (as being
an overweight person) was just too stupid to make the right choices.. what
was I thinking..

Oh.. and all the uneducated and illiterate people of the world are just too
lazy to study that's all...

Oh... and poor people should just be intelligent enough to get an education
and a job... what are they thinking ????????? (by the way I lived on the
street for a while)

Everyday of my life I'm impressed by the new ways people find to be
condescending and judgemental... that's one thing that really pisses me
off... deliberate stupidity..

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>
> > I've started measuring this to get a better feel for whether I am really
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> pork chops instead of a plateful?  Why buy a big Mac when a regular is quite
> enough?  It's lack of self control and lack of portion control.
Wysong *~ - 18 Jan 2005 22:27 GMT
> OF COURSE !!!!!!!!!! Why haven't I figured that all by myself ? I (as being
> an overweight person) was just too stupid to make the right choices.. what
> was I thinking..

## Not stupid - uncaring.  The food was more important than your health and
figure.  No need to be a nuclear physicist to figure that one out.

> Oh.. and all the uneducated and illiterate people of the world are just too
> lazy to study that's all...

## No need to study - it's on TV and in the papers all the time.

> Oh... and poor people should just be intelligent enough to get an education
> and a job... what are they thinking ????????? (by the way I lived on the
> street for a while)

## Who's talking about a college degree to learn portion control???

> Everyday of my life I'm impressed by the new ways people find to be
> condescending and judgemental... that's one thing that really pisses me
> off... deliberate stupidity..

##  Lots of things piss me off too.....
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Willow - 19 Jan 2005 06:07 GMT
Hope you're happy under your bridge..

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> > OF COURSE !!!!!!!!!! Why haven't I figured that all by myself ? I (as
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> ##  Lots of things piss me off too.....
Laura - 19 Jan 2005 12:45 GMT
teehee. my thoughts exactly. She was labeled one back in 2003 for basically
the same topic.

> Hope you're happy under your bridge..
>
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> > ##  Lots of things piss me off too.....
Willow - 19 Jan 2005 16:17 GMT
I kinda new at the first message... but couldn't resist.. you'd think that
after over 10 years online I'd know better than waste my time but hey.. I'm
a big mouth ! *gin*

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> teehee. my thoughts exactly. She was labeled one back in 2003 for basically
> the same topic.
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> > > ##  Lots of things piss me off too.....
Fred - 19 Jan 2005 16:31 GMT
Buzzzzzzz - sorry - anedotal.  You have not scientifically established
she lives under a bridge! (G)  

But holding finger up to detect the wind and sniffing the air, I
believe you may be right.  Water and foolish eaters seem to be this
year's driving force.  Oh, yeah, and WW had it right 40 years ago.


>teehee. my thoughts exactly. She was labeled one back in 2003 for basically
>the same topic.
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Willow - 19 Jan 2005 16:44 GMT
*Stares blindly in nothingness* Yes My lord... you are right my Lord...

;op

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> Buzzzzzzz - sorry - anedotal.  You have not scientifically established
> she lives under a bridge! (G)
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> >> > ##  Lots of things piss me off too.....
=^*..*^= - 19 Jan 2005 17:37 GMT
> Buzzzzzzz - sorry - anedotal.  You have not scientifically established
> she lives under a bridge! (G)
>
> But holding finger up to detect the wind and sniffing the air, I
> believe you may be right.  Water and foolish eaters seem to be this
> year's driving force.  Oh, yeah, and WW had it right 40 years ago.
========================
Yep Fred!  Forty years ago everyone who stuck to the WW plan lost weight,
unlike today.  Why is it so hard to accept that?
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Nathalie W - 19 Jan 2005 20:21 GMT
Strange that I lost nearly 100 pounds sticking to the actual plan. Then
again I 'm probably anecdotal :-)
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> > Buzzzzzzz - sorry - anedotal.  You have not scientifically established
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> Yep Fred!  Forty years ago everyone who stuck to the WW plan lost weight,
> unlike today.  Why is it so hard to accept that?
Fred - 20 Jan 2005 04:04 GMT
I know Europe has some small countries and principalities but where
exactly is Anecdotal?  Is it close to Belgium?

Listen, THE PROGRAM does not work for her.  Water does not work for
her (as we know NORMAL people feel thirst and drink - hey, maybe heavy
people are not quite normal or they would not be heavy and maybe they
do need to push water since it might actually curb their hunger!!!

Why does she tend to bring out the worst or is that thirst in people?

Okay, I will back off and bow out.


>Strange that I lost nearly 100 pounds sticking to the actual plan. Then
>again I 'm probably anecdotal :-)
Wysong *~ - 20 Jan 2005 05:22 GMT
> Strange that I lost nearly 100 pounds sticking to the actual plan. Then
> again I 'm probably anecdotal :-)
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But you're not "everyone" my dear.  Have you read the article in the NYTimes
about these diets?   Of course there are those who lose weight on any diet,
unfortunately, most people don't lose more than something like 5% of their
body weight over time.  Most people followed gain it back, plus MORE!  I can
honestly say I don't know anyone who failed on the original WW plan.  All
lost considerable weight, more than 5%, but how many kept it off?  That I
don't know....  Has WW posted or printed their statistics anywhere?
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Miss Violette - 21 Jan 2005 15:19 GMT
me also, in one of the other groups when this happens we have a trollb q and
at the first sign of this behavior we begin posting recipes, Lee

Quick snack for the sweet tooth:
16 ounces your favorite coffee,
1 TBSP dry unsweetened cocoa
Mix together sweeten to taste,
> Strange that I lost nearly 100 pounds sticking to the actual plan. Then
> again I 'm probably anecdotal :-)
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Miss Violette - 21 Jan 2005 15:16 GMT
because I have lost 95 pounds and have my life back from today's plan, Lee

> > Buzzzzzzz - sorry - anedotal.  You have not scientifically established
> > she lives under a bridge! (G)
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> 171/ 167 / 140 lb
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Kate Dicey - 21 Jan 2005 23:33 GMT
> because I have lost 95 pounds and have my life back from today's plan, Lee

48.5 on today's plan here.  Works for me.
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Laura - 22 Jan 2005 00:04 GMT
Almost 70 pounds here. I think the current plan works just fine.

