Well, we finally got internet service at our new home/town and I can post to
the group again. Unfortunately, I have a 5 pound gain to report. I'm
really surprised that it's not *more* than 5 pounds with all the bad
restaurant meals and the junk food I ate during the delay in closing on the
house. We were supposed to close Tuesday (8/2) at 10 am and because we were
on the road Monday traveling down here we didn't learn there was a problem
until after it was too late that day to do anything about it. Plus the
a.shole at the mortgage company never returned phone calls. We had to catch
him "between meetings" and then he was out sick Tuesday afternoon, which I
don't really believe but that was his story. Luckily the problem turned
out to be easily fixable and we closed Thursday. Our anxiety levels Monday
evening, Tuesday and Wednesday morning were stratospheric. Forgetting
eating salads at Wendy's, etc., which are about the only healthy
restaurant/fast food we've been able to find here, we ate greasy Mexican
food and starchy Chinese. Since we've been in the house, I've been cooking
and it's been a lot better, except that my DH got me hooked on olives and
I've got a major salt bloat on top of the 5 lbs. I haven't weighed in the
last couple of days but when I tried on one of my newest pairs of shorts
they were too tight to zip up. They used to fit great.
I don't know anyone here and although we went to church Sunday, we didn't
meet anyone there who was under the age of 70 it seems. I signed up to
volunteer at the local library which just opened up in a fantastic new
building and did my first three hour session Thursday. They had me watching
the local history/genealogy room and the only one using it was from
Washington state and is going home today. No chance to make a friend there.
I'm really beginning to feel like I've been yanked up by my roots and left
to dry up and die. There isn't even a good gym here. There's a walking
group but it hasn't been meeting the last week because the group leader has
had shingles. I meet one lady who participates and she looked about 75
years old. It would have been rude to ask the ages of the other group
members so I guess if they start back up Monday I'll show up and see what
it's like. To me, if the group depends on one person to exist, it isn't
much of a group, though. There's a potluck dinner and dance tonight that
we're planning on going to. It's at the Adult Activity Center which is
supposed to be for the whole community but it seems only the elderly use it.
Maybe some of the other newcomers (there are quite a few new teachers in
town like my DH) will show up too.
I've pretty much emptied all the boxes that aren't my DH's books and other
stuff. That's for him to deal with. I guess Monday, I'll start looking for
a job. There hasn't been anything listed in the paper that I'd want to do,
though. I really don't want to have to commute out of town but I may have
to. I'm starting to slip into a major depression here, I'm afraid and I
really don't know what to do. I'm determined that I **won't** medicate
myself with food though.
Tonia (formerly of Lubbock and now between Del Rio, San Antonio and a hot
place)
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Beverly - 13 Aug 2004 17:48 GMT
> Well, we finally got internet service at our new home/town and I can post to
> the group again. Unfortunately, I have a 5 pound gain to report. I'm
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> 221/180/130
Glad to see you back online. Give yourself time to settle into the new
environment. I'm sure you'll meet people closer to your age group. Those
older church members and walking group probably know many local residents
your age.
If you can't locate a good gym maybe it's time to setup a home gym. Are
there any hotels in the area with workout equipment? Sometimes hotels are
willing to let local residents use their facilities for a small fee. When
we traveled through Vermont a couple years ago the hotel where we stayed
sold memberships to the local residents for the use of their pool and
workout equipment. I really enjoyed working out and swimming with local
people who were able to give us excellent information about the restaurants
and attractions in the area.
Don't worry about those few pounds. I managed to pack on a few pounds
during my last move. Just get back into your normal routine and they'll be
gone soon. Stay away from the food<G> Get out there and explore your new
surroundings.
Beverly
ThatTWoman - 13 Aug 2004 18:38 GMT
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> Glad to see you back online. Give yourself time to settle into the new
> environment. I'm sure you'll meet people closer to your age group. Those
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> Beverly
There's a few workout facilities. I guess the Gold's in Lubbock spoiled me.
