Home | Contact Us | FAQ | Search & Site Map | Link to Us
Sign In | Join | Other 45 Sites in Network
Home
Discussion GroupsGeneral TopicsLow CarbWeightWatchers
WeightAdviser.com
Contact UsLink To UsSearch & Site Map

Weight Loss Forum / General Topics / June 2004

Tip: Looking for answers? Try searching our database.

Losing it!

Thread view: 
Enable EMail Alerts  Start New Thread
Thread rating: 
Mike McGowan - 26 Jun 2004 14:52 GMT
Hi folks!

I have lurked on this group for several months and have always enjoyed
reading the posts. Like many of the people here, I have gained/regained most
of my life.  Losing weight has NEVER been a problem (but neither has
regaining weight!)

Every plan imaginable I have tried, and I have lost a lot of weight on every
one: low fat, low carb, low calorie. etc. Whenever I go on a diet and
include exercise, I usually average 4-5 pounds loss a week. My calorie
intake is not particularly spartan--about 1400 calories daily.  I am not
tall guy (5' 10"), nor do I have a large frame (medium, according to the
charts. I have considered the rapid loss abilty to possibly be inherited--my
dad was the same way.  Every time I diet and exercise I have great energy,
plus I play much better (I'm a jazz tenor player).

At present, I am eating vegetarian (but I eat a LOT of soy for protein). Of
all the different plans, this one gives me this greatest sense of
well-being: (my skin looks great!)  I have been on the diet since May 15.

Having said all this, my problem has always been the maintenance part.  I
still have a considerable way to go:  I have lost 35 pounds, but still need
another 71 to achieve my goal. But, I have been down this road many times,
and I ALWAYS reach my goal--I just don't stay there very long.

At any rate, I just wanted to say hello and to mention how much I enjoy this
group!

Mike McGowan

256/221/150 (goal)
JMA - 26 Jun 2004 15:53 GMT
> Hi folks!
>
[quoted text clipped - 27 lines]
>
> 256/221/150 (goal)

Congrats on the progress so far.  Is the vegetarian thing something you're
willing to do forever?  I found that maintaining my weight loss was very
difficult, especially because I used a diet that I wasn't going to maintain
the rest of my life.  I should have transitioned to a more normal WOE much
sooner than I did.  I also have a serious hormonal problem that interferes
with things (and possibly pre-disposed me to obesity), but that's being
treated medically.

Anyway, the best thing I can tell you from my limited experience is to make
sure that the way you're eating and exercising now is a way you can
reasonably sustain indefinitely.  When you reach your goal, the object is to
increase your eating slowly and only by enough to maintain your weight.  The
other keys are to jump on the situation right away if it starts getting out
of hand (5-10 lbs for most people) and keep up your exercise routine.

Good luck!

Jenn
cooper - 26 Jun 2004 16:50 GMT
> Mike McGowan
>
> 256/221/150 (goal)

Your goal weight is 150? For a male, 5'7" with a medium build, isn't that a
bit too low? If you've achieved that in the past, then maybe it was so hard
to maintain because that just isn't a healthy weight for you...

-coop
Dewolla Stepon - 26 Jun 2004 17:03 GMT
> > Mike McGowan
> >
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> bit too low? If you've achieved that in the past, then maybe it was so hard
> to maintain because that just isn't a healthy weight for you...

The Metropolitan Life Insurance Table for weight ranges shows a 5'7" male,
medium build, to have a target range of 142-154, and that includes 5 pound
for clothing.

- Dewolla
Ignoramus13867 - 26 Jun 2004 17:40 GMT
>> > Mike McGowan
>> >
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
>
> - Dewolla

he is 5'10", not 5'7".

i
Dewolla Stepon - 26 Jun 2004 18:07 GMT
> >> > Mike McGowan
> >> >
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
>
> he is 5'10", not 5'7".

I was replying to Cooper who said, "Your goal weight is 150? For a male,
5'7" with a medium build, isn't that a bit too low?"

- Dewolla
cooper - 28 Jun 2004 14:42 GMT
> he is 5'10", not 5'7".
>
> i

Funny, I was thinking 5'10, but 5'7 came out of my keyboard. *grin*

coop
Doug Freyburger - 29 Jun 2004 18:52 GMT
> > Mike McGowan
>
> > > 256/221/150 (goal)
>
> > Your goal weight is 150? For a male, 5'7" with a medium
> > build, isn't that a bit too low?