> because I have lost 95 pounds and have my life back from today's plan, Lee
> >
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Deb in Northern California - 22 Jan 2005 06:53 GMT
I am going to chime in here.  Almost 70 lbs on the current plan.

Debbie

> because I have lost 95 pounds and have my life back from today's plan, Lee
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Miss Violette - 21 Jan 2005 15:15 GMT
LOL till I fell off the couch, Lee
> Buzzzzzzz - sorry - anedotal.  You have not scientifically established
> she lives under a bridge! (G)
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Fred - 21 Jan 2005 22:32 GMT
I hope your tushy is okay since it has a lot less padding! (G)


>LOL till I fell off the couch, Lee
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Willow - 22 Jan 2005 02:55 GMT
*grins widely but says nothing*

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> I hope your tushy is okay since it has a lot less padding! (G)
>
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Miss Violette - 24 Jan 2005 14:12 GMT
was worth the pain, Lee
> I hope your tushy is okay since it has a lot less padding! (G)
>
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Brenda Hammond - 19 Jan 2005 16:45 GMT
Mine too.  I remember her in 2003.

> teehee. my thoughts exactly. She was labeled one back in 2003 for
> basically
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Willow - 19 Jan 2005 16:56 GMT
Was also trolling another group I used to belong to..

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> Mine too.  I remember her in 2003.
>
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JulieB - 19 Jan 2005 20:09 GMT
I try to be friendly, but I'm thisclose to blowing a fuse with her.  I had
hoped it wouldn't degenerate into this this quickly....

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> Mine too.  I remember her in 2003.
>
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Laura - 19 Jan 2005 20:49 GMT
I suggest we just ignore her. You know the old expression. "don't feed a
troll"....

> I try to be friendly, but I'm thisclose to blowing a fuse with her.  I had
> hoped it wouldn't degenerate into this this quickly....
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> >>> > ##  Lots of things piss me off too.....
Brenda Hammond - 20 Jan 2005 01:48 GMT
My thoughts exactly.  In fact that's why I didn't react
to her earlier reply to my posting to Glenn B.

>I suggest we just ignore her. You know the old expression. "don't feed a
> troll"....
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Laura - 20 Jan 2005 02:48 GMT
I was hoping that history would not repeat itself so I gave her a fair
chance. Did not take long for her to show her true colors. Last time it took
quite a while for us to catch on. I will refrain from responding to her
messges here.

> My thoughts exactly.  In fact that's why I didn't react
> to her earlier reply to my posting to Glenn B.
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> >> >>> > ##  Lots of things piss me off too.....
Brenda Hammond - 20 Jan 2005 03:46 GMT
Me too.

>I was hoping that history would not repeat itself so I gave her a fair
> chance. Did not take long for her to show her true colors. Last time it
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Wysong *~ - 20 Jan 2005 05:26 GMT
> I try to be friendly, but I'm thisclose to blowing a fuse with her.  I had
> hoped it wouldn't degenerate into this this quickly....
===========================
Why?  Why act like we're discussing religion and someone is running into
your church yelling "God doesn't exist?"   Is everyone on this NG supposed
to chant the same thing and march to the same drummer; no questions asked?
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Fred - 20 Jan 2005 06:01 GMT
People are here for mutual support.  Naysayers need not apply.  You do
not follow the WW program and then complain about it.  You take
exception to any suggestions.  No, water is not gospel.  Neither is
being exactly on core (at least, that's my take) and I will discuss
such merits or demerits.  But you appear to be looking for something
that does not exist.  An old program which worked when you were in
your 20's.  And maybe all those folks regained which is why WW has
tweaked the program.  Maybe those strict rules and making one's own
ketchup was too much for most NORMAL people with ABNORMAL weight
problems.

Folks can lose weight without exercise whether you believe it or not.
Maybe they can't exercise.  Maybe the hate exercise.  They will lose
slower but if they follow the program they can lose.  Yup, there are
clearly exceptions to any rule and any diet.  I was sixty pounds
overweight and got lots of exercise, tons of exercise, thousands of
vertical feet of exercise and 100's of saddle-miles of exercise.  It
did not solve my problem.   You're right - no willpower or divine
power or diet power.  My problem but at the moment WW has solved it
for _ME_

You have already noted NORMAL people feel thirst and respond
accordingly.  Well, maybe those of us with weight problems don't and
so drinking water works.  Or it may be a placebo.  Who the hell cares.

Find some diet that works for you and start you own darn program.

Yes, we all know many dieters fail but we hope against hope to fight
the good fight and fight the tide.  We are here to say we are going to
be different.  We support each other by suggesting water or suggesting
exercise or suggesting alternative meals or ingredient or....This
place is not sponsored by WW which does its program for profit.  We
are a mutual admiration society and you seem to not get off on that
type of behavior.  

Why not drop into "fat acceptance" where they tend to slap others
around.  Or the weightlifters group where it sounds as if they take no
prisoners either.

Frankly, you have now, at least, twice come forward as a chronic
complainer.  So, either really try WW or take your negative thoughts
to another group - PLEASE.



