> so how old would karen carpenter be now? so eds didn't exist when women now
> in their 30s, 40s or 50s were younger?
That's not what was said.
> eds in 'older women' are the same eds these women had when they were
> younger. only more time has passed and these women have had the chance to
> grow older with their ed (often hidden), not to mention suffer more over the
> years. no great news (sorry, those who try and sell newspapers). the only
> news is that it's too damn hard to find help.
That's pretty much the gist of the article. It's difficult for older women
to get help for an eating disorder because it is generally seen as a younger
women's disease.
> yes, some people develop eds post-teens/twenties, but more often it's just a
> continuance of difficulties which were already there and not treated, for
> whatever reason.
>
> F
It is also the result of a relapse of problems that existed and may have
even been treated, not just those who never sought treatment. I found it
interesting that the medical community is finally catching up with the real
world in this area. If it becomes more recognized, then women may actually
seek help. I can tell you that pushing 40 it doesn't help when stupid
people refer to my problems as those of an attention seeking teenager or
other remarks about the condition that are just as stupid and thoughtless.
Jenn
mikarma - 09 Jul 2004 22:57 GMT
> It is also the result of a relapse of problems that existed and may have
> even been treated, not just those who never sought treatment. I found it
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>
> Jenn
Sorry Jenn, if i came across as angry in my previous post (well, i was
angry, but at people's ignorance about eds in general, and the fact that eds
still sell papers but still far too few people seem to truly recognise the
pain behind it all, just the superficial 'oooh, hasn't she gained/lost
weight' comments etc). I agree with all you say in your para above,
couldn't agree more. So many people think this is all a vanity thing, when
in reality it's so much the opposite, and the pain felt at _any_ age hurts,
not just in teenage years.
F
JMA - 10 Jul 2004 00:58 GMT
> > It is also the result of a relapse of problems that existed and may have
> > even been treated, not just those who never sought treatment. I found it
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>
> F
I'm glad you had a reaction to it! I really do hope that articles like this
help educate some people, though some are well beyond help in that area
(terminally stupid). I think that time will show that ed's are more
widespread than currently estimated, but I'm afraid that since they are
predominantly female and are mental, they won't get the serious attention
they deserve. It's way too easy for the ignorant to write it off.
Jenn
Jenn