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Ignoramus21909 - 10 Mar 2004 21:26 GMT
If you knew, with complete certainty, that you will die in 3 months,
would you give up your diet and eat anything you want in any quentity
you want?

My answer: yes

i
Jayjay - 10 Mar 2004 21:33 GMT
>If you knew, with complete certainty, that you will die in 3 months,
>would you give up your diet and eat anything you want in any quentity
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
>i

I'd say yes too.   Although for me, with my type of eating habits,
that wouldn't change a whole lot if I gave up my "diet".
Ignoramus21909 - 10 Mar 2004 21:36 GMT
>>If you knew, with complete certainty, that you will die in 3 months,
>>would you give up your diet and eat anything you want in any quentity
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> I'd say yes too.   Although for me, with my type of eating habits,
> that wouldn't change a whole lot if I gave up my "diet".  

Same here. I would, for the most part, simply eat more.

i
Jayjay - 10 Mar 2004 22:25 GMT
>>>If you knew, with complete certainty, that you will die in 3 months,
>>>would you give up your diet and eat anything you want in any quentity
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
>
>i

I don't think I'd necessarily eat more.  If I'm satisfied at the level
I'm at now, then why change it.

Essentially it breaks down to - no, I probably wouldn't change my
eating habits because I'm happy with those habits I have.

But, the thing would be that where I might not indulge in a dessert
every nigth now, as I know that in the long run it would cause weight
gain, if I were going to die in 3 months, I wouldn't be as worried
about long term weight gain and if I felt like dessert, I'd eat it.  

Its kinda like my recent vacation.  The difference I made while on a 3
week vacation was that I found I was eating 3 square meals a day
(larger breakfast and lunch than usual) but at the same time I was
much mroe physically active too.  The result was a 5lb gain in 3
weeks.  In the grand scheme of things, I'm not too worried.  

I indulged in sweets when I felt like.  But ya know - all the food was
available whenever I wanted it, and its not like I found I was a total
glutton and ate everything that was available.    At breakfast, even
though donuts and muffins and sweets and fatty foods were available,
my usual choice was:
a small bowl of fiber cereal w/ some yogurt (instead of milk).
an english muffin w/ butter and jam.

Whereas at home, I usually wouldn't have the english muffin.  
I could have had pancakes and waffles and french toast and eggs
benedict, and sausage, and bacon, and you name it!
~Deb~ - 11 Mar 2004 01:24 GMT
> >If you knew, with complete certainty, that you will die in 3 months,
> >would you give up your diet and eat anything you want in any quentity
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> I'd say yes too.   Although for me, with my type of eating habits,
> that wouldn't change a whole lot if I gave up my "diet".

YES   YES   YES
janice - 11 Mar 2004 09:18 GMT
I don't know that I'd go into a binge mode as there'd be so many other
things I'd be trying to fit in.
However, I think I'd probably eat all my favourite foods, without
having to worry about longer term effects on my body so without regard
to fat or sugar content.
There's something of the "condemned man's last meal" about this.

janice
233/177/133

>>If you knew, with complete certainty, that you will die in 3 months,
>>would you give up your diet and eat anything you want in any quentity
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>I'd say yes too.   Although for me, with my type of eating habits,
>that wouldn't change a whole lot if I gave up my "diet".
JMA - 12 Mar 2004 00:39 GMT
> I don't know that I'd go into a binge mode as there'd be so many other
> things I'd be trying to fit in.
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> janice
> 233/177/133

Interestingly enough there was a column about that very topic in today's
Chicago Sun Times -
http://www.suntimes.com/output/roeper/cst-nws-roep111.html

Jenn
Crafting Mom - 10 Mar 2004 21:42 GMT
> If you knew, with complete certainty, that you will die in 3 months,
> would you give up your diet and eat anything you want in any quentity
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
> i

I would not.  I feel good the way I am, and want to die feeling good.
Julianne - 10 Mar 2004 22:05 GMT
> If you knew, with complete certainty, that you will die in 3 months,
> would you give up your diet and eat anything you want in any quentity
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
> i

I would maybe eat more without regard to quantity but since I feel so badly
when my insulin levels are up and my sugar is low that I would not
substantially change my diet habits.