>> I try to be friendly, but I'm thisclose to blowing a fuse with her.  I had
>> hoped it wouldn't degenerate into this this quickly....
>===========================
>Why?  Why act like we're discussing religion and someone is running into
>your church yelling "God doesn't exist?"   Is everyone on this NG supposed
>to chant the same thing and march to the same drummer; no questions asked?
Laura - 20 Jan 2005 13:07 GMT
Go Fred!

> People are here for mutual support.  Naysayers need not apply.  You do
> not follow the WW program and then complain about it.  You take
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> >your church yelling "God doesn't exist?"   Is everyone on this NG supposed
> >to chant the same thing and march to the same drummer; no questions asked?
Brenda Hammond - 20 Jan 2005 14:48 GMT
Couldn't bow out?  You said it well my dear!  Congrats!

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> People are here for mutual support.  Naysayers need not apply.  You do
> not follow the WW program and then complain about it.  You take
[quoted text clipped - 46 lines]
>>your church yelling "God doesn't exist?"   Is everyone on this NG supposed
>>to chant the same thing and march to the same drummer; no questions asked?
Fred - 20 Jan 2005 15:06 GMT
I did try to restrain myself in some other threads or earlier in this
one.  But just got tired.  Maybe she drove me to wasabi potato chips
or they drove me.

I hope I am finished.  I plan on ignoring her complaints.  I gave her
references to older program materials maybe she will find her
salvation.


>Couldn't bow out?  You said it well my dear!  Congrats!
Brenda Hammond - 20 Jan 2005 15:47 GMT
Perhaps she will.  At least I hope she does and as for the rest of
us, well...we're here to support each other and that's what we'll
continue to do and do so well!

How much rain are you getting down there?  Here's a link to
Environment Canada's forecast for our area for the next 5 days.
http://www.weatheroffice.ec.gc.ca/forecast/city_e.html?BC-3
We're going to need hip waders before the week is up!

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>I did try to restrain myself in some other threads or earlier in this
> one.  But just got tired.  Maybe she drove me to wasabi potato chips
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>
>>Couldn't bow out?  You said it well my dear!  Congrats!
Fred - 21 Jan 2005 03:52 GMT
Yesterday was dry and warm again - 62F, another new record.  Rain
today but on and off, and some hard and some thick mist.

Friday sounds somewhat dry but the weekend is hose time.  Our rivers
are still way up and there's lots of flooding.  I think most of our
ski areas are closed.  They lost a lot of what little snow they did
have.  Rocks and shrubs everywhere.

A friend is heading up to the Kokanees outside of Nelson and is
concerned about the terrible weather.

And I heard an American (ah, our provincial way of saying a US
citizen) was killed in an avalanche up there somewhere today.


>Perhaps she will.  At least I hope she does and as for the rest of
>us, well...we're here to support each other and that's what we'll
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>http://www.weatheroffice.ec.gc.ca/forecast/city_e.html?BC-3
>We're going to need hip waders before the week is up!
Willow - 21 Jan 2005 04:43 GMT
I'm driving off to Napa again tomorrow.. I REALLY LOVE working those
meetings.. the groups are so much fun and the drive IS incredible all the
way through wine country (I'm in Rohnert Park between Santa Rosa and
Petaluma in north Cali.. so it's about an hour of driving in gentle hills...
around Farms.. and wineries...)

Of course first time I drove it it was a rain storm.. and last week the fog
was thick enough to walk on.. hopefully it'll be good tomorrow *grin* and I
have to go to Santa Rosa first.. O-O

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> Yesterday was dry and warm again - 62F, another new record.  Rain
> today but on and off, and some hard and some thick mist.
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> >http://www.weatheroffice.ec.gc.ca/forecast/city_e.html?BC-3
> >We're going to need hip waders before the week is up!
Fred - 21 Jan 2005 05:51 GMT
Rub it in and we will arrange to have you sent back to Canada! (G)


>I'm driving off to Napa again tomorrow.. I REALLY LOVE working those
>meetings.. the groups are so much fun and the drive IS incredible all the
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>was thick enough to walk on.. hopefully it'll be good tomorrow *grin* and I
>have to go to Santa Rosa first.. O-O
Willow - 21 Jan 2005 06:48 GMT
Nooooooooooooooo nooooooooooooooo nooooooooo

my aunt is a walker.. she walks everyday.. she lives about 10 minutes from
my parent's house (on foot and that's taking the long way around) and the
snow storm was so bad she stopped at my parents and asked if she could spend
the night.. O-O

I luuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuv California.. here ain't San Diego.. we do get to
the freezing point.. but it beats East Canada any time of the year !!!

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> Rub it in and we will arrange to have you sent back to Canada! (G)
>
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> >was thick enough to walk on.. hopefully it'll be good tomorrow *grin* and I
> >have to go to Santa Rosa first.. O-O
Miss Violette - 21 Jan 2005 15:27 GMT
best of luck on the drive, My best friend from high school lives in Santa
Rosa near her mother, Lee
> I'm driving off to Napa again tomorrow.. I REALLY LOVE working those
> meetings.. the groups are so much fun and the drive IS incredible all the
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> > >http://www.weatheroffice.ec.gc.ca/forecast/city_e.html?BC-3
> > >We're going to need hip waders before the week is up!
Willow - 22 Jan 2005 02:54 GMT
You gotta come and visit !

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> best of luck on the drive, My best friend from high school lives in Santa
> Rosa near her mother, Lee
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> > > >http://www.weatheroffice.ec.gc.ca/forecast/city_e.html?BC-3
> > > >We're going to need hip waders before the week is up!
Miss Violette - 24 Jan 2005 14:18 GMT
I will when I figure out how to get DH to drive it, I am done flying, Lee
> You gotta come and visit !
>
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> > > > >http://www.weatheroffice.ec.gc.ca/forecast/city_e.html?BC-3
> > > > >We're going to need hip waders before the week is up!
Willow - 24 Jan 2005 17:16 GMT
ooooooooo long drive...

