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Hunger signals vs Portion control
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BCJ - 25 Mar 2005 12:51 GMT Isn't it meant to work that we eat until we satisfy our hunger?
So if we're not actually hungry and eat just for comfort or out of boredom it means we must have some sort of emotional issues that we are trying to eleviate with food. I'm not saying it's wrong to have emotional issues. It's just questionable whether food is the answer to dealing with them. Irregardless of how we deal with them, wouldn't you say most people's WOE, certainly in the West, is not driven solely by hunger?
So for the average person, if you want to avoid blowing up like a balloon you need to exercise some measure of portion control. This means saying to yourself 'I want it but I can't have it' or 'I want to eat more but that's all I'll eat'.
It seems most people on a weight loss diet or maintenance diet, including me, live this sort of self-denying life. It's not so bad really. You can get used to it. But what do you think? Are we condemned to live this way? Is there a way back to trusting our hunger signals? A lot of modern food with all its sugar, salt and what not can be very addictive. Does the answer lie with a more natural diet?
I desire a more natural and instinctive relationship with food. Any thoughts?
Ignoramus15970 - 25 Mar 2005 13:54 GMT > Isn't it meant to work that we eat until we satisfy our hunger? Looks like it is meant this way, but not for everyone.
> So if we're not actually hungry and eat just for comfort or out of > boredom it means we must have some sort of emotional issues that we [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > wouldn't you say most people's WOE, certainly in the West, is not > driven solely by hunger? Quite possibly, yes.
> So for the average person, if you want to avoid blowing up like a balloon > you need to exercise some measure of portion control. This means saying to [quoted text clipped - 10 lines] > I desire a more natural and instinctive relationship with food. Any > thoughts? Low carb seems to provide a way for me to not be hungry. I used to live on the exact terms that you are describing. After a while it became somewhat tiring. Maybe, at some point, LC will "stop working" for me, I do not know.
We became fat because our hunger signals did not work properly.
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Mary_Gordon@tvo.org - 25 Mar 2005 14:11 GMT I think a component of the problem is that we are fighting our own biology. We all know that genetics DOES play a role (i.e. for some people, their built in metabolism dictates a strong tendency to lean and mean, or rolly polly, and trying to get it to do something other than that is a fight).
I don't know if you've read about Pima Indians from Arizona - essentially, an ethnic group that lived for thousands of years in a very harsh environment, who have evolved very, very thrifty metabolisms. Put them in the modern world, and they have a tendency to obesity that really is in their genes (i.e. their body is always getting ready for famine, so it can make them crave more than they need, plus suck every last calorie out of what they eat and stash it on their hips!).
I've had three babies. Believe me, when you are pregnant, your body WANTS you to gain more than just the weight of the baby etc. Your body wants some extra on it for insurance, not just to sustain pregnancy, but for breastfeeding. Its bizarre when its happening to you - you know you've eaten enough, but you are STARVING all the time, and it ain't emotional. Its your body on autopilot, fighting with your brain.
Its a product of the same kinda things the Pimas faced in times past. Our bodies are still worried we won't catch a wooly mammoth or find enough yams in the forest, so they make us eat more than we need to have that cache of body fat to live on.
And we're built to CRAVE fats and sugars - ever wondered why we aren't built to crave brussel sprouts and carrot sticks? Its to make us eat more fats and sugars in time of plenty to get us through the leaner times....which in the Western world just never come.
I think another factor is how long we were really meant to live. Even at the turn of the century, the average lifespan was only 40 something, and it was even shorter earlier on. So, if you'd been lucky enough to be able to get your mitts on way too much food and get fat - no worries - you probably would die from something else (like infection) LONG before you got any fat related illnesses. So, your body set the priority on pigging out as the best big picture strategy for survival of the greatest number. There are still a number of traditional societies where fat women are very desirable.
Its frustrating.
Mary G. 195/135/132-135 and holding...with fingernails!
BCJ - 26 Mar 2005 00:56 GMT Yes you make some good points there. We've reached a point in the Western world where our lifespan has been greatly increased, and we can enjoy food as never before. Maybe portion control and self denying is the price we pay for this.