What I would do, though, is have a little fun with one of those highly
addictive illicit drugs that cuts short life.  Even if I got busted with
heroin, my trial date wouldn't be until after my death:)

j
Ignoramus21909 - 10 Mar 2004 22:07 GMT
>> If you knew, with complete certainty, that you will die in 3 months,
>> would you give up your diet and eat anything you want in any quentity
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
> addictive illicit drugs that cuts short life.  Even if I got busted with
> heroin, my trial date wouldn't be until after my death:)

A good thought about illegal drugs. I have never tried any, but I
would consider taking some, as well.

i
Jayjay - 10 Mar 2004 22:27 GMT
>>> If you knew, with complete certainty, that you will die in 3 months,
>>> would you give up your diet and eat anything you want in any quentity
>>> you want?

The more thought that goes into this, the more I'd have to say that -
if I only had 3 months to live, I'd be more concerned about my family
than silly things like food.
Ignoramus21909 - 11 Mar 2004 00:29 GMT
>>>> If you knew, with complete certainty, that you will die in 3 months,
>>>> would you give up your diet and eat anything you want in any quentity
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> if I only had 3 months to live, I'd be more concerned about my family
> than silly things like food.  

surely, yes, but that would not be as diet related.

i
MH - 11 Mar 2004 01:17 GMT
> > If you knew, with complete certainty, that you will die in 3 months,
> > would you give up your diet and eat anything you want in any quentity
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
>
> j

: )

Drink heavily.

Martha
OceanView - 10 Mar 2004 22:28 GMT
> If you knew, with complete certainty, that you will die in 3
> months, would you give up your diet and eat anything you want in
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
> i

A qualified "maybe"  I'd probably remove some restraints, but I find
that I feel better now than when I was indulging myself, and since
I'm going to run up a whopping credit card bill traveling the world,
I don't want to spend any of my last days sitting on the can!
Chris Braun - 11 Mar 2004 02:20 GMT
>If you knew, with complete certainty, that you will die in 3 months,
>would you give up your diet and eat anything you want in any quentity
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
>i

Well, I don't think I'd worry about calories, so in that sense the
answer is yes.  But I'm not sure eating would be a big focus for me in
that situation.  I think I'd have other priorities, and probably not a
lot of appetite.  For me, overeating has always been something I do to
celebrate and be happy, and I don't think I'd be in that frame of
mind.  I think it's more likely I'd end up losing weight.

Chris
beeswing - 11 Mar 2004 04:32 GMT
>If you knew, with complete certainty, that you will die in 3 months,
>would you give up your diet and eat anything you want in any quentity
>you want?
>
>My answer: yes

No. I'm perfectly happy with the way I'm eating now. (Oh, wait, I'm not on a
"diet"!)

beeswing
beeswing - 11 Mar 2004 15:55 GMT
I wrote:

>No. I'm perfectly happy with the way I'm eating now. (Oh, wait, I'm not on a
>"diet"!)

Come to think of it...I *would* probably eat more Girl Scout cookies. ;)

beeswing
Jayjay - 11 Mar 2004 16:50 GMT
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>
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>
>beeswing

LOL...  your posts made me laugh.

And, how are you doing these days, Bee?   Still hanging in on the
yoga?
beeswing - 12 Mar 2004 04:45 GMT
JayJay wrote:

>LOL...  your posts made me laugh.
>
>And, how are you doing these days, Bee?   Still hanging in on the
>yoga?

Yes, I have. I've been going to class once a week and practicing in bits and
pieces throughout the week. A few stretches or balancing exercises in the
ladies room are good for lessening the cramps I'd otherwise get from sitting in
from of a computer all day at work. I *skipped* class this week because I
wasn't feeling good, but overall I've been impressed with my own
stick-to-it-ative-ness. I wasn't sure I had it in me, when I started out. I
think the big things are that I enjoy the yoga, and I honestly do feel better
after doing it. I go to class with a stiff neck and come home feeling more
relaxed, yet invigorated.

I don't put much thought into what I eat, these days -- it's pretty much second
nature, now. The long "diet" stretch set me up with some good habits, and most
of them just keep going on their own volition with basically little to no
effort on my part. There are a few more pizzas and a few more cookies in my
WOE, these days, but I'm doing well overall. And I'm basically holding my own,
weightwise.

I'm happy at this weight, and I've been having fun with clothing and a bit of
makeup and such -- areas I previously neglected because on some level, I felt
like my appearance was beyond hope. I haven't worn a huge tee-shirt and a pair
of loose, elastic-waist pants in quite a while, for example. I catch a look at
myself in the mirror at times and am still surprised when I don't see the
overweight girl in the baggy clothes anymore. It's been taking some getting
used to. But it's fun!