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> I will when I figure out how to get DH to drive it, I am done flying, Lee
> > You gotta come and visit !
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> > > > > >http://www.weatheroffice.ec.gc.ca/forecast/city_e.html?BC-3
> > > > > >We're going to need hip waders before the week is up!
Miss Violette - 31 Jan 2005 03:39 GMT
too long probably, Lee
> ooooooooo long drive...
>
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> > > > > > >http://www.weatheroffice.ec.gc.ca/forecast/city_e.html?BC-3
> > > > > > >We're going to need hip waders before the week is up!
Willow - 04 Feb 2005 06:11 GMT
Beautiful though... can you imagine crossing hte rockies ????? not in winter
!

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> too long probably, Lee
> > ooooooooo long drive...
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> > > > > > > >http://www.weatheroffice.ec.gc.ca/forecast/city_e.html?BC-3
> > > > > > > >We're going to need hip waders before the week is up!
for.arts.sake@sympatico.ca - 04 Feb 2005 12:00 GMT
>Beautiful though... can you imagine crossing hte rockies ????? not in winter

Did it many times between Calgary and Vancouver. That's what
snowplows, and winter tires are for.

Shirley Hicks
Toronto, Ontario
Willow - 21 Feb 2005 20:56 GMT
I know all about those... grew up and lived most of my life in snowcountry
(Quebec)... doesn't mean I have to like it..

I'm good at driving in snow... as a result of flying off the road often
enough to learn better *grin* but I can't imagine going up and down
mountains..

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>
> >Beautiful though... can you imagine crossing hte rockies ????? not in winter
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> Shirley Hicks
> Toronto, Ontario
Miss Violette - 28 May 2005 23:48 GMT
don't want to imagine, Lee
> Beautiful though... can you imagine crossing hte rockies ????? not in winter
> !
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> > > > > > > > >http://www.weatheroffice.ec.gc.ca/forecast/city_e.html?BC-3
> > > > > > > > >We're going to need hip waders before the week is up!
Brenda Hammond - 21 Jan 2005 04:58 GMT
Rain here this morning, but nice in the afternoon and some sun too -
not much mind you.  I think I'll be hiding out inside and painting the
spare room this weekend!

This is the first I've heard of any avalanche.  Unfortunate that things
like this happen.  I searched the Global BC site, but couldn't find
any mention of it.  Maybe wasn't even reported on our news here
as there is so much "other" stuff going on with all the rain, floods,
mudslides, etc.

> Yesterday was dry and warm again - 62F, another new record.  Rain
> today but on and off, and some hard and some thick mist.
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>>http://www.weatheroffice.ec.gc.ca/forecast/city_e.html?BC-3
>>We're going to need hip waders before the week is up!
Wysong *~ - 20 Jan 2005 19:15 GMT
> I did try to restrain myself in some other threads or earlier in this
> one.  But just got tired.  Maybe she drove me to wasabi potato chips
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> references to older program materials maybe she will find her
> salvation.
============================
If you gave reference to the 1960s material it did not show up on my
news-server.
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Wysong *~ - 20 Jan 2005 19:14 GMT
> People are here for mutual support.  Naysayers need not apply.  You do
> not follow the WW program and then complain about it.

**  How can anyone keep up with all the CHANGES in the program?  Every few
moths they're changing something.  I am following what I was told was so
effective in 2001/2002.

You take
> exception to any suggestions.  No, water is not gospel.

** When I took your suggestions the last time there was no effect on weight
loss.  I tried the extra water and it made no difference.

Neither is
> being exactly on core (at least, that's my take) and I will discuss
> such merits or demerits.  But you appear to be looking for something
> that does not exist.

** I am looking for a diet that works like the low-carb diet did for 5
months.  I am also looking for the ORIGINAL WW diet plan that worked so well
for everyone in the 1960s.

An old program which worked when you were in
> your 20's.  And maybe all those folks regained which is why WW has
> tweaked the program.

**  It worked for all of us who tried it.  I never regained the 20 lost lbs
until my thyroid quit working.  If it didn't why would I bother now?  My
Aunt was in her 50s at the time.

Maybe those strict rules and making one's own
> ketchup was too much for most NORMAL people with ABNORMAL weight
> problems.

**  I don't recall making Ketchup.  :-)  But then I don't like ketchup, mayo
or mustard.

> Folks can lose weight without exercise whether you believe it or not.
> Maybe they can't exercise.  Maybe the hate exercise.  They will lose
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> power or diet power.  My problem but at the moment WW has solved it
> for _ME_

** And I'm happy for you.  :-)

> You have already noted NORMAL people feel thirst and respond
> accordingly.  Well, maybe those of us with weight problems don't and
> so drinking water works.  Or it may be a placebo.  Who the hell cares.
> Find some diet that works for you and start you own darn program.

**  I can't locate a copy of the original WW plan.  I've looked everywhere
including the local library and used book stores.

> Yes, we all know many dieters fail but we hope against hope to fight
> the good fight and fight the tide.  We are here to say we are going to
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> complainer.  So, either really try WW or take your negative thoughts
> to another group - PLEASE.

**  Thanks!

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Laura - 21 Jan 2005 21:52 GMT
> > People are here for mutual support.  Naysayers need not apply.  You do
> > not follow the WW program and then complain about it.
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> months.  I am also looking for the ORIGINAL WW diet plan that worked so well
> for everyone in the 1960s.

Here's the one from the 70's:
http://www.dottisweightlosszone.com/WWinfo/old1972ww.html
Maybe thats close enough to what you remember.