BTW I went to the work cafeteria the other day, rare for me because I usually bring my own lunch, and they had brussels sprouts. As soon as I saw them I had an instant hunger for them. It was like my body craved their nutrients. I occassionally experience this with cheese. Maybe I haven't eaten cheese for a while, then out of the blue I say to myself 'I want some cheese'. Maybe I'm low on calcium so my body sends me a signal to eat it. I like this kind of eating. And food tastes so good this way.
Unfortunately it doesn't work this way most of the time. Meal times are planned and it's usually decided earlier what I will be eating. But maybe I can change this. It would mean not planning meals - getting to a meal time and then saying 'What do I feel like eating?' and then making it. And it may mean some looseness in meal timing too. Having absorbing activities helps a lot with that. Many times I'm on the computer and miss a meal time by an hour without realizing it. I need more of these activities, and better ones than just wasting time on a computer.
Phil M. - 25 Mar 2005 15:56 GMT Leafing through alt.support.diet, I read a message from bjoh2004@yahoo.com.au of 25 Mar 2005:
> Isn't it meant to work that we eat until we satisfy our hunger? You sound like my wife. She's 5' 5" and around 95 pounds. Has been that weight ever since I met her in high school (about 30 years ago). Makes sense though. I've managed to lose 80 pounds through calorie restriction and exercise. The exercise seems to keep everything in sync. I can usually eat around 2500 to 3500 calories a day on a BMR of around 2000 because of running. However, I'm sitting here on the couch today with an injury ;-( Now I'm really testing my hunger signals and will power. For me, it takes more will power to restrict my caloric intake than it takes to complete a 20 mile run.
> So if we're not actually hungry and eat just for comfort or out of > boredom it means we must have some sort of emotional issues that we > are trying to eleviate with food. Good point. Probably true for a lot of people. But I think some of us also have this genetic code that tells us that if food is plentiful, we should eat it now, because it may be scarce in the future. That would give us a chance to survive a famine. Those that did not survive also had less of a chance to pass on this genetic code. Anyway, that's my excuse. ;-)
> Irregardless No such word. Sorry, but that's another one of my emotion hang-ups, besides eating past the satiated point. ;-)
> of how we deal with them, wouldn't you say most people's > WOE, certainly in the West, is not driven solely by hunger? If most in the West are considered overweight, then you are probably correct.
> So for the average person, if you want to avoid blowing up like a > balloon you need to exercise some measure of portion control. This [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > signals? A lot of modern food with all its sugar, salt and what not > can be very addictive. Does the answer lie with a more natural diet? All very good questions. Personally, I needed help controlling my irrational overeating. Using software to track my caloric intake and exercising is fine with me. I'm perfectly happy measuring everything I eat. However, that may be because of my OCD tendencies.
Phil M.
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Ignoramus15970 - 25 Mar 2005 16:30 GMT > You sound like my wife. She's 5' 5" and around 95 pounds. Has been that > weight ever since I met her in high school (about 30 years ago). Makes [quoted text clipped - 5 lines] > me, it takes more will power to restrict my caloric intake than it takes > to complete a 20 mile run. Good luck Phil, I hope that your injury will heal. I am curious if you can walk instead of running, while you are healing... Getting injured is my big concern also, although I exercise a lot less than you did.
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Phil M. - 25 Mar 2005 16:33 GMT Leafing through alt.support.diet, I read a message from ignoramus15970@NOSPAM.15970.invalid of 25 Mar 2005:
>> You sound like my wife. She's 5' 5" and around 95 pounds. Has been >> that weight ever since I met her in high school (about 30 years ago). [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > > Good luck Phil, I hope that your injury will heal. I'm sure it will heal if I give it a chance.
> I am curious if you can walk instead of running, while you are > healing... It's also painful to walk. Walking seems to cause my ankle to bend even more than running and therefore pull on the tibialis anterior tendon.
> Getting injured is my big concern also, although I exercise > a lot less than you did. It's bound to happen to anyone that exercises past the point of normal fitness. But from what I understand, my particular injury is not a catastrophe.
Phil M.
