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Hunger signals vs Portion control

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BCJ - 25 Mar 2005 12:51 GMT
Isn't it meant to work that we eat until we satisfy our hunger?

So if we're not actually hungry and eat just for comfort or out of boredom
it means we must have some sort of emotional issues that we are trying to
eleviate with food. I'm not saying it's wrong to have emotional issues. It's
just questionable whether food is the answer to dealing with them.
Irregardless of how we deal with them, wouldn't you say most people's WOE,
certainly in the West, is not driven solely by hunger?

So for the average person, if you want to avoid blowing up like a balloon
you need to exercise some measure of portion control. This means saying to
yourself 'I want it but I can't have it' or 'I want to eat more but that's
all I'll eat'.

It seems most people on a weight loss diet or maintenance diet, including
me, live this sort of self-denying life. It's not so bad really. You can get
used to it. But what do you think? Are we condemned to live this way? Is
there a way back to trusting our hunger signals? A lot of modern food with
all its sugar, salt and what not can be very addictive. Does the answer lie
with a more natural diet?

I desire a more natural and instinctive relationship with food. Any
thoughts?
Ignoramus15970 - 25 Mar 2005 13:54 GMT
> Isn't it meant to work that we eat until we satisfy our hunger?

Looks like it is meant this way, but not for everyone.

> So if we're not actually hungry and eat just for comfort or out of
> boredom it means we must have some sort of emotional issues that we
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> wouldn't you say most people's WOE, certainly in the West, is not
> driven solely by hunger?

Quite possibly, yes.

> So for the average person, if you want to avoid blowing up like a balloon
> you need to exercise some measure of portion control. This means saying to
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> I desire a more natural and instinctive relationship with food. Any
> thoughts?

Low carb seems to provide a way for me to not be hungry. I used to
live on the exact terms that you are describing. After a while it
became somewhat tiring. Maybe, at some point, LC will "stop working"
for me, I do not know.

We became fat because our hunger signals did not work properly.
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Mary_Gordon@tvo.org - 25 Mar 2005 14:11 GMT
I think a component of the problem is that we are fighting our own
biology. We all know that genetics DOES play a role (i.e. for some
people, their built in metabolism dictates a strong tendency to lean
and mean, or rolly polly, and trying to get it to do something other
than that is a fight).

I don't know if you've read about Pima Indians from Arizona -
essentially, an ethnic group that lived for thousands of years in a
very harsh environment, who have evolved very, very thrifty
metabolisms. Put them in the modern world, and they have a tendency to
obesity that really is in their genes (i.e. their body is always
getting ready for famine, so it can make them crave more than they
need, plus suck every last calorie out of what they eat and stash it on
their hips!).

I've had three babies. Believe me, when you are pregnant, your body
WANTS you to gain more than just the weight of the baby etc. Your body
wants some extra on it for insurance, not just to sustain pregnancy,
but for breastfeeding. Its bizarre when its happening to you - you know
you've eaten enough, but you are STARVING all the time, and it ain't
emotional. Its your body on autopilot, fighting with your brain.

Its a product of the same kinda things the Pimas faced in times past.
Our bodies are still worried we won't catch a wooly mammoth or find
enough yams in the forest, so they make us eat more than we need to
have that cache of body fat to live on.

And we're built to CRAVE fats and sugars - ever wondered why we aren't
built to crave brussel sprouts and carrot sticks? Its to make us eat
more fats and sugars in time of plenty to get us through the leaner
times....which in the Western world just never come.

I think another factor is how long we were really meant to live. Even
at the turn of the century, the average lifespan was only 40 something,
and it was even shorter earlier on. So, if you'd been lucky enough to
be able to get your mitts on way too much food and get fat - no worries
- you probably would die from something else (like infection) LONG
before you got any fat related illnesses. So, your body set the
priority on pigging out as the best big picture strategy for survival
of the greatest number. There are still a number of traditional
societies where fat women are very desirable.

Its frustrating.

Mary G.
195/135/132-135 and holding...with fingernails!
BCJ - 26 Mar 2005 00:56 GMT
Yes you make some good points there. We've reached a point in the Western
world where our lifespan has been greatly increased, and we can enjoy food
as never before. Maybe portion control and self denying is the price we pay
for this.

