but I just had the strangest idea...
Troll's trill is to start up conversations that are going to get people
upset.. then they sit back and enjoy the firework..
So, at the risk of stating the obvious, if you ignore trolls and their
obviously inflamatory/insulting/annoying comments, there won't be any "flame
fest/fireworks" to watch.. they'll get bored.. and they'll move on...
I don't mind a troll every now and then.. some of them even have a brain and
a certain sense of humor.. I've even made friend out of some of them in the
past..
What I find much more annoying is the people who waste time feeding them
getting upset and outraged.. and take upon themselves to "set them
straight"... which 1- Give the troll exactly what they want, encouraging
them to keep it up and even to invite friends along, and 2- annoy the h..
out of everybody else..
So either killfile or ignore or joke around or whatever.. but quit taking
this so seriously... life's too short to waste it arguing with someone who
is just out to get you upset..
Please..

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and how. I usually find myself having to say something then it is pretty
easy to shut up and ignore them. Most of them have very little wit actually,
so they are not particularly interesting as a whole. Like you say, the
occasional bored but intelligent psycho is kind of fun to argue with if you
have lots of time, but I never do any more.

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Sounds like a good plan to me but sometimes it takes a bit of interacting
with the newcomer before we determine he/she could be a troll.
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Willow - 20 Feb 2005 05:29 GMT
I try very hard to ignore anybody who annoys/irritate me.. troll or no..
I've found that it avoids a lot of troubles..
Trolls are a fact of life on any public forum.. like mosquitoes at a BBQ..
the more you try to get rid of them, the more they crowd you...

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> Sounds like a good plan to me but sometimes it takes a bit of interacting
> with the newcomer before we determine he/she could be a troll.
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Lipgloss Junkie - 20 Feb 2005 20:44 GMT
I wholeheartedly agree that it's hard not to 'feed the trolls' but it's
best to ignore them.
Doing a quick search of the person's previous posts will tell you
whether they're trolls. Do they crosspost the same thing to multiple
newsgroups? Does their username have no posting history? Have they had
multiple usernames with the same email addy? Chances are they're a
troll!
It's fun to feel like you've 'busted' a troll by checking previous
posts. And then don't be goaded into responding to them, as difficult
as this can be!
I also feel the same way about spammers trying to sell anything we
don't need.
Cheers,
Melanie
There are a couple of problems with the usual "ignore the troll and
he'll go away" advice:
1. People won't, no matter how much you say it, because there are always
people joining the group, people who don't recognise the troll for being
a troll etc. Even "multiple personality" trolls posing as other people
to argue with themselves!
2. Trolls sometimes deliberately make statements that unwary people can
believe and be upset by if those statements aren't challenged. For
instance, trolling on this group by saying "Carbs are bad for you" or
"WW's is useless and harmful".
3. By ignoring a troll who is being deliberately offensive, say racist,
sexist or whatever, you could be apparently condoning bigotry by saying
nothing. I would hate for a person of colour to join the group and come
across a racist troll, for instance, and see no one taking any notice. I
personally have been in this situation, not with racism but with
disablism and it can be akin to walking by in real life.
4. Most trolls are by nature very lacking in empathy and insensitive to
their effects on people. This means they can be very cruel without
caring, but also means they don't necessarily realise when no one's
biting. You could ignore then until the cows come home, but they don't
necessarily learn from it!
One troll on an autism group I'm on spent literally months involving
himself in pedantic discussions about semantics (high functioning
autistics can be particularly good at being entirely logical and totally
unemotional about things they're discussing - to a robotic degree!).
Someone finally found out who he was in real life (a pathetic,
friendless, computer student with fewer social skills than most
autistics) and discovered he imagined he'd been *upsetting* everyone for
months! Meanwhile, what everyone had actually been doing is having a
blooming good laugh at his expense and congratulating themselves on how
clever they were being. He never picked up on that, however, even though
no one was the slightest bit subtle about it.
Of course, once we knew who he was and understood his modus operandi, no
one could be bothered discussing things with him any more and we all
kill-filled him. He still posts on a regular basis. Still thinks he's
been so upsetting, I'm sure, and occasionally actually does get to some
newbie who hasn't been warned.
I used to agree with you and tried to encourage other people to ignore
trolls, but after 15 years online, I've concluded that strategy does not
work.
So, what are the alternatives? I believe you can challenge the troll but
the trick is to remain cool and not get emotional about it, or get
personal. What trolls want is for everyone to argue and fall out - one
of the reasons this slimming group is less prone to bad trolls than
other slimming groups is that people generally get on and are supportive
of one another. Other than that, treat trolls like flies - annoying, but
mostly harmless, as long as you keep them off your food!
I for one (a) can't spot a troll even when he's sitting under a bridge
trying to lure billygoats (b) believe in the adage "All it takes for
evil to triumph is for a good man to do nothing".
Besides, I'm a pragmatist: If you can't beat 'em, join 'em. Just don't
take them too seriously - mostly they're pathetic runts who need to get
a life.

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Willow - 23 Feb 2005 04:02 GMT
I've been online for over 10 years myself and seen lots and lots of trolls..
and many different responses to them..
All I can say is... Good luck..
*grin*

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> There are a couple of problems with the usual "ignore the troll and
> he'll go away" advice:
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> take them too seriously - mostly they're pathetic runts who need to get
> a life.