> An old program which worked when you were in
> > your 20's.  And maybe all those folks regained which is why WW has
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>
> **  Thanks!
Wysong *~ - 23 Jan 2005 03:23 GMT
> Here's the one from the 70's:
> http://www.dottisweightlosszone.com/WWinfo/old1972ww.html
> Maybe thats close enough to what you remember.
======================
Yes, thank you.  This looks very close to what I remember.  :o)
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Willow - 21 Jan 2005 04:41 GMT
Don't hold back Fred ! Say it like it is !

*grin* well said !

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> People are here for mutual support.  Naysayers need not apply.  You do
> not follow the WW program and then complain about it.  You take
[quoted text clipped - 45 lines]
> >your church yelling "God doesn't exist?"   Is everyone on this NG supposed
> >to chant the same thing and march to the same drummer; no questions asked?
Miss Violette - 21 Jan 2005 15:24 GMT
thank you, If I were single I would be on your doorstep, Lee
> People are here for mutual support.  Naysayers need not apply.  You do
> not follow the WW program and then complain about it.  You take
[quoted text clipped - 45 lines]
> >your church yelling "God doesn't exist?"   Is everyone on this NG supposed
> >to chant the same thing and march to the same drummer; no questions asked?
Fred - 21 Jan 2005 22:33 GMT
I am definitely no angel - far from perfect.  She just got to me the
other day.


>thank you, If I were single I would be on your doorstep, Lee
>> People are here for mutual support.  Naysayers need not apply.  You do
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>> >to chant the same thing and march to the same drummer; no questions
>asked?
Willow - 22 Jan 2005 02:56 GMT
You ? No angel ? and I there I was thinking.. *shakes head*

;op we gotta let it out sometimes...

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> I am definitely no angel - far from perfect.  She just got to me the
> other day.
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> >> >to chant the same thing and march to the same drummer; no questions
> >asked?
Brenda Hammond - 22 Jan 2005 04:21 GMT
You just ruined my day!  I thought you were an angel too :-(

>I am definitely no angel - far from perfect.  She just got to me the
> other day.
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>>> >to chant the same thing and march to the same drummer; no questions
>>asked?
Fred - 22 Jan 2005 05:49 GMT
Well, sorry to dash so many hopeful humans! (G)


>You just ruined my day!  I thought you were an angel too :-(
>
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>>>> >to chant the same thing and march to the same drummer; no questions
>>>asked?
Willow - 22 Jan 2005 07:15 GMT
How could you ???????????????

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> Well, sorry to dash so many hopeful humans! (G)
>
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> >>>> >to chant the same thing and march to the same drummer; no questions
> >>>asked?
Fred - 22 Jan 2005 16:43 GMT
Hey, if I were an angel and perfect I would ignore the rain out THERE
and go hiking rather than sitting at my computer.  Altho, I did use
the Nordic Track for 15 minutes this morning - boring


>How could you ???????????????
Brenda Hammond - 22 Jan 2005 17:06 GMT
I've got a treadmill downstairs, but can't bring myself to use the damn
thing, I'd rather be outside too!  It's pouring here, but I may get out
later and do something :-)  swimming???

> Hey, if I were an angel and perfect I would ignore the rain out THERE
> and go hiking rather than sitting at my computer.  Altho, I did use
> the Nordic Track for 15 minutes this morning - boring
>
>>How could you ???????????????
Kate Dicey - 22 Jan 2005 17:15 GMT
> I've got a treadmill downstairs, but can't bring myself to use the damn
> thing, I'd rather be outside too!  It's pouring here, but I may get out
> later and do something :-)  swimming???

Well, if it's raining *that* hard... ;D

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Brenda Hammond - 22 Jan 2005 17:25 GMT
We're forecast to get 140mm over the next 24 hours ;-0

>> I've got a treadmill downstairs, but can't bring myself to use the damn
>> thing, I'd rather be outside too!  It's pouring here, but I may get out
>> later and do something :-)  swimming???
>
> Well, if it's raining *that* hard... ;D
Fred - 22 Jan 2005 21:11 GMT
I just spent a fortune on new telemark skis at REI about 10 minutes
ago.  I basically reserved them as this was the last pair in a good
length.  I may return them.

Drizzling here.  Most of the storm is UP your way from what doppler
shows.

A friend has to walk his dog so I agreed while his wife is out getting
him a copy of Photoshop CS (the new one!!!)

Swimming may work.  They had some aerial shots of the mountains
yesterday talking about spring/summer water.  There is NO SNOW!!!  It
is a bit frightening.


>I've got a treadmill downstairs, but can't bring myself to use the damn
>thing, I'd rather be outside too!  It's pouring here, but I may get out
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>>
>>>How could you ???????????????
Willow - 22 Jan 2005 18:11 GMT
tsk tsk tsk...

Here it's foggy but no rain... or so they say.. we're planning a long walk
with the doggie !

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> Hey, if I were an angel and perfect I would ignore the rain out THERE
> and go hiking rather than sitting at my computer.  Altho, I did use
> the Nordic Track for 15 minutes this morning - boring
>
> >How could you ???????????????
Miss Violette - 24 Jan 2005 14:14 GMT
good I wouldn't date an angel, Lee
> I am definitely no angel - far from perfect.  She just got to me the
> other day.
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> >> >to chant the same thing and march to the same drummer; no questions
> >asked?
Miss Violette - 21 Jan 2005 15:14 GMT
its almost time for that filter button again, Lee
> Hope you're happy under your bridge..
>
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> > 171/ 167 / 140 lb
> > ==========================================
Lynne - 24 Jan 2005 18:00 GMT
The thing that pisses me off the most is useless advice from people
who are not proving by results that what they say works. I hate using
the kilfile but in this case I'll make an exception before I implode.
Enough negativity already!

Lynne
Highest Weight - 308
WW Start Weight this time around - 222.4
Weight this week - 217.4
Goal - 150 (Subject to change)
"Change doesn't happen while you're sitting around."