I'm 5'6" and using body fat percentages my ideal range is
170-175.

> > If you've achieved that in the past, then maybe it was so
> > hard to maintain because that just isn't a healthy weight
> > for you...

If you take a human body below its ideal, it will react to
reverse the situation.  Picking a goal weight below your real
ideal weight will set you up with an eternal need for low
calorie and high hunger.  That's a formula for disaster.

> The Metropolitan Life Insurance Table for weight ranges
> shows a 5'7" male, medium build, to have a target range of
> 142-154, and that includes 5 pound for clothing.

Using body fat percentages, insurance tables generally run
about 10 pounds too low for almost everyone.  They must have
taken people's word on height and weight on forms.  And their
real conclusion should be something about lying on forms and
objectivity not ideal weight ranges.
Ignoramus11738 - 29 Jun 2004 19:08 GMT
> If you take a human body below its ideal, it will react to
> reverse the situation.  Picking a goal weight below your real
> ideal weight will set you up with an eternal need for low
> calorie and high hunger.  That's a formula for disaster.

and how do you find out the "real ideal" weight?

i
Ignoramus13867 - 26 Jun 2004 17:39 GMT
I would, first of all, suggest a weight loss goal of 170 lbs rather
than 150 lbs. Much easier to maintain in the beginning. Secondly, once
a fatty, always a fatty, so, to maintain weight, you always have to be
on a "diet", meaning being conscious what and how much you eat and
exercising. There is no magic weight loss solution that would let a
formerly fat person stay slim without working on it.

What are your conclusions about you not being able to maintain weight.
What is it that you want to do different next time?

Also, supposedly, crash dieting, which is what you are doing with your
1400 calories diet, makes it harder to maintain weight loss. Better do
it slowly, since there is no hurry anyway -- you will have to be on a
diet forever.

i
Mike McGowan - 26 Jun 2004 17:47 GMT
Ig,

I'm afraid you may be right--once a fatty, always a fatty.

Mike

> I would, first of all, suggest a weight loss goal of 170 lbs rather
> than 150 lbs. Much easier to maintain in the beginning. Secondly, once
[quoted text clipped - 12 lines]
>
> i
That T Woman - 26 Jun 2004 21:02 GMT
You seem discouraged by that.  It just means that we (especially me) will
never be able to eat as much and maybe some of the foods that always thin
people can eat.  It doesn't mean that we can't be successful at our weight
loss efforts!  Even so, a "small" loss can make a big difference in your
overall health.

Tonia
221/176/130

> Ig,
>
[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
> >
> > i
Ignoramus13867 - 26 Jun 2004 21:38 GMT
> You seem discouraged by that.  It just means that we (especially me) will
> never be able to eat as much and maybe some of the foods that always thin
> people can eat.  It doesn't mean that we can't be successful at our weight
> loss efforts!  Even so, a "small" loss can make a big difference in your
> overall health.

I have no direct knowledge of this, but according to others, thin
people don't eat much -- they simply stop being hungry when they had
enough.

i
temporarily slim naturally fat person
223/172/180

> Tonia
> 221/176/130
[quoted text clipped - 21 lines]
>> >
>> > i
That T Woman - 26 Jun 2004 22:42 GMT
I think that thin people vary as much as fat people.  I've known thin people
who hardly seem to ever eat and then there was a co-worker who could eat
every morsel of food at a Golden Corral buffet and never gain an ounce.  She
was a woman in her 50s!  I haven't seen her in a few years but last time I
did see her, she hadn't changed and it had been over ten years since I
worked with her.

Tonia

> I have no direct knowledge of this, but according to others, thin
> people don't eat much -- they simply stop being hungry when they had
[quoted text clipped - 29 lines]
> >> >
> >> > i
cooper - 28 Jun 2004 14:40 GMT
> You seem discouraged by that.  It just means that we (especially me) will
> never be able to eat as much and maybe some of the foods that always thin
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> >
> > Mike

Mike, the first thing I had to accept was that I'll never be one of those
people that can get away with eating whatever, whenever. It isn't a fun idea
to accept- but really, there could be so many worse things to have to
sacrifice in this life. It isn't such a bad thing once you get in the
routine of it, and experiment with cooking new foods that are healthy. Plus,
it's just SO much more rewarding!

