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doug lerner - 07 May 2007 04:03 GMT
Well, I've been on my diet 700 days now without going off even once.

The good news is that I've lost and kept off about 42 kg = 92 lb. Also
I feel great and I'm wearing normal clothes sizes, etc. Neighbors
often do a double-take and say they didn't recognize me at first.

The frustrating news is that my weight has hovered around 83-84 kg for
months now and that I am actually a few kilograms heavier than my low
beginning-of-the-year weight of 79.8 kg and just can't seem to lose
any more weight lately.

I would really like to lose another 10-20 lb because I'm still
overweight.

Anyway, just sticking to things as best I can...

doug
ahmward - 07 May 2007 04:54 GMT
> Well, I've been on my diet 700 days now without going off even once.
>
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>
> doug

That is such a huge accomplishment.  As far as the next 10 pounds, I can
tell you it is really tough.  I hover near goal but when I just don't
eat any extra points or processed foods, lo and behold the scale
suprises me and goes down.  It can be so hard but as long as you
continue as you have, it should come off.

Audrey
doug lerner - 07 May 2007 05:31 GMT
There are two thoughts that I bounce back and forth between that seem
somewhat contradictory:

(1) If I am just 10% overweight, I should need to just reduce my
current caloric intake by 10% and eventually I'll be 10% lighter. In
that case, instead of eating 1700 calories/day I should be able to
reduce that to 1530 calories/day and eventually lose 8.3 kg = 18 lb,
which would be just fine.

(2) If I am maintaining my weight at 83 kg and want to lose just 1 lb/
week I need to reduce my weekly calories by 3500 - which comes to 500
calories less per day (!) which means I should be eating just 1200
calories/day. I don't think I can do that long-term.

Possibly there is no contraction and (1) is true it is just that
"eventually" might not be within my lifetime. :)

doug
Zilbandy - 07 May 2007 06:50 GMT
>(2) If I am maintaining my weight at 83 kg and want to lose just 1 lb/
>week I need to reduce my weekly calories by 3500 - which comes to 500
>calories less per day (!) which means I should be eating just 1200
>calories/day. I don't think I can do that long-term.

That's not quite true. Reducing your calorie intake by 500 calories a
day will result in a weight loss of 1 pound a week, but you don't have
to do it forever. What you should do, in my opinion is just reduce
your calorie intake by 100 calories a day. That will result in about a
pound a month. Do that for the next year and you'll have lost that
extra 10 pounds.

It sounds like you've had good luck for almost 2 years now, and that
is GREAT! Just 50 calories a day less would result in your being at
your goal within 2 more years. That's a very obtainable goal in my
opinion. Cut out a half a slice of bread a day, and you're practically
there.

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Stormmee - 07 May 2007 07:03 GMT
what about cutting 50 calories a day until you are comfortable with that
then another set to see what happens, Lee
> There are two thoughts that I bounce back and forth between that seem
> somewhat contradictory:
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> doug
doug lerner - 07 May 2007 13:58 GMT
> what about cutting 50 calories a day until you are comfortable with that
> then another set to see what happens,

That sounds very reasonable. I am really paranoid about "tweaking"
anything, but that sounds very reasonable.

doug
Stormmee - 07 May 2007 17:00 GMT
if I have learned one thing its that nothing I do this week will make me
wake up at my top weight this week, small changes is how I lost it.  if you
cut the calories and it freaks you out you can always add them back, let us
know how it goes, Lee
> > what about cutting 50 calories a day until you are comfortable with that
> > then another set to see what happens,
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> doug
Laura - 07 May 2007 18:00 GMT
Your fear of tweaking needs to be overcome. Getting down to goal and
learning to eat right is a life time learning process. You have to be
willing to make changes along the way. Once you get to goal the hard part
only starts. Learn to make the changes now. I like Lee's philosophy-don't
make a change unless it is something you can live with for the rest of your
life.

Look at what you are eating. Start looking for more ways to further reduce
your calorie intake. Swap out a beef meal for a chicken or fish. Swap a
fruit for a veggie. Look at your snacks and replace one with a fruit or
veggie if you are having a cake-like treat. Look for lower calorie brands of
the foods you like. Swap out starchy veggies (beans/potato) for leafy ones.
Cut back on sauces and condiments. Cut back on the number of times you eat
out. Little things like that should not freak you out but will help towards
getting the scale moving again.

Another suggestion....look at your meals. Are you having the same breakfast
every day? My leader is a firm believer that our bodies get used to where
our calories come from. Have a different breakfast every day. Develop a list
of breakfasts and alternate them. Keep your body guessing.

>> what about cutting 50 calories a day until you are comfortable with that
>> then another set to see what happens,
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>
> doug
Doug Freyburger - 07 May 2007 19:08 GMT
> what about cutting 50 calories a day until you are comfortable with that
> then another set to see what happens

Or 100.  Now that Doug is well into his plan and it has worked
well it's no longer time to attempt big changes.