>> OF COURSE !!!!!!!!!! Why haven't I figured that all by myself ? I (as
>being
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>
>##  Lots of things piss me off too.....
Miss Violette - 21 Jan 2005 15:12 GMT
I swear we are related, Lee
> OF COURSE !!!!!!!!!! Why haven't I figured that all by myself ? I (as being
> an overweight person) was just too stupid to make the right choices.. what
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> > 171/ 167 / 140 lb
> > ==========================================
Willow - 22 Jan 2005 02:57 GMT
;o)

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> I swear we are related, Lee
> > OF COURSE !!!!!!!!!! Why haven't I figured that all by myself ? I (as
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ray miller - 18 Jan 2005 23:00 GMT
>The problem with almost all overweight/obese people is lack of portion
>control!  They over eat constantly.  Why not use common sense and eat only 1
>small potato instead of several under a mound of butter?  Why not 2 small
>pork chops instead of a plateful?  Why buy a big Mac when a regular is quite
>enough?  It's lack of self control and lack of portion control.

I agree with the lack of portion control

I'm not sure that 'self control' comes into it.  You open up an
arguement about fat people being weak. Thats a stereotype that is
unhelpful at best. I think the overweight are like everyone else (some
'weak-willed' some 'strong-willed').

The only reason people get overweight is that they eat too many
calories, and you don't measure self control in calories.

Ray

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Wysong *~ - 19 Jan 2005 17:45 GMT
> >The problem with almost all overweight/obese people is lack of portion
> >control!  They over eat constantly.  Why not use common sense and eat only 1
> >small potato instead of several under a mound of butter?  Why not 2 small
> >pork chops instead of a plateful?  Why buy a big Mac when a regular is quite
> >enough?  It's lack of self control and lack of portion control.

> I agree with the lack of portion control

##  They don't want to hear anything like that. It *IS* lack of portion
control, plus eating a lot of empty calorie junk food that causes obesity.
And lack of exercise.  I've seen almost no posts here regarding exercise.
Try talking about it and they call you a troll.  You're either into their
fantasy or you're a troll.  The NYTimes recently had an article on these
diet (like WW, L.A. Weight Loss etc) plans that simply do not work for the
vast majority of people.  Sometimes when I read this NG it's like some of
the regulars (who are still obese after 4 years of WW dieting) are living in
a fantasy world.

> I'm not sure that 'self control' comes into it.  You open up an
> arguement about fat people being weak.

##  Ray, the self control comes in right at the grocery store as on Dr. told
me.  Why put the items in the shopping-cart to start with?  Why purchase
them?   Why have them in the house?  So part of it is self-control.  You
think I'm not tempted when I walk pass the nuts and cookies etc.?   Everyone
is....

Thats a stereotype that is
> unhelpful at best. I think the overweight are like everyone else (some
> 'weak-willed' some 'strong-willed').

## Exactly!

> The only reason people get overweight is that they eat too many
> calories, and you don't measure self control in calories.

##  This is true.  It all comes down to "eat less and move more!"

> Ray

> 2002 1.8i eternal red
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Anna H. - 18 Jan 2005 23:19 GMT
>The problem with almost all overweight/obese people is lack of portion
>control!  They over eat constantly.  Why not use common sense and eat only 1
>small potato instead of several under a mound of butter?  Why not 2 small
>pork chops instead of a plateful?  Why buy a big Mac when a regular is quite
>enough?  It's lack of self control and lack of portion control.

I don't eat butter.
I've never eaten more than one pork chop in a meal, ever in my life.
I hate McDonalds and most fast food.

So why did I get fat? Why are you still over-weight, for that matter, if
its so easy?

The reasons for obesity are many and complex, neurological as well as
psycho-social. Scientists have discovered a "fat gene", some people have
a poorer appetite control mechanism than others, some people have
emotional issues that make them feel compelled and obsessive about
eating, even to their own detriment.

To claim its all "self control and portion control" is utterly
simplistic and doesn't work for most of us - including you, evidently.
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Wysong *~ - 20 Jan 2005 05:35 GMT
> >The problem with almost all overweight/obese people is lack of portion
> >control!  They over eat constantly.  Why not use common sense and eat only 1
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> I've never eaten more than one pork chop in a meal, ever in my life.
> I hate McDonalds and most fast food.

## Me too!  :-)   I gained all 80 lbs when my thyroid stopped working at the
same time I developed fasciitis and was bed ridden for 18 months.  I was
thin all my life.   Although I had all the symptoms of hypothyroidism my
first Dr missed it completely.

> So why did I get fat? Why are you still over-weight, for that matter, if
> its so easy?

##  No one said losing weight is EASY.  We all know it isn't  What's easy is
portion control and avoiding fattening foods and treats.  It's also easy to
leave these foods at the supermarket when we shop and not buy them.

> The reasons for obesity are many and complex, neurological as well as
> psycho-social. Scientists have discovered a "fat gene", some people have
> a poorer appetite control mechanism than others, some people have
> emotional issues that make them feel compelled and obsessive about
> eating, even to their own detriment.

## Unfortunately that is true.  I never believed thyroid problems could
cause massive weight gain - I found out it can!

> To claim its all "self control and portion control" is utterly
> simplistic and doesn't work for most of us - including you, evidently.

##   I have no problem sticking to any diet I've been on.  Portion control
is no problem.  I have a scale and measuring cup.  I leave the high-calorie
foods at the grocery store.  Only one diet worked, and worked for only 5
months, and that was low-carb.  Had my body not started to convert the
protein to carbohydrates I would have reached goal weight that spring
(2003).