BTW I went to the work cafeteria the other day, rare for me because I
usually bring my own lunch, and they had brussels sprouts. As soon as I saw
them I had an instant hunger for them. It was like my body craved their
nutrients. I occassionally experience this with cheese. Maybe I haven't
eaten cheese for a while, then out of the blue I say to myself 'I want some
cheese'. Maybe I'm low on calcium so my body sends me a signal to eat it. I
like this kind of eating. And food tastes so good this way.

Unfortunately it doesn't work this way most of the time. Meal times are
planned and it's usually decided earlier what I will be eating. But maybe I
can change this. It would mean not planning meals - getting to a meal time
and then saying 'What do I feel like eating?' and then making it. And it may
mean some looseness in meal timing too. Having absorbing activities helps a
lot with that. Many times I'm on the computer and miss a meal time by an
hour without realizing it. I need more of these activities, and better ones
than just wasting time on a computer.
Phil M. - 25 Mar 2005 15:56 GMT
Leafing through alt.support.diet, I read a message from
bjoh2004@yahoo.com.au of 25 Mar 2005:

> Isn't it meant to work that we eat until we satisfy our hunger?

You sound like my wife. She's 5' 5" and around 95 pounds. Has been that
weight ever since I met her in high school (about 30 years ago). Makes
sense though. I've managed to lose 80 pounds through calorie restriction
and exercise. The exercise seems to keep everything in sync. I can
usually eat around 2500 to 3500 calories a day on a BMR of around 2000
because of running. However, I'm sitting here on the couch today with an
injury ;-( Now I'm really testing my hunger signals and will power. For
me, it takes more will power to restrict my caloric intake than it takes
to complete a 20 mile run.

> So if we're not actually hungry and eat just for comfort or out of
> boredom it means we must have some sort of emotional issues that we
> are trying to eleviate with food.

Good point. Probably true for a lot of people. But I think some of us
also have this genetic code that tells us that if food is plentiful, we
should eat it now, because it may be scarce in the future. That would
give us a chance to survive a famine. Those that did not survive also had
less of a chance to pass on this genetic code. Anyway, that's my excuse.
;-)

> Irregardless

No such word. Sorry, but that's another one of my emotion hang-ups,
besides eating past the satiated point. ;-)

> of how we deal with them, wouldn't you say most people's
> WOE, certainly in the West, is not driven solely by hunger?

If most in the West are considered overweight, then you are probably
correct.

> So for the average person, if you want to avoid blowing up like a
> balloon you need to exercise some measure of portion control. This
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> signals? A lot of modern food with all its sugar, salt and what not
> can be very addictive. Does the answer lie with a more natural diet?

All very good questions. Personally, I needed help controlling my
irrational overeating. Using software to track my caloric intake and
exercising is fine with me. I'm perfectly happy measuring everything I
eat. However, that may be because of my OCD tendencies.

Phil M.

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Ignoramus15970 - 25 Mar 2005 16:30 GMT
> You sound like my wife. She's 5' 5" and around 95 pounds. Has been that
> weight ever since I met her in high school (about 30 years ago). Makes
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> me, it takes more will power to restrict my caloric intake than it takes
> to complete a 20 mile run.

Good luck Phil, I hope that your injury will heal. I am curious if you
can walk instead of running, while you are healing... Getting injured
is my big concern also, although I exercise a lot less than you did.

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Phil M. - 25 Mar 2005 16:33 GMT
Leafing through alt.support.diet, I read a message from
ignoramus15970@NOSPAM.15970.invalid of 25 Mar 2005:

>> You sound like my wife. She's 5' 5" and around 95 pounds. Has been
>> that weight ever since I met her in high school (about 30 years ago).
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>
> Good luck Phil, I hope that your injury will heal.

I'm sure it will heal if I give it a chance.

> I am curious if you can walk instead of running, while you are
> healing...

It's also painful to walk. Walking seems to cause my ankle to bend even
more than running and therefore pull on the tibialis anterior tendon.

> Getting injured is my big concern also, although I exercise
> a lot less than you did.

It's bound to happen to anyone that exercises past the point of normal
fitness. But from what I understand, my particular injury is not a
catastrophe.

Phil M.