The Adult Activity Center has two treadmills but there're out in a hallway
right off the lobby so I'd feel too exposed to workout there. They also
have an indoor pool and some free weights and some exercise videos. The big
hang-up is that they require that you have a workout buddy to use the pool
or equipment. You can't go solo and they close at 4:45 pm so that precludes
working out with my DH after he gets off work. The times I've gone in there
no one has been using anything at all. It's a shame because it does seem
like nice equipment. All the motels are just basic room to sleep and stash
your stuff kind of places. There's only three of them in town. The
privately owned gym is awful. The weight machine were in obvious poor
condition. I'd be afraid that one of them would break and hurt me. They
had two ancient looking treadmills, no elliptical or recumbent bikes.
There's a Curves but I think I'm way beyond what they have to offer. I can
do a better workout on my own, IMHO.
I've explored almost everything in town unfortunately. It isn't much fun to
"sight see" by myself and DH has worked all week. Mostly mandatory
workshops and getting his class room set up but it hasn't left him any time
to do anything else. School starts on Monday and then he'll be busy grading
papers, writing more lesson plans and doing the ton of other paperwork that
is required. I think that if I were single the older people would be more
into introducing me to their kids/grandkids (some of them seem old enough to
have 45 year old grandkids.) But since I'm married, it seems like we're
supposed to be self-sufficient.
I have a ski machine, a rebounder and a variety of free weights as well as a
good collection of workout videos. The cable has the Fit Network and I can
hook up my Dazzle downloader and record some of them if I get bored with the
videos I have. It works like a VCR except that it records to the hard drive
of your computer. There's a work out show called the "Caribbean Workout"
that has some episodes that use a rebounder for the workouts. I do plan to
record some of them. I just miss having to get out to the gym to do a
workout. It seems that if I actually have to leave the house to workout,
I'm more likely make myself do it. I get too easily sidetracked into
checking the newsgroups and what's on TV if I don't get out of the house.
I'll adjust but it's going to be painful, I'm afraid. I suppose I'm wanting
too much too soon. I'll "fit" into the community eventually. At least I
hope I will.
Tonia
janice - 13 Aug 2004 18:25 GMT
>I've pretty much emptied all the boxes that aren't my DH's books and other
>stuff. That's for him to deal with. I guess Monday, I'll start looking for
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>221/180/130
Welcome back Tonia. Give it a little time - a house move to another
area is quite a traumatic thing, and you're bound to feel a bit
homesick to start with. I'm sure you'll soon get involved with life
in your new area. Let us know how it goes.
janice
ThatTWoman - 13 Aug 2004 19:45 GMT
> >I've pretty much emptied all the boxes that aren't my DH's books and other
> >stuff. That's for him to deal with. I guess Monday, I'll start looking for
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> janice
Thanks Janice. I appreciate the kind words. I'm a worrier and I guess that
what I've been doing too much of. It's quite a "culture shock" moving from
a city of 200,000 to one of 16,000. The important thing will be not to
give up on the social life for a while.
Tonia (formerly of Lubbock and now between Del Rio, San Antonio and a hot
place)
221/180/130
SnugBear - 14 Aug 2004 00:16 GMT
> It's quite a "culture shock" moving from
> a city of 200,000 to one of 16,000.
Try from suburban New Joisey to a village of 832! Culture shock is
heavenly <S>

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SnugBear - 14 Aug 2004 00:13 GMT
> Well, we finally got internet service at our new home/town and I can
> post to the group again.
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> 221/180/130
Hi Tonia! We missed you.
You don't have to do everything at once!!! We moved to Maine not knowing
a soul, just minded our own business getting settled and one by one, the
neighbors came up the driveway to introduce themselves. This is *not*
the rep generally ascribed to Mainers.
I know you must be happy to be cooking your own food again. Take care of
yourself and DH. The rest will happen.
Drink more water <s> Welcome home.