Congratulations on your marriage, JayJay! And very best wishes. I hope
everything is going well for you.

Thanks for asking about me. :)

beeswing
Dally - 12 Mar 2004 05:39 GMT
> I'm happy at this weight, and I've been having fun with clothing and a bit of
> makeup and such -- areas I previously neglected because on some level, I felt
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> overweight girl in the baggy clothes anymore. It's been taking some getting
> used to. But it's fun!

You whole post was inspiring, but I particularly liked this part.  It's
great to hear you're doing so well!

Dally
beeswing - 12 Mar 2004 15:09 GMT
>You whole post was inspiring, but I particularly liked this part.  It's
>great to hear you're doing so well!

Thanks, Dally. I appreciate the support. :)

I forgot to mention...I even got a cute new haircut after years of wearing my
hair in the exact same (unflattering) style. And I bought a bottle of Chanel
fragrance I'd been longing for years (my mother wore it). I seem to be
redefining myself, both inside and out. Many of the changes are insignificant,
taken individually, but together they add up. On some levels, this has been a
real journey of self-discovery for me.

Best wishes,
beeswing
beeswing - 12 Mar 2004 15:47 GMT
I wrote:

>I forgot to mention...I even got a cute new haircut after years of wearing my
>hair in the exact same (unflattering) style. And I bought a bottle of Chanel
>fragrance I'd been longing for years (my mother wore it). I seem to be
>redefining myself, both inside and out. Many of the changes are
>insignificant, taken individually, but together they add up. On some levels,
>this has been a real journey of self-discovery for me.

Sorry to follow up on my own post. I just reread what I wrote and wanted to add
something. Despite the examples I gave -- for me, it's not been about external
stuff and buying things; those are just outgrowths of other changes. It's been
a shift in self-confidence and self-esteem -- and the fallout from this is that
I've really had to step back and think about what I truly like and what kind of
person I really want to be. I feel like I have more choices now.

Has anyone seen the show "John Doe"? He's a guy who has total amnesia (except
for having a slew of obscure facts in his brain to draw on). He literally has
no idea who he is and what he likes and doesn't like, so he goes through his
days trying things out. Then he'll excitedly note to himself "I'm the kind of
guy that likes ________!" or "I'm the kind of guy who doesn't like _______!" I
feel a lot like that...but it runs on a deeper level than just that. It's a bit
hard for me to explain, but that's my best shot at it.

beeswing
Ignoramus28275 - 12 Mar 2004 15:55 GMT
I am glad to note that you sound much happier and more content
beeswing.

i
beeswing - 12 Mar 2004 16:30 GMT
Ignoramus wrote:

>I am glad to note that you sound much happier and more content
>beeswing.

Thanks. :) And congratulations on your six months of maintenance. That's an
accomplishment to be proud of.

beeswing
Ignoramus28275 - 12 Mar 2004 16:46 GMT
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>
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>
> beeswing

Thank you.

I almost cannot believe how great my life is now. I feel so much
better.

If someone told me, a year ago, that in March of 2004 I will be what I
am in fact, I would never take the prediction seriously.

i
MH - 17 Mar 2004 04:53 GMT
> x-no-archive: yes
>
> I wrote:
>
> >I forgot to mention...I even got a cute new haircut after years of wearing my
> >hair in the exact same (unflattering) style.

Everyone should update their look at least every few years. I work with
people who have had the same hairstyle since the 80s. It's like, please,
make-over time!!! It's strange, some men still have mullets and some women
still tease their hair into BIG hair. I update my look about every 9-10
months....

I'm glad you're updating your look. : )

Martha
beeswing - 17 Mar 2004 16:59 GMT
>Everyone should update their look at least every few years. I work with
>people who have had the same hairstyle since the 80s. It's like, please,
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
>I'm glad you're updating your look. : )

Thanks, Martha. It's been fun!

What do you do to "update"? Haircut, hair color, new clothing? Makeup? (I
haven't done much of the latter.)

beeswing
MH - 19 Mar 2004 03:32 GMT
> x-no-archive: yes
>
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>
> beeswing

I'm allergic to hair dye, so I can't do that, unfortunately. Fortunately, I
have very cool-looking brown and gray hair. I don't waer much make, except
eye-liner and sometimes shadow, so I really focus on my hair.