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Ignoramus15970 - 25 Mar 2005 19:27 GMT
> It's bound to happen to anyone that exercises past the point of normal
> fitness. But from what I understand, my particular injury is not a
> catastrophe.

That's nice to hear. You have a long time before boston, maybe you can
rest a lot and jog through the marathon slowly. I hope that you will
do well, though. Personally, I do not want to exercise way beyond
simply being fit.

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Phil M. - 25 Mar 2005 19:33 GMT
Leafing through alt.support.diet, I read a message from ignoramus15970
@NOSPAM.15970.invalid of 25 Mar 2005:

>> It's bound to happen to anyone that exercises past the point of normal
>> fitness. But from what I understand, my particular injury is not a
>> catastrophe.
>
> That's nice to hear. You have a long time before boston, maybe you can
> rest a lot and jog through the marathon slowly.

That's a possibility. I might not have a choice but to jog slowly.

> I hope that you will do well, though. Personally, I do not want to
> exercise way beyond simply being fit.

Of course. That makes too much sense.

Phil M.

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For your goal is almost nigh;
Don't quit, for you're not a failure
UNTIL YOU FAIL TO TRY."

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Matthew - 25 Mar 2005 19:59 GMT
> Leafing through alt.support.diet, I read a message from ignoramus15970
> @NOSPAM.15970.invalid of 25 Mar 2005:
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>
> That's a possibility. I might not have a choice but to jog slowly.

Well when were you planning on starting your taper? Rest up and you
might surprise yourself.
Phil M. - 25 Mar 2005 20:27 GMT
Leafing through alt.support.diet, I read a message from
matthewvenhaus@warmmail.com of 25 Mar 2005:

>> Leafing through alt.support.diet, I read a message from
> ignoramus15970
[quoted text clipped - 17 lines]
> Well when were you planning on starting your taper? Rest up and you
> might surprise yourself.

Officially the taper was to start after next Sunday's 20-miler. But
tapering from 60 miles per week to zero was not part of the plan.

Phil M.
Matthew - 25 Mar 2005 16:33 GMT
> However, I'm sitting here on the couch today with an
> injury

Aack! I don't follow RR anymore; does this mean Boston is out for this
year?
Phil M. - 25 Mar 2005 16:27 GMT
Leafing through alt.support.diet, I read a message from
matthewvenhaus@warmmail.com of 25 Mar 2005:

>> However, I'm sitting here on the couch today with an
>> injury
>
> Aack! I don't follow RR anymore; does this mean Boston is out for this
> year?

I'm still going since my flight and hotel are non-refundable. I just
don't know if I'm running it or not. I'm taking a full week off of
running. Then I'll see how it goes. At any rate, I'll try to have fun
while I'm there.

Phil M.

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greg - 25 Mar 2005 16:24 GMT
> Isn't it meant to work that we eat until we satisfy our hunger?

Consider in our ancient past if food suddenly became available, what
would you do? Put it in the fridge? Nope. Pass thinking you might eat
again tomorrow? Nope. Food is scarce. You need to eat food when food is
available.

These signals, to the extent they exist at all, are nothing compared
with our need to eat. Now add in sensation specific satiety that when
you switch to a different type of food, as in a buffet, allows you to be
hungry again so you can eat more. That's our bodies way of making sure
we get a diverse diet and enough calories.

Getting enough calories is your brain's number one goal. It's not easily
placated in the majority of people whos ancestors were successfull at
surving starvation.
Polar Light - 25 Mar 2005 17:09 GMT
We often idealize the 'old days' without really having a clue as to what it
was really like in those days. There's nothing to tell us what or how much
our ancestors ate 10,000 yrs ago. Eating till satiated & being satiated
after eating only what we need to survive carries the assumption that food
was readily available & accessible whenever we got those hunger signals.
This is in direct contradiction with the generally accepted idea that food
was scarce & difficult to obtain, which is why we're born with the ability
to store the surplus as fat, the biological equivalent of 'saving for a
rainy day'.

It is very likely that we are genetically programmed to eat a lot whenever
food is available, whether it's because we've just hunted a mamooth or
because there's a mamooth supermarket nearby. It is also possible that our
bodies prefer the more calorically dense foods with lots of fat & carbs as a
natural way of getting 'value for money'. It's just like buying concentrated
shampoo, washing up liquid or fabric conditioner instead of the huge -but
highly diluted- 'value packs'. A more natural diet may well be healthier but
it won't change this built-in 'program' which is like the BIOS on your
computer.