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ThatTWoman - 14 Aug 2004 04:03 GMT
> > Well, we finally got internet service at our new home/town and I can
> > post to the group again.
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> Drink more water <s> Welcome home.
Thanks Laurie. I'm glad to be back!
You know Texas has the rep of being friendly but you couldn't prove it by
me! We've met the neighbors on either side of us because we went up to them
when they were outside and introduced ourselves. I suppose that if we can
figure out what activities (besides hanging out in bars and drinking) people
age 40-60 actually participate in here, we'll make friends. We just got
back from a potluck dinner/dance and except for one couple about our age
whose son was sitting in with the band, we were the youngest people there,
most were in their 70s. It's been like that with everything we've done here
so far. I know there has to be something that middle aged people do here,
besides sit in front of the TV. I've suggested to DH that he invite someone
(and their spouse) who's teaching at his school to a casual dinner once we
get some dining room chairs but he didn't seem to care for the idea. I
told him that it didn't have to be elaborate or expensive for us. I think
maybe salmon or seasoned catfish fillets, saffron brown rice, steamed green
beans and salad would be a good dinner to serve company. We have to get the
chairs first. Right now we've been using folding chairs that came with a
card table we used to use as our dinner table. Actually, in the old house
the "dining area" was so small and cramped that we always ate on tray in
front of the TV.
I do need to remember to drink more water. We can drink the tap water here
where we couldn't in Lubbock. The last couple of days though it's tasted
like there's been too much chlorine put in it. Oh well, it's always
something.
Tonia
Annabel Smyth - 15 Aug 2004 10:53 GMT
ThatTWoman wrote in alt.support.diet on Sat, 14 Aug 2004:
>I do need to remember to drink more water. We can drink the tap water here
>where we couldn't in Lubbock. The last couple of days though it's tasted
>like there's been too much chlorine put in it. Oh well, it's always
>something.
Can you install a filter? We did; it taps into the rising main, and
filters the water through a separate tap for drinking and cooking. The
water is perfectly drinkable as is, but it does stop it smelling quite
so much of chlorine!
I'm sure you'll soon settle down in your new community; it's always
horrible at first, especially if the neighbours or people at Church
aren't as welcoming as they could be.

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ThatTWoman - 15 Aug 2004 22:55 GMT
> ThatTWoman wrote in alt.support.diet on Sat, 14 Aug 2004:
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> horrible at first, especially if the neighbours or people at Church
> aren't as welcoming as they could be.
A filter is a very good idea. I'll talk to my DH about it. We had a much
better experience at church today. We went to Sunday School and found a
class where everyone is in our age range. It wasn't so much like sitting
around talking to my mother.
Tonia
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Annabel Smyth - 16 Aug 2004 17:57 GMT
ThatTWoman wrote in alt.support.diet on Sun, 15 Aug 2004:
>A filter is a very good idea. I'll talk to my DH about it. We had a much
>better experience at church today. We went to Sunday School and found a
>class where everyone is in our age range. It wasn't so much like sitting
>around talking to my mother.
Oh GOOD. I do hope they were friendly and welcoming; that's so very
important, too. For me, that is more important than what age people
are.

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ThatTWoman - 17 Aug 2004 20:58 GMT
> ThatTWoman wrote in alt.support.diet on Sun, 15 Aug 2004:
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> important, too. For me, that is more important than what age people
> are.
Don't get me wrong, I've met some very nice older people. I went by the
real estate office that we went through for the house to drop off their sign
and had a nice chat with the realtor and she's my mom's age. I just that I
think I'll have more in common and more things to talk about and more things
that we could do together with people closer to my own age. I can't imagine
someone my mothers age enjoying going to see something like "Meet the
Fockers" or that movie about the giant Anacondas, for example. Before you
say anything Diva Carol, I know that *you* might! I think you're probably
way kewler than my mom. (I haven't seen her posting since I've been able to
read the group again so I hope she's still around.)
Tonia