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Tayra - 02 Sep 2005 22:23 GMT
DH got a call about 8am today: the FAA needs people to work their
buildings around New Orleans, and since he works one of the FAA
contracts here in Houston, the contracting company asked if he'd be
willing to go over there and help out.  So of course he said yes.

He had to drop out of college this morning.  Came back home, packed up
90% of his clothes and a truckload of equipment and supplies, and took
off.  They said it'll be six weeks, maybe longer.

I've actually never lived on my own.  I've got a friend or two who can
take me to my weekly meetings, or I can grab a cab; I've got no car of
my own.  We're not sure yet how we'll manage his paychecks: I need the
money to pay the bills, but they're made out to him, and I can't deposit
them without his signature, which I can't get if he's in Louisiana.

So I dunno.  I don't really have anything to say, I'm just pacing around
trying to figure out what to do.  I've never had to survive on my own
before, without a car or a roommate or anything.  At least I don't have
a regular daily job to find a way to get to.  Mostly I'm just nervous.

Thank god I can't eat when I'm upset, I guess.

-Tay
Kate Dicey - 02 Sep 2005 23:11 GMT
> DH got a call about 8am today: the FAA needs people to work their
> buildings around New Orleans, and since he works one of the FAA
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>
> -Tay

Erk!  Don't they pay him directly into the account?  Here's hoping they
get it sorted!

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Tayra - 02 Sep 2005 23:34 GMT
> Erk!  Don't they pay him directly into the account?

This company doesn't do direct deposit.  Never has, never plans to.  It
bugs the living daylights out of us, especially when the paychecks are
late, but no argument will convince them; they just don't want to.

He's gonna ask em if they will, *please*, so I can have money, but given
it'd be work on their part, I doubt they will.  So, no telling what'll
happen.

We'll find out within two weeks, anyway; that's when the next check's due.

-Tay
Willow - 03 Sep 2005 00:15 GMT
My husband once made an arrangement with his bank so that I could deposit
his paycheck and get the money when he went for surgery.. maybe you can make
such an arrangement..

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> > Erk!  Don't they pay him directly into the account?
>
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>
> -Tay
Tayra - 03 Sep 2005 03:48 GMT
> My husband once made an arrangement with his bank so that I could deposit
> his paycheck and get the money when he went for surgery.. maybe you can make
> such an arrangement..

Yeah, thought of that, called the bank.  They said they might've been
able to work it, if he'd come in in advance and signed some paperwork,
but if he's already gone, there's nothing they can do.  And he
wouldn't've had time today anyway to go sit in a bank for an hour and
fill out forms; found out at 8am, was heading out of town by 2pm.  So
they can't help me.

Just have to wait and see what the company can come up with, if they can
put my name on them, or maybe one of the other employees who can sign a
check over to me.  Something, anyway, even if they mail him his check
there, he signs it, then mails it to me here.  Wait and see what they
decide.

-Tay
Willow - 04 Sep 2005 05:58 GMT
Oh :o(

Hope it works out ! let us know !

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> > My husband once made an arrangement with his bank so that I could deposit
> > his paycheck and get the money when he went for surgery.. maybe you can make
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>
> -Tay
Miss Violette - 12 Sep 2005 12:27 GMT
go to an attorney have him draw up a power of attorney for his money then
send and let him sign, bank I think has to recognize that, Lee

> > My husband once made an arrangement with his bank so that I could deposit
> > his paycheck and get the money when he went for surgery.. maybe you can make
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>
> -Tay
Charlene Charette - 03 Sep 2005 04:50 GMT
> take me to my weekly meetings, or I can grab a cab; I've got no car of
> my own.  We're not sure yet how we'll manage his paychecks: I need the
> money to pay the bills, but they're made out to him, and I can't deposit
> them without his signature, which I can't get if he's in Louisiana.

Does the account you're depositing into have his name on it?  As long as
the check is made out to him and is being deposited in his account,
rather than cashed, there shouldn't be a problem.  For years, before we
had direct deposit, I signed my husband's name to the back of the check
and put it into our joint account.

--Charlene

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Tayra - 03 Sep 2005 04:56 GMT
> Does the account you're depositing into have his name on it?

Oh yeah, it's a joint account.  If the check were made out to either of
us, either of us could sign it, but if it's just him, then it's his
signature they need.  The girl actually asked the chief supervisor
person to make sure.  I could sign it all I like but they couldn't
accept it that way.

She did tell me I could deposit it myself at any convenient ATM, as long
as he'd signed it first, since it's a joint account :P

-Tay
Kate Dicey - 03 Sep 2005 08:17 GMT
>> Does the account you're depositing into have his name on it?
>
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>
> -Tay

Maybe he could sign it and deposit it where he is, then.  I can deposit
a cheque anywhere in the world that there's a branch of my bank with an ATM.