We are also genetically programmed to have a couple of dozen kids & for
girls to start procreating at 12, when they get their periods. In our day &
age, this evolutionary fact has the potential to be more disastrous than our
built-in ability to store fat. For many years, the only way to control it
was through sexual abstinence of some sort, nowadays we have contraceptives.
Can you see the similarity with the fat storage program? So far we can also
control it through abstience.

The time may come when we also have a safe & effective way to control food
absorption and/or fat storage. That we haven't got it yet may have something
to do with the fact that whoever markets such product will become immensely
rich BUT we may find ourselves back in 1929, given the economic importance
of the slimming industry in today's Western world. Most food companies
(manufacturers, wholesalers & retailers) carry both fattening & diet
versions of their products, once we've got fat on mayo & marmalade we can
buy their low fat/reduced sugar versions. Millions of books, newspapers &
magazines are sold on the basis of the diets they publish. There's gyms,
health clubs, clinics, supplements, body fat monitors, scales,
medications....

> Isn't it meant to work that we eat until we satisfy our hunger?
>
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> I desire a more natural and instinctive relationship with food. Any
> thoughts?
magenta-c@webtv.net - 26 Mar 2005 19:49 GMT
>So if we're not actually hungry and eat
>just for comfort or out of boredom it
> means we must have some sort of
> emotional issues

Sorta have to disagree with this.  Sure, emotions often play a part, but
sometimes, at least in my own experience, it's simply that the food
tastes so good that we eat beyond satiety.  Yesterday, I had some yummy,
creamy homemade macaroni and cheese for lunch, and I wanted to eat the
whole serving, but I stopped at the halfway point.  Sure enough, in a
few minutes, I felt comfortably full and satisfied, and I knew that if
I'd finished it all, I'd be feeling stuffed and uncomfortable.

>wouldn't you say most people's WOE,
> certainly in the West, is not driven solely
> by hunger?

I think practically everyone, all over the world, wants to enjoy their
food, not simply take in necessary nutrients, which is perfectly good
and natural IMHO.  God created a huge selection of good, delicious
things for us to eat, which just reaffirms to me that eating was meant
to be a pleasure, not just a necessity.

>you need to exercise some measure of
> portion control.<snip> It seems most
> people on a weight loss diet or
> maintenance diet, including me, live this
> sort of self-denying life.

For myself, I don't think of moderate eating/portion control as
self-denial, but just the opposite - an enjoyable, satisfying and
wonderfully freeing WOE.  I'd personally feel much more deprived by a
diet that encouraged filling up on truckloads of extremely low-calorie
(but unsatisfying) foods like plain salad, than to enjoy moderate
portions of favorite foods like lasagne, pizza, fried chicken and mashed
potatoes, etc.  For me, true deprivation isn't about limiting how much I
can eat, but about taking away the foods that I love.

YMMV, etc... :)

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Chris Braun - 27 Mar 2005 02:45 GMT
>For myself, I don't think of moderate eating/portion control as
>self-denial, but just the opposite - an enjoyable, satisfying and
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>potatoes, etc.  For me, true deprivation isn't about limiting how much I
>can eat, but about taking away the foods that I love.

My philosophy is very similar (and I read your web page too, by the
way).  I also eat what I want, but moderately.  Tonight I went out to
dinner with friends and had some things that were richer than I'd
normally eat at home, but I ate moderately.  I had just a tiny piece
of bread with olive oil when they served that, skipped the appetizers
(which are large and rich at this restaurant), ate a salad with a
light vinaigrette, and had about half of my salmon (which was grilled
with butter and garnished with sun dried tomatoes, artichoke hearts,
and goat cheese) and of my mashed potatoes.  And I had some wine.  I
was very pleasantly full, but not overstuffed.  (And I have some nice
leftovers to take for Monday's lunch.)  And I also had a chocolate
candy this morning :-).

Tomorrow I will go out for Easter brunch and indulge myself, and I'll
then go back to eating as I always do -- pleasurably and moderately.
It seems to work :-).

Chris
262/130s/130s
started dieting July 2002, maintaining since June 2004
 
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