I take really good care of my skin and hair. Each time I wash it (I
alternate between two shampoos and conditioners so there's no build-up), I
mousse and blow dry it. Right now, it's layered at just below shoulder
length. It looks really, really good, if I say so myself. Next week I'll get
a trim as well as get my eyebrow waxed and a facial. I usually tweeze my
brows myself, but a nice shaping is good once in a while.

Martha
beeswing - 19 Mar 2004 04:09 GMT
Martha wrote:

>I'm allergic to hair dye, so I can't do that, unfortunately. Fortunately, I
>have very cool-looking brown and gray hair. I don't waer much make, except
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>a trim as well as get my eyebrow waxed and a facial. I usually tweeze my
>brows myself, but a nice shaping is good once in a while.

I bet you look great, Martha. Good for you for taking such good care of
yourself.

beeswing
MH - 19 Mar 2004 07:02 GMT
> x-no-archive: yes
>
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>
> beeswing

Thanks, it ain't easy. : )

Martha
estella - 11 Mar 2004 15:06 GMT
>If you knew, with complete certainty, that you will die in 3 months,
>would you give up your diet and eat anything you want in any quentity
>you want?

I would be so worried that i could not eat anything.
Dally - 11 Mar 2004 16:23 GMT
> If you knew, with complete certainty, that you will die in 3 months,
> would you give up your diet and eat anything you want in any quentity
> you want?
>
> My answer: yes

Oh, yes!  I carefully monitor myself for "eating for entertainment"
purposes.  There's no doubt that I would "treat myself" to as
entertaining a three months as I could...

EXCEPT...

If fueling my body badly would make my remaining three months less
functional or more painful or more abbreviated.  The entertainment I get
from food is replaceable by many other activities.  Gluttony has costs
besides a fat waist - I get too tired and can't stay up for things, for
example.

Dally, who had one glass of wine and was in bed by 10:30 last night!
Ignoramus16578 - 11 Mar 2004 16:29 GMT
>> If you knew, with complete certainty, that you will die in 3 months,
>> would you give up your diet and eat anything you want in any quentity
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
> besides a fat waist - I get too tired and can't stay up for things, for
> example.

I would agree with this. I would eat more, but not to the point of
feeling bad due to it.

> Dally, who had one glass of wine and was in bed by 10:30 last night!

I finally found wine that I actually like drinking, and drink it a few
times per week. It is called Bourdeaux that they sell at Sams Club.

i
OceanView - 11 Mar 2004 18:34 GMT
> In article <c2q3qt$20t2lq$6@ID-217902.news.uni-berlin.de>, Dally
> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 28 lines]
>
> i

In a drum?  Sorry, couldn't resist!
AmyB - 11 Mar 2004 21:27 GMT
Hell YES.  And i'd start smoking too!!!

--
AmyB
LC since 12/01/03
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> If you knew, with complete certainty, that you will die in 3 months,
> would you give up your diet and eat anything you want in any quentity
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
> i
Elise Converse - 12 Mar 2004 21:19 GMT
Yes, I too would eat, but I would also clean like a maniac because I would
not want my ever neat sister to see my closets, cabinets and drawers the way
they are now.  At least that would be my intent...knowing me, nothing would
get done.  Seriously, family would indeed come first and maybe a trip to see
things I've always wanted to see.  Elise
> If you knew, with complete certainty, that you will die in 3 months,
> would you give up your diet and eat anything you want in any quentity
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
> i
Julianne - 12 Mar 2004 21:23 GMT
I think I would also drink cokes.  I already thought about illicit drug use
but I do occasionally miss having a coke with my meals and they are simply
too sweet for my delicate constitution.  I wouldn't clean but on the last
day I might burn my house down!

j
> Yes, I too would eat, but I would also clean like a maniac because I would
> not want my ever neat sister to see my closets, cabinets and drawers the way
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
> >
> > i
SnugBear - 14 Mar 2004 01:46 GMT
"Julianne"  wrote :

> I think I would also drink cokes.  I already thought about illicit
> drug use but I do occasionally miss having a coke with my meals and
> they are simply too sweet for my delicate constitution.  I wouldn't
> clean but on the last day I might burn my house down!

omg!  Remind me to trash my hard drive <g>

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SnugBear - 13 Mar 2004 03:03 GMT
Ignoramus21909 <ignoramus21909@NOSPAM.21909.invalid> wrote in news:c2o162
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> If you knew, with complete certainty, that you will die in 3 months,
> would you give up your diet and eat anything you want in any quentity
> you want?

More SEX!!!! (and then dessert ;-))

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