I have to say that it does seem odd that your husband is still being
paid by cheque...  My dad's salary was paid into his account directly
nearly 50 years ago.  Mine teaching salary was never paid any other way,
and these days if I do sessional teaching for the local authority, it
still is.  Swapping over to that system would be a bit of work to set
up, but once done, it would be very labour-saving and cost effective.
The only time I get paid by cheque these days is for private work.

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Deb in Northern California - 03 Sep 2005 16:43 GMT
Kate,

Direct Deposit is not something that most companies want as the money comes
out of their bank account right away with no "float"time.  The employers are
playing the float game with other peoples money.  It is sad, but it is the
mentality of a lot of smaller businesses.  There is also a small fee
involved in the process that is passed on to the employer.  In today's age
of electronic banking, that float time is very minimal if not even non
existent, so there is no reason to not have it now, other than the cost that
is involved that the bank charges.

Debbie

>>> Does the account you're depositing into have his name on it?
>>
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> done, it would be very labour-saving and cost effective. The only time I
> get paid by cheque these days is for private work.
Tayra - 03 Sep 2005 17:35 GMT
> Maybe he could sign it and deposit it where he is, then.  I can deposit
> a cheque anywhere in the world that there's a branch of my bank with an
> ATM.

Yeah, that's an option.

Assuming he can find a working ATM in New Orleans, and assuming the post
still goes through.

-Tay
Deb in Northern California - 03 Sep 2005 16:46 GMT
Tayra,

Trust me the bank does not check his signature against a signature card for
endorsements.  Just sign it and deposit it at the ATM and you should be
good.  I have done this for years at my bank.  There is way too many
deposits going through to check every one against a signature card.

I have deposited many checks without even endorsing them on the back and
have never had a problem.  As long as the name on the check matches the name
on the account you should be fine.  Just don't say anything and they will
not know the difference.

ATM banking is the way to go, so as to avoid the face to face with this and
also, the ATM clerk that is processing what is put in there will not bother
to check either.

Debbie

>> Does the account you're depositing into have his name on it?
>
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>
> -Tay
Tayra - 03 Sep 2005 17:32 GMT
> Tayra,
>
> Trust me the bank does not check his signature against a signature card for
> endorsements.  Just sign it and deposit it at the ATM and you should be
> good.  I have done this for years at my bank.  There is way too many
> deposits going through to check every one against a signature card.

I did think of attempting to fake his signature.  I've even tried it a
couple times.  I think I'd be ok with it if I got even remotely close,
but there's no way I can manage to duplicate his .. very interesting
writing style.  I suppose if worse comes to worst I can just trace over
something else he's signed, then ink it in.  It's a common forging
method.  I'm just not sure how much legal trouble I'd be tempting if I
did it.

-Tay
Willow - 04 Sep 2005 06:01 GMT
I don't even come close to my husband handwritting and I write check and
sign them on his account (with his permission !!!) all the time..  even made
one for the downpayment of my car.. 1000$.. keep joking with him that I
could skin him alive if I wanted to..

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> > Tayra,
> >
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>
> -Tay
Miss Violette - 12 Sep 2005 12:33 GMT
my mom says if my dad ever did sign another check the fraud police would
comehunting him she has signed for him for so long, Lee
> Tayra,
>
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> >
> > -Tay
Miss Violette - 12 Sep 2005 12:29 GMT
DH just puts ours in the night deposit if I am not there to sign, and then
the next day writes one for cash if he needs to, Lee

> > take me to my weekly meetings, or I can grab a cab; I've got no car of
> > my own.  We're not sure yet how we'll manage his paychecks: I need the
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>
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Deb in Northern California - 03 Sep 2005 16:38 GMT
Tayra,

You can deposit his checks into the bank account without his signature.  You
can write on the back "For Deposit Only to Account #XXXXXXX"  I do banking
for most of our employees at the office and not a one endorses their own
check.  As long as you have the account number and the name on that account
matches the name on the check it can be deposited.  Now if you want to
withdraw funds when you deposit the check that would be an issue.  As long
as you are also on the account you should be able to deposit the checks and
then make a separate withdrawal.

Debbie

> DH got a call about 8am today: the FAA needs people to work their
> buildings around New Orleans, and since he works one of the FAA contracts
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>
> -Tay
Miss Violette - 12 Sep 2005 12:24 GMT
you will do fine, and we are here, see I am answering you even though I am a
week behind, and if you need to email me with your phone number and I can
call you, I have singular cell service, so no long distance, Lee
> DH got a call about 8am today: the FAA needs people to work their
> buildings around New Orleans, and since he works one of the FAA
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>
> -Tay
 
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