> Anna H.
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ray miller - 20 Jan 2005 18:43 GMT
>##   I have no problem sticking to any diet I've been on.  Portion control
>is no problem.  I have a scale and measuring cup.  I leave the high-calorie
>foods at the grocery store.  Only one diet worked, and worked for only 5
>months, and that was low-carb.  Had my body not started to convert the
>protein to carbohydrates I would have reached goal weight that spring
>(2003).

As you know, weight control is fairly simple. If you eat less than you
expend and wait long enough your weight will come down. If your weight
stays the same you are eating too much.

Thyroid problem make it very difficult to lose weight but not
impossible. Besides I understood your medical conditions were under
control now.

Don't try to kid us that your body started converting protein to carbs
and that's why you got fat 'cos no-one here will buy that. You are
still overweight cos you continue to eat too much.

Ray

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Wysong *~ - 20 Jan 2005 19:20 GMT
> >##   I have no problem sticking to any diet I've been on.  Portion control
> >is no problem.  I have a scale and measuring cup.  I leave the high-calorie
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> expend and wait long enough your weight will come down. If your weight
> stays the same you are eating too much.

$$  This is true.

> Thyroid problem make it very difficult to lose weight but not
> impossible. Besides I understood your medical conditions were under
> control now.

$$ Yes they are.   :-)

> Don't try to kid us that your body started converting protein to carbs
> and that's why you got fat 'cos no-one here will buy that.

$$  Read the low-carb and Atkin's information.  You don't NEED carbs to
live.  Your body can convert protein to all the carbs you need.  I didn't
know that either.

You are
> still overweight cos you continue to eat too much.

$$  This is true.  Now, back on WW, I am "hungry" all the time, but am
losing weight.  So yes it takes a lot of self control and will power not to
have that second pear or cup of Yogurt..

> Ray
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ray miller - 21 Jan 2005 17:14 GMT
>$$  Read the low-carb and Atkin's information.  You don't NEED carbs to
>live.  Your body can convert protein to all the carbs you need.  I didn't
>know that either.

Can you give me some details about the studies you read that suggest
people don't need carbs please.
And also those that suggest that the body converts protein to carbs in
any appreciable quantity.

Thanks

Ray

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Wysong *~ - 21 Jan 2005 18:22 GMT
> >$$  Read the low-carb and Atkin's information.  You don't NEED carbs to
> >live.  Your body can convert protein to all the carbs you need.  I didn't
> >know that either.
>
> Can you give me some details about the studies you read that suggest
> people don't need carbs please.

## Please see almost any website concerning low-carb diets. There are
societies that seldom see any carbs such the Eskimos and other far northern
societies of people.  I don't save the URLS to all the websites I visit.

> And also those that suggest that the body converts protein to carbs in
> any appreciable quantity.

$$  See above.  You're body gets better at it as time passes.  You will
*not* suffer a carbohydrate deficiency.  There are people (see the old
NYTimes article on the subject) who have been on strict Atkins for over 15
years who are in perfect health.  You can't live without consuming fats and
proteins - you can survive nicely without carbs.  :-)  Keep in mind that
carbs fatten humans as well and as quickly as they fatten animals or fowl.
While low-carbing I consumed around 20g of carbs a day and remained in
perfect health those 2+ years.  I stuck to low-carb veggies so did not exist
solely on meat.

> Thanks
>
> Ray

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ray miller - 21 Jan 2005 21:34 GMT
>> Can you give me some details about the studies you read that suggest
>> people don't need carbs please.
>
>## Please see almost any website concerning low-carb diets.

You keep telling others to stop saying that water helps weight loss
'cos there's no science behind it - so you come up with the papers
that prove your points or shut up.

Ray

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Anna H. - 21 Jan 2005 22:23 GMT
>>> Can you give me some details about the studies you read that suggest
>>> people don't need carbs please.
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>
>Ray

To say "people don't need carbs" is quite an exaggeration, although it
could be true in the literal sense.

Strictly speaking there are two problems with that statement:

1. It is possible to survive without more than trace carbohydrate -
studies into the old pre-insulin, low-carb diabetic diet, and the
ketogenic (low carb) diets for epileptics show that survival is
possible. However, these extreme diets have many side-effects including
vitamin deficiency, risk of kidney stones, pancreatitis, nausea,
vomiting and symptoms of starvation. So, although you can survive, you
can't survive very healthily and it's only really worth it if the
alternative is worse ie. Diabetes in the world before insulin or
epilepsy that doesn't respond to medication.

2. It is impossible to entirely avoid carbs as they are in every single
food we eat, so the statement is a moot point anyway.
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Wysong *~ - 23 Jan 2005 03:33 GMT
> >>> Can you give me some details about the studies you read that suggest
> >>> people don't need carbs please.
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> To say "people don't need carbs" is quite an exaggeration, although it
> could be true in the literal sense.

## It is true!  You're body, just like an Eskimos, has the ability to remove
one nitrogen atom from the protein molecule to make all it's own carbs.  I
think I remembered that sequence right.  I read the articles almost 3 years
ago.  I did a lot of research before I started the Atkins-type diet in July
of 2001.

> Strictly speaking there are two problems with that statement:

> 1. It is possible to survive without more than trace carbohydrate -
> studies into the old pre-insulin, low-carb diabetic diet, and the
> ketogenic (low carb) diets for epileptics show that survival is
> possible.

## Keep in mind that even the low-carb diets allow some carbs.  You get them
from the greens and low-carb veggies you do eat.  If your body needs MORE
carbs it simply converts some protein to make what it needs.

However, these extreme diets have many side-effects including
> vitamin deficiency, risk of kidney stones, pancreatitis, nausea,
> vomiting and symptoms of starvation.

##  You're talking long-term *extreme* diets which the low-carb diets are
not.  Keep that in mind. According to what the NYTimes article reported last
year there was no mention of the problems you mention above.  Have you
checked the low-carb chats or NG?

