Yes it is when you think about it.

I could not *imagine* allowing myself to give someone that much food
if I knew it was making them bigger and bigger and literally killing
them slowly.

My oldest son, who has recently gotten into cooking, has tried to be
an enabler of sorts when he decides he wants to cook dinner (about
twice a week now).  A couple times he has said to me that i don't
*need* to eat low carb and I told him..'Oh but I do so if you are
going to make dinner for me be sure it is lowcarb.'

The other night I had an argument with him about not putting salt in
*my* food through the cooking of it or otherwise.  He tried to tell me
that salt would not cause me to have water retention but after pulling
up a couple webpages on the net (our computer is next to the kitchen)
he did not put salt anywhere near my food.....and my dinner *was*
lowcarb.

He made steak and asparagus roll-ups.  :-)

I *won't* allow him to enable me (just as I won't enable myself) and
it will pay off in the end someday so he will not do it to someone
else he cares for.