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Ignoramus15970 - 25 Mar 2005 19:27 GMT > It's bound to happen to anyone that exercises past the point of normal > fitness. But from what I understand, my particular injury is not a > catastrophe. That's nice to hear. You have a long time before boston, maybe you can rest a lot and jog through the marathon slowly. I hope that you will do well, though. Personally, I do not want to exercise way beyond simply being fit.
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Phil M. - 25 Mar 2005 19:33 GMT Leafing through alt.support.diet, I read a message from ignoramus15970 @NOSPAM.15970.invalid of 25 Mar 2005:
>> It's bound to happen to anyone that exercises past the point of normal >> fitness. But from what I understand, my particular injury is not a >> catastrophe. > > That's nice to hear. You have a long time before boston, maybe you can > rest a lot and jog through the marathon slowly. That's a possibility. I might not have a choice but to jog slowly.
> I hope that you will do well, though. Personally, I do not want to > exercise way beyond simply being fit. Of course. That makes too much sense.
Phil M.
 Signature Don't quit when the hill is steepest, For your goal is almost nigh; Don't quit, for you're not a failure UNTIL YOU FAIL TO TRY."
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Matthew - 25 Mar 2005 19:59 GMT > Leafing through alt.support.diet, I read a message from ignoramus15970 > @NOSPAM.15970.invalid of 25 Mar 2005: [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > > That's a possibility. I might not have a choice but to jog slowly. Well when were you planning on starting your taper? Rest up and you might surprise yourself.
Phil M. - 25 Mar 2005 20:27 GMT Leafing through alt.support.diet, I read a message from matthewvenhaus@warmmail.com of 25 Mar 2005:
>> Leafing through alt.support.diet, I read a message from > ignoramus15970 [quoted text clipped - 17 lines] > Well when were you planning on starting your taper? Rest up and you > might surprise yourself. Officially the taper was to start after next Sunday's 20-miler. But tapering from 60 miles per week to zero was not part of the plan.
Phil M.
Matthew - 25 Mar 2005 16:33 GMT > However, I'm sitting here on the couch today with an > injury Aack! I don't follow RR anymore; does this mean Boston is out for this year?
Phil M. - 25 Mar 2005 16:27 GMT Leafing through alt.support.diet, I read a message from matthewvenhaus@warmmail.com of 25 Mar 2005:
>> However, I'm sitting here on the couch today with an >> injury > > Aack! I don't follow RR anymore; does this mean Boston is out for this > year? I'm still going since my flight and hotel are non-refundable. I just don't know if I'm running it or not. I'm taking a full week off of running. Then I'll see how it goes. At any rate, I'll try to have fun while I'm there.
Phil M.
 Signature Don't quit when the hill is steepest, For your goal is almost nigh; Don't quit, for you're not a failure UNTIL YOU FAIL TO TRY."
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greg - 25 Mar 2005 16:24 GMT > Isn't it meant to work that we eat until we satisfy our hunger? Consider in our ancient past if food suddenly became available, what would you do? Put it in the fridge? Nope. Pass thinking you might eat again tomorrow? Nope. Food is scarce. You need to eat food when food is available.
These signals, to the extent they exist at all, are nothing compared with our need to eat. Now add in sensation specific satiety that when you switch to a different type of food, as in a buffet, allows you to be hungry again so you can eat more. That's our bodies way of making sure we get a diverse diet and enough calories.
Getting enough calories is your brain's number one goal. It's not easily placated in the majority of people whos ancestors were successfull at surving starvation.
Polar Light - 25 Mar 2005 17:09 GMT We often idealize the 'old days' without really having a clue as to what it was really like in those days. There's nothing to tell us what or how much our ancestors ate 10,000 yrs ago. Eating till satiated & being satiated after eating only what we need to survive carries the assumption that food was readily available & accessible whenever we got those hunger signals. This is in direct contradiction with the generally accepted idea that food was scarce & difficult to obtain, which is why we're born with the ability to store the surplus as fat, the biological equivalent of 'saving for a rainy day'.
It is very likely that we are genetically programmed to eat a lot whenever food is available, whether it's because we've just hunted a mamooth or because there's a mamooth supermarket nearby. It is also possible that our bodies prefer the more calorically dense foods with lots of fat & carbs as a natural way of getting 'value for money'. It's just like buying concentrated shampoo, washing up liquid or fabric conditioner instead of the huge -but highly diluted- 'value packs'. A more natural diet may well be healthier but it won't change this built-in 'program' which is like the BIOS on your computer.