So, although you can survive, you
> can't survive very healthily and it's only really worth it if the
> alternative is worse ie. Diabetes in the world before insulin or
> epilepsy that doesn't respond to medication.

##  Again, I remind you that low-carb diets are NOT no-carb diets.  :-)))

> 2. It is impossible to entirely avoid carbs as they are in every single
> food we eat, so the statement is a moot point anyway.

## Exactly!  Even a cup of spinach has a few carbs.

> Anna H.
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Brenda Hammond - 22 Jan 2005 04:22 GMT
Go Ray!

>>> Can you give me some details about the studies you read that suggest
>>> people don't need carbs please.
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>
> Ray
Wysong *~ - 23 Jan 2005 03:26 GMT
> >> Can you give me some details about the studies you read that suggest
> >> people don't need carbs please.
> >
> >## Please see almost any website concerning low-carb diets.
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> You keep telling others to stop saying that water helps weight loss
> 'cos there's no science behind it - so you come up with the papers
> that prove your points or shut up.

## Maybe you need to so some research for yourself or SHUT UP!  Websites
about carbs abound.  You don't need someone to do it for you!

Next you'll be claiming the Eskimos were secretly having carbs delivered by
helicopter over the centuries.  LOL!!!   :-)
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Miss Violette - 24 Jan 2005 14:09 GMT
Ray you are my hero, Lee
> >> Can you give me some details about the studies you read that suggest
> >> people don't need carbs please.
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> 2002 1.8i eternal red
Miss Violette - 21 Jan 2005 15:12 GMT
Sorry I resent being told I lack self control in this manner, some of us
have medical issues, some of us have never been educated and some of us have
emotional issues connected with food. Lee, not meaning to be rude but this
is just too negative for me today

> > I've started measuring this to get a better feel for whether I am really
> > hungry or not.
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Wysong *~ - 21 Jan 2005 18:30 GMT
> Sorry I resent being told I lack self control in this manner,

##  Sorry,  but I resent being accused of specifically accusing *YOU* of
lack of self-control.  I don't go shopping with you nor do I know what's in
your fridge and kitchen cabinets.  For all I know you live in salads.

some of us
> have medical issues,

## My dear Miss Violette, there are no medical issues that cause a need to
overeat empty calorie junk-food or grease laden foods.

some of us have never been educated and some of us have
> emotional issues connected with food.

##  I find it hard to believe that anyone living where there are computer
connections to the Internet is unaware that junk-food and fast-food is
fattening and unhealthy.  This information is on TV all the time.  Surely
you have a TV.  I know some people have emotional issues where food is
concerned.  That too is on TV all the time.  It comes down to the individual
themselves as to whether they REALLY want to lose the weight or continue
over-eating.  Do you ever watch Dr. Phil?

Lee, not meaning to be rude but this
> is just too negative for me today

## Why is the truth negative???  What's wrong with, and so hard to
understand about portion control?   Isn't that what WW is all about?
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Willow - 22 Jan 2005 03:08 GMT
Hey Lee ! How's the weather in the midwest ?

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> Sorry I resent being told I lack self control in this manner, some of us
> have medical issues, some of us have never been educated and some of us have
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Fred - 22 Jan 2005 04:06 GMT
Well, it was 60F again in Seattle today and here's what one of the
humorous tv-weatherman posted on their website today:

"As temperatures soared to another 60 degree January day Friday, it
might make you shake your head at the irony that Jan. 21 will probably
end up being a better day to have a backyard barbecue than either July
4th or Labor Day this year :)"

Too bad he is right - July 4th has been in the 50's on occasion!!!!
As a matter of fact, I should send that to my sister who froze her
buns off one 4th of July when the high that day was 54F and she was
visiting from Tucson!!! (G)


>Hey Lee ! How's the weather in the midwest ?
Willow - 22 Jan 2005 07:14 GMT
Hey I'm in the Bay area... 2 years in San Francisco.. I've seen wearing my
leather jacket over a thick sweater in July.. and I'm Canadian.. from the
east where all the snow is... Last 4th of July was our last "on the bay" and
we didn't go cause it was just too cold..

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> Well, it was 60F again in Seattle today and here's what one of the
> humorous tv-weatherman posted on their website today:
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>
> >Hey Lee ! How's the weather in the midwest ?
Miss Violette - 24 Jan 2005 14:22 GMT
brrr to those July temps.  Lee
> Well, it was 60F again in Seattle today and here's what one of the
> humorous tv-weatherman posted on their website today:
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>
> >Hey Lee ! How's the weather in the midwest ?
Miss Violette - 24 Jan 2005 14:21 GMT
very cold, last 2 days have been wind advisories, Lee, not believing the
weather guy who alleges it will warm up today
> Hey Lee ! How's the weather in the midwest ?
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Miss Violette - 21 Jan 2005 14:55 GMT
I am sure this is one of my major issues, I do not feel the physical effects
of food nearly as soon as others, Lee
> I've started measuring this to get a better feel for whether I am really
> hungry or not.
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>
> doug
Wysong *~ - 21 Jan 2005 18:38 GMT
> I am sure this is one of my major issues, I do not feel the physical effects
> of food nearly as soon as others, Lee
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At the WW meetings you will learn how *MUCH* food  you need, so feeling full
wont be and issue.  (Going by our appetite alone we would probably all be
obese on the typical hi-carb/high-fat diet of today.)   For example when I
cook I fill my plate with all MEASURED portions, i.e. one fillet of
whitefish, 1/2 cup pinto beans and 3/4s cup spinach/1tsp butter.  It's so
easy!  Then I don't go back for seconds or leftovers.  If you have leftovers
flush them down your toilet or feed then to your dog.

My dinner runs 8 to 10 Pts.
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