In computers there are joke words frob, twiddle and tweak.  If
you see someone twisting dials because it looks like it's fun,
that's frobbing.  If you see someone turning the dial and it looks
like they are hunting for stations, that's twiddling.  If you seen
someone making tiny little adjustments on a knob and checking
to see if the change had any effect, that tweaking.

It's time for some tweaking Doug.  Step out in faith - No small
change is going to be a problem.

I see an effort-reward trade-off.  When I was in my losing phase
I made it to 10 pounds from goal and stalled.  Reading around
it was clear that careful calorie control would be needed to get
lower.  I decided the work involved meant more to me than
those extra 10 pounds.  I was already down 40 at the time and
felt great so I declared maintenance.

So suggest trying 100 less per day.  See if it triggers much more
hunger.  See if it triggers a gradual decline in weight.  No hunger,
maybe try another 100 next month.  No weight, maybe try another
100 next month.  Yes to both, figure your effort and your reward ...

Also consider that your current calorie intake doesn't have to be
your maintenance intake.  More calories doesn't always mean
more stable weight.  There is some sized range of intake calories
that all end up the same weight.  No idea what that range is for
any one person but it's not 50 calories per day.
doug lerner - 08 May 2007 04:34 GMT
Thanks people. I shall take a leap of faith into a small calorie
reduction and see what happens...

Also, as Laura suggested, I am re-examining my daily meals for
substitutions and variety. In fact, I do eat almost the same breakfast
every day. And lunch. And dinner.

doug
Stormmee - 08 May 2007 05:01 GMT
good for you!!!  Lee
> Thanks people. I shall take a leap of faith into a small calorie
> reduction and see what happens...
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>
> doug
Cynthia P - 07 May 2007 09:33 GMT
> There are two thoughts that I bounce back and forth between that seem
> somewhat contradictory:
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>
> doug

Cutting calories too low can get tough... any chance you can up your
activity level somewhat and see what that does? If that doesn't help,
then you could cut the calories a little.

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Stormmee - 07 May 2007 07:00 GMT
it may take time but you will get there, How do I know? because I know I
will get there, Lee
> Well, I've been on my diet 700 days now without going off even once.
>
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>
> doug
RCE - 07 May 2007 21:06 GMT
> Well, I've been on my diet 700 days now without going off even once.
>
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>
> doug

Something to consider:

I recently had a physical after losing 65 lbs.  I had gone from 260 to 195
lbs.
According to all the "charts" I am still 10-12 lbs over the ideal weight for
my height.

The doc did all the bloodwork stuff and the results indicated that all the
stuff they check for including sugar, cholesterol and my blood pressure were
perfect.

He told me to forget about losing any more weight.  When I mentioned the
ideal weight charts he told me that a better measure is the blood work
results and there was no reason or anything to be gained by losing more and,
in fact, I could screw things up by dropping more.

RCE
Del Cecchi - 07 May 2007 21:10 GMT
>>Well, I've been on my diet 700 days now without going off even once.
>>
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>
> RCE

Or one could have their bodyfat measured to see if it was in a
satisfactory range.   Or one could ask if their appearance and physical
abilities were satisfactory in addition to blood chemistry and other
medical parameters.

Or, what makes you say you are still overweight?  BMI chart?

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doug lerner - 08 May 2007 04:36 GMT
> Or, what makes you say you are still overweight?  BMI chart?

That. And a decidedly flabby stomach with still lots of visible
overhang. Though "loose skin", I'm happy to say, really has shrunken a
lot!

doug
Gary G - 08 May 2007 00:02 GMT
I wonder how losing more could screw things up?...Doctors say the strangest
things...So much "opinion"is often espoused as fact...If in fact the
additional loss makes you happy then there is something to be gained...If on
the other hand you have an unhealthy view of your body then I guess the
statement holds true...GG

>> Well, I've been on my diet 700 days now without going off even once.
>>
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>
> RCE
Willow Herself - 08 May 2007 00:09 GMT
Agreed, weight itself is only a number though... that's not what really
matters...

It's all about how you feel, how healthy you are, how you like your look...
etc..

Will~

>I wonder how losing more could screw things up?...Doctors say the strangest
>things...So much "opinion"is often espoused as fact...If in fact the
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>> RCE
dkw12002@yahoo.com - 08 May 2007 01:37 GMT
> I wonder how losing more could screw things up?...Doctors say the strangest
> things...So much "opinion"is often espoused as fact...If in fact the
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Right. There are a lot of people with good blood work who are way
overweight, too, so that doesn't even seem to be a good reason to not
lose more weight. The medical ranges (based on longevity) for weight
is what the doctor should be looking at, and perhaps he is if you are
already in that range. Still, YOUR opinion is most important if it is
still within the medical range for healthy weight.