We are also genetically programmed to have a couple of dozen kids & for girls to start procreating at 12, when they get their periods. In our day & age, this evolutionary fact has the potential to be more disastrous than our built-in ability to store fat. For many years, the only way to control it was through sexual abstinence of some sort, nowadays we have contraceptives. Can you see the similarity with the fat storage program? So far we can also control it through abstience.
The time may come when we also have a safe & effective way to control food absorption and/or fat storage. That we haven't got it yet may have something to do with the fact that whoever markets such product will become immensely rich BUT we may find ourselves back in 1929, given the economic importance of the slimming industry in today's Western world. Most food companies (manufacturers, wholesalers & retailers) carry both fattening & diet versions of their products, once we've got fat on mayo & marmalade we can buy their low fat/reduced sugar versions. Millions of books, newspapers & magazines are sold on the basis of the diets they publish. There's gyms, health clubs, clinics, supplements, body fat monitors, scales, medications....
> Isn't it meant to work that we eat until we satisfy our hunger? > [quoted text clipped - 19 lines] > I desire a more natural and instinctive relationship with food. Any > thoughts? magenta-c@webtv.net - 26 Mar 2005 19:49 GMT >So if we're not actually hungry and eat >just for comfort or out of boredom it > means we must have some sort of > emotional issues Sorta have to disagree with this. Sure, emotions often play a part, but sometimes, at least in my own experience, it's simply that the food tastes so good that we eat beyond satiety. Yesterday, I had some yummy, creamy homemade macaroni and cheese for lunch, and I wanted to eat the whole serving, but I stopped at the halfway point. Sure enough, in a few minutes, I felt comfortably full and satisfied, and I knew that if I'd finished it all, I'd be feeling stuffed and uncomfortable.
>wouldn't you say most people's WOE, > certainly in the West, is not driven solely > by hunger? I think practically everyone, all over the world, wants to enjoy their food, not simply take in necessary nutrients, which is perfectly good and natural IMHO. God created a huge selection of good, delicious things for us to eat, which just reaffirms to me that eating was meant to be a pleasure, not just a necessity.
>you need to exercise some measure of > portion control.<snip> It seems most > people on a weight loss diet or > maintenance diet, including me, live this > sort of self-denying life. For myself, I don't think of moderate eating/portion control as self-denial, but just the opposite - an enjoyable, satisfying and wonderfully freeing WOE. I'd personally feel much more deprived by a diet that encouraged filling up on truckloads of extremely low-calorie (but unsatisfying) foods like plain salad, than to enjoy moderate portions of favorite foods like lasagne, pizza, fried chicken and mashed potatoes, etc. For me, true deprivation isn't about limiting how much I can eat, but about taking away the foods that I love.
YMMV, etc... :)
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Chris Braun - 27 Mar 2005 02:45 GMT >For myself, I don't think of moderate eating/portion control as >self-denial, but just the opposite - an enjoyable, satisfying and [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] >potatoes, etc. For me, true deprivation isn't about limiting how much I >can eat, but about taking away the foods that I love. My philosophy is very similar (and I read your web page too, by the way). I also eat what I want, but moderately. Tonight I went out to dinner with friends and had some things that were richer than I'd normally eat at home, but I ate moderately. I had just a tiny piece of bread with olive oil when they served that, skipped the appetizers (which are large and rich at this restaurant), ate a salad with a light vinaigrette, and had about half of my salmon (which was grilled with butter and garnished with sun dried tomatoes, artichoke hearts, and goat cheese) and of my mashed potatoes. And I had some wine. I was very pleasantly full, but not overstuffed. (And I have some nice leftovers to take for Monday's lunch.) And I also had a chocolate candy this morning :-).
Tomorrow I will go out for Easter brunch and indulge myself, and I'll then go back to eating as I always do -- pleasurably and moderately. It seems to work :-).
Chris 262/130s/130s started dieting July 2002, maintaining since June 2004
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