In March, I gave my parents a Life(something) blood glucose monitor as
present. I had reasons to suspect it would be a useful present. They
were putting off testing themselves until I told them on Friday that
unless they test themselves this weekend, I won;'t call them on the
phone any more.
So they tested themselves in the morning. My mom's BG was 126 and my
Dad's was 147. What a bummer. They say though, that Dad ate at around
1am the previous night. Don't know what to make out of it. I suggested
that they re-test on Tuesday morning so that Dad eats last meal at
9pm, and nothing afterwards.
I guess it is doctor visit time...
i
very upset
jk - 06 Jul 2004 02:05 GMT
> In March, I gave my parents a Life(something) blood glucose monitor as
> present. I had reasons to suspect it would be a useful present. They
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> i
> very upset
Look at the positive. You may have helped save/prolong their lives, and do
what their doc hasn't.

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Jennifer - 06 Jul 2004 02:05 GMT
I'm sorry to say, it is time for a doctor visit.
It won't matter much what Dad ate the night before... That is a
diabetic result. As is Mom's.
Any two morning tests of 126 or over means a diagnosis of diabetes.
I can understand being upset, but also know, that with some changes in
food and exercise, they can live long healthy diabetic lives. Better to
catch it early before much damage is done.
Oh, and if they smoke, STOP!!!
Jennifer
> In March, I gave my parents a Life(something) blood glucose monitor as
> present. I had reasons to suspect it would be a useful present. They
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Ignoramus31660 - 06 Jul 2004 02:44 GMT
> I'm sorry to say, it is time for a doctor visit.
yep...
> It won't matter much what Dad ate the night before... That is a
> diabetic result. As is Mom's.
That's what I suspect, does not matter much if he ate at night.
> Any two morning tests of 126 or over means a diagnosis of diabetes.
>
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> Oh, and if they smoke, STOP!!!
thanks. they do not smoke...
i
> Jennifer
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>> very upset
Patricia Heil - 06 Jul 2004 02:20 GMT
> In March, I gave my parents a Life(something) blood glucose monitor as
> present. I had reasons to suspect it would be a useful present. They
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> i
> very upset
Here's how ignorant I am -- I guess this means they are diabetic? Just a
wild guess. I really don't know.
Ignoramus31660 - 06 Jul 2004 03:35 GMT
>> In March, I gave my parents a Life(something) blood glucose monitor as
>> present. I had reasons to suspect it would be a useful present. They
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> Here's how ignorant I am -- I guess this means they are diabetic? Just a
> wild guess. I really don't know.
you may be ignorant, but you make good inferences. You are correct,
such measurements give rise to a suspicion of diabetes. Obviously, it
needs to be confirmed by a doctor visit and a lab test.
i
Dally - 06 Jul 2004 05:02 GMT
> In March, I gave my parents a Life(something) blood glucose monitor as
> present. I had reasons to suspect it would be a useful present. They
> were putting off testing themselves until I told them on Friday that
> unless they test themselves this weekend, I won;'t call them on the
> phone any more.
You know that they won't change anything until they buy into it.
Confirming your guess will only make them defensive, not cause them to
see the light and bow down at your feet because of your superior
judgment and wisdom.
> So they tested themselves in the morning. My mom's BG was 126 and my
> Dad's was 147. What a bummer. They say though, that Dad ate at around
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> I guess it is doctor visit time...
Why? The doctor is only going to tell them stuff they already know and
aren't choosing to do.
Fat people are fat because they choose to over-eat and not exercise. If
they decided to change they would change.
Dally, whose Dad weighs well over 300 pounds and knows of what she speaks
Ignoramus5599 - 06 Jul 2004 11:15 GMT
>> In March, I gave my parents a Life(something) blood glucose monitor as
>> present. I had reasons to suspect it would be a useful present. They
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> see the light and bow down at your feet because of your superior
> judgment and wisdom.
At least my mom, seems to have bought into the need to diet and
exercise etc.
She is not even very fat, her BMI is 27.
I have not spoken to my dad at length.
>> So they tested themselves in the morning. My mom's BG was 126 and my
>> Dad's was 147. What a bummer. They say though, that Dad ate at around
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> Dally, whose Dad weighs well over 300 pounds and knows of what she speaks
Well, as far as I am concerned, health concerns are what made me
decide to diet and exercise. You do have a point, but, this could tip
the scale for them.
They are going to redo the tests this morning.
i
Cynthia Perry - 06 Jul 2004 17:23 GMT
>>> In March, I gave my parents a Life(something) blood glucose monitor as
>>> present. I had reasons to suspect it would be a useful present. They
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>i
A good sign. Perhaps it will be a wake up call for them.
Cynthia
Ignoramus5599 - 06 Jul 2004 17:27 GMT
>>>> In March, I gave my parents a Life(something) blood glucose monitor as
>>>> present. I had reasons to suspect it would be a useful present. They
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> Cynthia
We'll see... My dad is much less disposed towards actually doing
something for his health than my mom, who at least was interested in
health issues all her life.
i
Cynthia Perry - 06 Jul 2004 06:03 GMT
>In March, I gave my parents a Life(something) blood glucose monitor as
>present. I had reasons to suspect it would be a useful present. They
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>i
>very upset
Sorry to hear it. I guess diabetes is a possibility. Certainly, a
doctor visit would be indicated.
However, though I'm sure you are very upset, realize that your parents
must live their lives and make their own choices. They may choose to
change things about their WOE and exercise... and they may not. They
may prefer to simply take pills.
Set a good example... and don't get crazy if they don't see the
*light*.
I don't think threatening to cut off communication is a good idea for
any of you. Remember, you want to enjoy having your parents around as
long as you can, whether they live long healthy lives, or shorter less
healthy ones.
Best, and take care of yourself during these trying times.
Cynthia
Roger Zoul - 06 Jul 2004 13:37 GMT
A good reason for them to start restricting carbs (and junk) and getting
more exercise.
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Ignoramus5599 - 06 Jul 2004 13:42 GMT
> A good reason for them to start restricting carbs (and junk) and getting
> more exercise.
yes, that's quite right.
i
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byakee - 06 Jul 2004 17:23 GMT
One dark day on Usenet, Ignoramus31660 <ignoramus31660@NOSPAM.31660.invalid> said:
> In March, I gave my parents a Life(something)
LifeScan.
> blood glucose monitor as
> present. I had reasons to suspect it would be a useful present. They
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> i
> very upset
Yes, it is doctor visit time. No, this does not necessarily mean
they are diabetic -- don't jump to conclusions and don't scare them
needlessly. Regardless of what has been posted here, what they ate
and what time they ate it *can* make a big difference. Daily testing
is vital for confirmed diabetics, but as a spot test, it's rather
pointless. For a true picture of what's going on, they need to have
an HbA1C blood test, which averages glucose level over a 3 month
period.
Get them to see a doctor, and don't get your medical advice from
Usenet (including me). I wish them and you the best...
J.J. in WA (diagnosed Type2 Feb. '04)
Marsha - 07 Jul 2004 00:30 GMT
> In March, I gave my parents a Life(something) blood glucose monitor as
> present. I had reasons to suspect it would be a useful present. They
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> i
> very upset
Bummer. Perhaps they are early enough along that it can be
controlled by diet alone?
Marsha/Ohio
Ignoramus5599 - 07 Jul 2004 01:13 GMT
>> In March, I gave my parents a Life(something) blood glucose monitor as
>> present. I had reasons to suspect it would be a useful present. They
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> Marsha/Ohio
I am hoping that something was messed up and lab tests will not
confirm this. By the way, my mom corrected herself and her morning BG
was 116, not 126.
i