I have been maintaning a pretty steady weight loss for the last 4 months. I
don't have the chance to weigh myself everyday, but I'm fairly happy with
the weight I'm at now, even though it isn't my goal weight. For the last two
weeks I haven't lost and ounce or an inch, but I made some food choices
during the week that prevented that- and I was ok with that. One night I had
pizza, and to follow that up I ate about a quarter pound of chocolate (MMMM
good times), and the next day I had leftover pizza for lunch. There were
other things too, but I did all that in moderation. I didn't gain, but I
didn't lose. The point is, you may be giving up the sweets now (especially
pop) but later on down the road you can enjoy them- only in moderation.

I've always been chubby. Even now I think of myself as chubby, just in a
slimmer body.

Kim (5'4" female, 32 yo and a medium build)
155/140/135 (but thinking about changing that to 130)
155/140/130 (aw heck why not)
Ignoramus3685 - 28 Jun 2004 14:48 GMT
> Mike, the first thing I had to accept was that I'll never be one of those
> people that can get away with eating whatever, whenever. It isn't a fun idea
> to accept- but really, there could be so many worse things to have to
> sacrifice in this life. It isn't such a bad thing once you get in the
> routine of it, and experiment with cooking new foods that are healthy. Plus,
> it's just SO much more rewarding!

A very wise approach. I am also discouraged that I can only eat so
little (seemingly to me), but, it is a price that is well worth
paying.

Great diet progress on your part.

i
223/172/180
Doug Freyburger - 29 Jun 2004 18:56 GMT
> I'm afraid you may be right--once a fatty, always a fatty.

Simple cause and effect.  When you go back to eating the way
that got you fat in the first place, you will rapidly become
as fat as ever again.  Make cause and effect work for you not
against you.

You can chose to play the defeatist and gain it all back yet
again, or you can stop being on a diet and start doing
something you can sustain forever.  Chose well.

If your ultimate goal is to lose the weight, you're bound to
gain it all back.  If your ultimate goal is to be thin in
your coffin, you have a fighting chance to keep it off.
Chrys - 29 Jun 2004 19:17 GMT
> > I'm afraid you may be right--once a fatty, always a fatty.
>
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> gain it all back.  If your ultimate goal is to be thin in
> your coffin, you have a fighting chance to keep it off.

That sounds kind of bad.  I'm not trying to be thin in a coffin, I'm
trying to be healthy so I don't need that coffin quite so soon.
Heywood Mogroot - 29 Jun 2004 02:57 GMT
> Hi folks!
>
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> one: low fat, low carb, low calorie. etc. Whenever I go on a diet and
> include exercise, I usually average 4-5 pounds loss a week.

WAY too fast.

> My calorie
> intake is not particularly spartan--about 1400 calories daily.

WAY too low. What's your hurry?

> I am not
> tall guy (5' 10"), nor do I have a large frame (medium, according to the
> charts. I have considered the rapid loss abilty to possibly be inherited--my
> dad was the same way.  Every time I diet and exercise I have great energy,
> plus I play much better (I'm a jazz tenor player).

BMI may be flawed, but a BMI of 24.0 is 167lbs for you. I'm shooting
for that BMI on my regimen, since that weight was reasonably slim for
me before I put on the weight.

If you shoot for 167, you're almost halfway there now.

> Having said all this, my problem has always been the maintenance part.  I
> still have a considerable way to go:  I have lost 35 pounds, but still need
> another 71 to achieve my goal. But, I have been down this road many times,
> and I ALWAYS reach my goal--I just don't stay there very long.

Sounds like you need to start working out, building muscle to burn the
calories. That's what I need to start doing at least!

> At any rate, I just wanted to say hello and to mention how much I enjoy this
> group!

you're doing good . . . 35lbs is just about where I am right now, but
I'm losing at ~2lbs/week, which I've read is the maximum 'safest' rate
of loss for not losing too much muscle (actually 1-3lbs/week is what
I've read, but the 1000kcal/day deficit that 2lbs loss implies is good
enough for me).

Heywood

232/194/182
 
Sign In
Join
My Latest Posts
My Monitored Threads
My Blog
My Photo Gallery
My Profile
My Homepage

Start New Thread
Enable EMail Alerts
Rate this Thread



©2012 Advenet LLC   Privacy Policy - Terms of Use
This website includes both content owned or controlled by Advenet as well as content owned or controlled by third parties.