If I were down to eating fewer than 1800 calories and still not losing
weight, I would increase the exercise a little. The weight you
regained is perhaps muscle, too, so that isn't necessarily a bad
thing. Under 1400 calories would really be restrictive. You could do
it of course, but it might be torture, and everybody, including
sedentary old people need about 1600 cal. to sustain themselves.

I really like what you said about not straying from your diet even
once. To me, that is the key. I also NEVER overeat, although lots of
people seem to be able to do it and then have to make up for the
splurge. It simply would not be worth it to me. I went from 230 lbs.
to 133 and have kept it off for nearly 3 years now...and I also put on
a little weight which was muscle, but I'm happy with that. I eat 1700
cal a day, but I am only 5'8". I exercise moderately 6X a week. During
my weight loss, I did eat as few as 1300 cal a day, but can't really
recommend that as a good way to go. I like the suggestion of eating
just 50 cal fewer plus perhaps a little more exercise as a better way,
since you are already ALMOST where you want to be. Good luck. dkw
Chris Braun - 08 May 2007 03:05 GMT
>... and everybody, including
>sedentary old people need about 1600 cal. to sustain themselves.

I'm not sure where you get your data.  I've been told by nursing home
nutritionists -- and this is corroborated by BMR calculators -- that a
small, sedentary elderly woman (like my late mother) needs about
1000-1100 calories per day to sustain life.

My maintenance level is about 1600 calories per day.  I am hardly
sedentary; I exercise almost every day -- either running 3 miles or so
or lifting (as heavy as I can) plus yoga.  And at 59 I do not consider
myself "old".

Chris
262/130s/130s
started dieting July 2002, maintaining since June 2004
Willow Herself - 08 May 2007 03:38 GMT
Chris, old isn't about age... it's about physical ability and attitude..

one thing's sure you're not old! You make me tired everytime I read your
daily activity!

;op

Will~

>>... and everybody, including
>>sedentary old people need about 1600 cal. to sustain themselves.
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> 262/130s/130s
> started dieting July 2002, maintaining since June 2004
RCE - 08 May 2007 09:34 GMT
> Right. There are a lot of people with good blood work who are way
> overweight, too, so that doesn't even seem to be a good reason to not
> lose more weight. The medical ranges (based on longevity) for weight
> is what the doctor should be looking at, and perhaps he is if you are
> already in that range. Still, YOUR opinion is most important if it is
> still within the medical range for healthy weight.

You are confusing the issue.  Who said anything about being "way
overweight"?

The OP was saying that although he (she) had lost a good amount of weight,
he (she) would still like to lose another 10 lbs or so but was having
difficulty getting it off.   I was offering an example of my personal,
similar experience.  In my case the doctor pointed out that the need to lose
weight is both obvious (appearance) but is also usually indicated by the
excess weight's affect on your general health and other factors like blood
sugar levels, cholesterol and blood pressure/heart rate.  When I mentioned
to him that, according to the current ideal weight tables I was still 10-12
lbs or so overweight, his comment was that all my readings and results were
"excellent" and that there was no medical reason or benefit to be gained by
losing more.  He's also aware that I exercise daily.  He specifically said,
"You don't need to lose anymore weight".

RCE
Eddie-Type2 - 08 May 2007 00:30 GMT
Congrats Doug - you're an inspiration to me.  So glad you are still posting
here.

Eddie
Weight June05-359.0lbs
Current Weight-291.2lbs
Loss to date=67.8lbs
Goal Weight-180.0lbs

Well, I've been on my diet 700 days now without going off even once.

The good news is that I've lost and kept off about 42 kg = 92 lb. Also
I feel great and I'm wearing normal clothes sizes, etc. Neighbors
often do a double-take and say they didn't recognize me at first.

The frustrating news is that my weight has hovered around 83-84 kg for
months now and that I am actually a few kilograms heavier than my low
beginning-of-the-year weight of 79.8 kg and just can't seem to lose
any more weight lately.

I would really like to lose another 10-20 lb because I'm still
overweight.

Anyway, just sticking to things as best I can...

doug
doug lerner - 08 May 2007 04:36 GMT
> Congrats Doug - you're an inspiration to me.  So glad you are still posting
> here.
>
> Eddie

Eddie! I've been thinking about you and glad to see you are posting
too. How are things going?

doug
Eddie-Type2 - 08 May 2007 13:19 GMT
Things are well Doug, glad you've been thinking about me.  I will post more
in the other thread.  It's really good to hear from you!

Eddie
Weight June05-359.0lbs
Current Weight-291.2lbs
Loss to date=67.8lbs
Goal Weight-180.0lbs

On May 8, 8:30 am, "Eddie-Type2" <eddies(-)draft...@cogeco.ca> wrote:
> Congrats Doug - you're an inspiration to me.  So glad you are still posting
> here.
>
> Eddie

Eddie! I've been thinking about you and glad to see you are posting
too. How are things going?

doug
 
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